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My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 11:02am On Mar 01, 2017
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blaise26abj(m): 11:09am On Mar 01, 2017
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by PUSSYHOE(m): 11:13am On Mar 01, 2017
you dont know you are married?

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 11:17am On Mar 01, 2017
Even when I told him about it

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by Edwinmason(m): 11:23am On Mar 01, 2017
you did wrong... no excuse

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blaise26abj(m): 11:25am On Mar 01, 2017
amyzon:
Even when I told him about it

So if your child comes and tells u he stole biscuits in his class, would you let it pass because he told you about it? The least you will do is let him know that it is wrong to steal. Yes, you are not his child, but you are his wife, his pride and if u do something he doesn't like, he will let you know.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by iPopAlomo(m): 11:28am On Mar 01, 2017
Sorry...
I need to understand how hard to say "I am so sorry... I'm married..." is...?!!!

That's six words mehn... six Fucking short words!!!

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by torqque7(m): 11:29am On Mar 01, 2017
Madam it seems you need special deliverance..how will you feel if your husband dignified a girl by giving her number weda real or fake number?smh for some women..you just gave the doctor the impression that you are loose and can cheat on your husband,you should be ashamed of yourself. If I was your husband I'd do worse sef,what rubbish?A married woman giving out number.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 11:32am On Mar 01, 2017
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by darbeelicous(f): 11:35am On Mar 01, 2017
breathe....... Breathe
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Calm down.......
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Now talk, this time be more gentle kiss kiss
torqque7:
Madam it seems you need special deliverance..how will you feel if your husband dignified a girl by giving her number weda real or fake number?smh for some women..you just gave the doctor the impression that you are loose and can cheat on your husband,you should be ashamed of yourself. If I was your husband I'd do worse sef,what rubbish?A married woman giving out number.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by Nobody: 11:39am On Mar 01, 2017
blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.




You so on point.I totally agree with you.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by torqque7(m): 11:40am On Mar 01, 2017
darbeelicous:
breathe....... Breathe
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Calm down.......
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Now talk, this time be more gentle kiss kiss

Lol..my dear her story is just really annoying..even as a girlfriend if you give another guy your number then it means you can entertain him and that will make me loose respect for you as my girlfriend let alone my WIFE?haba now..and she still doesn't think she did wrong smh

Anyway il be more genrle next time kisshow r u today?smiley

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by darbeelicous(f): 11:44am On Mar 01, 2017
that's good!
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I'm cool, happy new month... kiss
torqque7:


Lol..my dear her story is just really annoying..even as a girlfriend if you give another guy your number then it means you can entertain him and that will make me loose respect for you as my girlfriend let alone my WIFE?haba now..and she still doesn't think she did wrong smh

Anyway il be more genrle next time kisshow r u today?smiley
Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by torqque7(m): 11:46am On Mar 01, 2017
amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Don't you know how sick some guys are? I have heard of a guy that can't see a woman squat to pee..he will jump her and want to fvck her,I thought it was a joke until two of his friends confirmed it to me,my point is some guys are not sound upstairs so having a baby or been pregnant etc doesn't mean jack to them,as long as you have female parts they are good to go.

So what you should have done was say sorry doctor I'm married I don't give out my number to men except it's business related plus don't be angry,SIMPLE as ABC.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blesoh(f): 11:47am On Mar 01, 2017
It was very wrong of you to have even given him the number, second mistake, why did you tell ur husband? Some things are better left like that. And the doctor is not even responsible seeing that you just gave birth and your husband is just outside waiting.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 11:48am On Mar 01, 2017
[quote author=torqque7 post=54166547]

Don't you know how sick some guys are? I have heard of a guy that can't see a woman squat to pee..he will jump her and want to fvck her,I thought it was a joke until two of his friends confirmed it to me,my point is some guys are not sound upstairs so having a baby or been pregnant etc doesn't mean jack to them,as long as you have female parts they are good to go.

