enuk80:
I forgot to add this to my previous comment...op does not even show any sign of remorse..she thinks she did the right thing by giving d dumpy Dr. her no..her response to peoples comment shows she is a proud type...she is dis type that don't take correction easily because she thinks hse is right...I hope u r not making mistake that u will regret tomoro

Exactly my mind too... She's just not seeing her wrongs here...She's only apologizing for peace sake.... Wrong number or right, it's wrong.. Let's call a spade a spade..

hmmm

gat nothing to say

SorftWerk:
You are looking for a young dick abi... I know u will go there again, keep kick-starting what you cannot finish!

How many minutes enjoyment wan crash marriage sef? Highest 10-20 mins... Women sef!

Hmmm...

amyzon:

I don't work there, I only came for family planning pill that will last for 3 years, plus its a general hospital, u hardly meet the same doctor twice

Madam! I thought u came here for genuine advice? 80% of d posts here condemned ur actions n u r still arguing.

What u did was wrong,u shouldn't have given him a fake number. The time ur brain booted n gave u dat as an excuse,it should have also reasoned towards telling d man dat...OGA,can't u see am with a baby? Am married n don't ghive my number out. Kapish....d man won't kill u and u will be more respected.

Men r super jealous,what u see as nothing is actually something to them. Pleas try n guard ur marriage,no let small pikin mind cause kasala for u. Happy married life

amyzon:

Gave wrong number not my number

You made a bad judgement. Apologize to your man. We all make mistakes especially with things we are used to before getting married and which we used to consider as harmless before. Marriage can be sweet when we learn how to say little things like "I am sorry" instead of coming to ask for advice from strangers. All the best


In the UK that Doctor can lose his licence to practice and even go to jail for unethical behaviour and harassment.

Caveat: Take relationship advice on the internet at your own risk

amyzon:

I don't work there, I only came for family planning pill that will last for 3 years, plus its a general hospital, u hardly meet the same doctor twice

this woman is still a small girl..... smh you lack experience and common sense

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If I were your husband, I'd be more worried about the kind of conversation you had with him for him to even think it's alright to ask for your number.

Besides, saying "No, I am married" accompanied by a stern look isn't so hard.

mctowel01:

Is that how you justify your mistake and his genuine reaction? By breeding secrets

Make una leave this woman alone.
She just wants someone to support her irrational decision.
The question is not whether you gave out "wrong" number or right number BUT the action of giving out a number in the first place.

blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

Baba ogbon.
You too wise. In fact, over-wise do you.
Wehdone sir.

This is the best comment, by a mile.
God bless you bro

Just admit you are open and weak which will crash your marriage someday.
May God help you to be bold enough to face your Devil and tell them I am Married.

Ladies Like you (Who does not have a NO for an answer) are the reason Many Families are broken

If my wife do that I will redflag her and Start Preparing for Life without a wife.

I will Judge you: What you did is wrong,hurt his pride and No justification at all.

y did u even give him d number?
Do u have any health challenges dat u were suppose to get back to him later?
My sister,u gave him d number without prominent reasons....
....CARRY UR CROSS

u told him just to make him feel jealous or just to make ursef feel good that u are. beeen wanted by men outside despite u have given birth? and u expect him to smile sheepishly at you? u feel u dint do anything wrong? if i was in his shoes i would even do worst than the silent treatment his giving you....iranu

No man/woman is an island of knowledge the fact that you have to post these truly shows that you are someone that wants to learn, no harm will befall u if u have politely told the young doctor off, n as regards giving of wrong number, i think to the male folks you will be seen as trying to play smart which will increase there interest the more. So sister i am not judging you by your action, rather i feel that sometimes we act n speak according to the depth of our knowledge. Your husband will come around just allow him to cool off 4 now n prepare him somtin u knw he likes very well, i believe he will have a change of heart

blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

I thought only ladies had the notion that "every man" that ask for their number has an hidden not-so-hidden anymore motive.