So what you should have done was say sorry doctor I'm married I don't give out my number to men except it's business related plus don't be angry,SIMPLE as ABC.[/quote

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blesoh(f): 11:50am On Mar 01, 2017
amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting
Madam create what scene , can't u politely decline his request? As a married woman you should know your worth, the doctor didn't force u to give ur number.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by torqque7(m): 11:50am On Mar 01, 2017
darbeelicous:
that's good!
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I'm cool, happy new month... kiss

Yeah thanks miss,a happy new month to you too..I have plans for the month and some of my plans will need your attention smiley

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by Joiceee(f): 11:50am On Mar 01, 2017
darbeelicous:
breathe....... Breathe . . . . Calm down....... . . . . Now talk, this time be more gentle kiss kiss
hehehehe
Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by megareal: 11:52am On Mar 01, 2017
In marriage, extra niceties outside spells trouble. You should have just told the Dr. off.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 11:52am On Mar 01, 2017
blesoh:
It was very wrong of you to have even given him the number, second mistake, why did you tell ur husband? Some things are better left like that. And the doctor is not even responsible seeing that you just gave birth and your husband is just outside waiting.

I felt it was funny a guy approaching a woman with a 2 month old baby, that we will discuss it and laugh over it. Didn't think he would see it that way

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blesoh(f): 11:53am On Mar 01, 2017
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torqque7:


Don't you know how sick some guys are? I have heard of a guy that can't see a woman squat to pee..he will jump her and want to fvck her,I thought it was a joke until two of his friends confirmed it to me,my point is some guys are not sound upstairs so having a baby or been pregnant etc doesn't mean jack to them,as long as you have female parts they are good to go.

So what you should have done was say sorry doctor I'm married I don't give out my number to men except it's business related plus don't be angry,SIMPLE as ABC.
My dear I don't even understand, simple sorry I can't give you my number would have solve this problem.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blesoh(f): 11:56am On Mar 01, 2017
amyzon:

I felt it was funny a guy approaching a woman with a 2 month old baby, that we will discuss it and laugh over it. Didn't think he would see it that way
Hahahahahaha laugh kwa, my husband will keep reminding me everyday about the incident, next time don't give out ur number and also keep your mouth shut cos even if it was a wrong number till tomorrow he won't believe u.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 12:03pm On Mar 01, 2017
blesoh:

Hahahahahaha laugh kwa, my husband will keep reminding me everyday about the incident, next time don't give out ur number and also keep your mouth shut cos even if it was a wrong number till tomorrow he won't believe u.
Well I guest being married is a different school of its own

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blesoh(f): 12:05pm On Mar 01, 2017
amyzon:

Well I guest being married is a different school of its own
My dear everyday learning oh, no graduation.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by ritababe(f): 12:10pm On Mar 01, 2017
even if I give my number to some guys my guy get jealous talkless of husband.
you indirectly telling the doctor you are open-minded.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by blaise26abj(m): 12:11pm On Mar 01, 2017
amyzon:

I felt it was funny a guy approaching a woman with a 2 month old baby, that we will discuss it and laugh over it. Didn't think he would see it that way

Please irrespective of his reaction , don't stop telling him things. That is the best way to quickly understand your man. What he likes and doesn't like. Same goes for men. It builds trust. Someone said somethings are best left unsaid, but sorry, in marriage everything should be shared and discussed.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by Nobody: 12:19pm On Mar 01, 2017
it would have been simple to tell the doctor politely that u married and that u dont give strange men your digits.

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 12:27pm On Mar 01, 2017
blaise26abj:


Please irrespective of his reaction , don't stop telling him things. That is the best way to quickly understand your man. What he likes and doesn't like. Same goes for men. It builds trust. Someone said somethings are best left unsaid, but sorry, in marriage everything should be shared and discussed.
I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by mctowel01: 12:34pm On Mar 01, 2017
amyzon:

I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing
Is that how you justify your mistake and his genuine reaction? By breeding secrets

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Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 12:43pm On Mar 01, 2017
[quote author=mctowel01 post=54167886]
Is that how you justify your mistake and his genuine reaction? By breeding secrets[/quote
No I'm not trying to justify it and I have already apologized. But when I gave wrong number I honestly didn't think I was doing something wrong, and tomorrow it might be that a guy greeted me and I returned the greeting will be the problem. So I don't know
Re: My Husband Not Talking To Me, Because I Gave A Man Wrong Number by amyzon: 12:54pm On Mar 01, 2017
ritababe:
even if I give my number to some guys my guy get jealous talkless of husband.

you indirectly telling the doctor you are open-minded.
Gave wrong number not my number

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