That you now have a husband doesn't mean you're forbidden from talking to every man out there.


I really don't know what relationships are like, but I feel these are stuffs couples should laugh over not fight over.

I'd be madder than your husband, was I in his shoes, what rubbish!


I don't understand women that simply can't politely say NO. Nonsense!

Then there's the fact that you are married but still play silly games, you are not to be trusted biko! I swear this story dey vex me.

If i was in your husbands shoes, i would be more annoyed than him. What's wrong with telling him u are married? It seems u like controversies or better still u like men coming around u. Please keep apologizing to that man.

This is obviously a fictitious story meant to generate traffic through comments.
Seemed to be plenty of them on NL these days.

What reasonable wife would agree to give another man her number, even if its a wrong number?

amyzon:
Even when I told him about it

Madam, as a married man myself, the best advise to take remains that of the first person to comment.

He nailed it spot on.
All the best!

blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

Than you so much for this jare. So saying 'no' is now too difficult cause she does not want to hurt the feelings of the doc. Rubbish.

With the availability of true caller apps it's childish to give someone a wrong number no matter married or single, its your right to say yes or no.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Since he is not in his right sense, you shld av put some senses in to him by simply tell him, sorry I can't give you my number. Or better still,let d guy knows u r married.
Caped it all....U were very much wrong.

OP, why are you asking for advice here when you're not ready for correction. Many are condemning your action as wrong, yet you're still trying to justify it.

You don't need our advice again since you have already made up your mind to keep it a secret from now on.

In that alone justifies your husband reaction. You're not ready for correction and not ready to change. No need advising you.

Wish you well in your marriage.

You did wrong woman. As a married woman you do not give your number to men who are making advances to you. Even if it is a wrong number. You should have told the doctor that you are a married woman. I think your eye still dey outside marriage. If I be your husband, I go suspend you for 1 month without salary.

And why on earth would a married woman have the patience to give a toaster a wrong number It simply means you are interested! And that means whenever he sees you again, maybe coincidentally there is a topic up for discussion If na me, you must go back go giyam de correct one, nonesense

Btw how is "I am married and can't give out my number to any man" now an insult? He asked of your number and you quickly gave him sth, agbalumo. Your problem is that you still find toasters welcome. I despise your kind of girls.

Laburos:
Just admit you are open and weak which will crash your marriage someday.
May God help you to be bold enough to face your Devil and tell them I am Married.

Ladies Like you (Who does not have a NO for an answer) are the reason Many Families are broken

If my wife do that I will redflag her and Start Preparing for Life without a wife.

I will Judge you: What you did is wrong,hurt his pride and No justification at all.

Hmmm. Word!!!!

amyzon:

Well I guest being married is a different school of its own

I find myself in your shoes every day, I just don't know how to say no. If I were in your shoes, I'll have done exactly what you did or even given my real number.
I guess your husband is very possessive (which is a good thing) so no vex too much.
Thanks for sharing, I never knew giving out digits is that bad, I always wonder why my bf puts on a stony face the moment I mention something similar. Well, now I know.

Why would you tell him about it? That is disrespectful... giving the doctor a wrong number might be your way of turning down interested men BUT telling your husband about it is down right disrespectful.

Next time such a scenario happens - do NOT tell your husband about it, whether you gave a wrong number or you refused to give any phone number.

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

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It's one thing to apologize, n anoda to understand dt what u did was wrong. For some guys, a wrong number means that the woman is game but only playing hard to get. Its not rude to politely tell a man irrespective of his status that ure off the market. A decent chap would apologize n compliment u end of story. No one whether among the whites of free morals will in their right senses support ur action as proper. Coming on this forum after apologising to ur husband to look for validation means ure not really as sorry as u claim to be.

i wonder what she means by gave him wrong number. soon you will say you let him wire you but you didnt let him offload inside. na small small e dey start. u get luck if na me , i go don dey look you with another eye.
lets call a spade a spade. this girl eye still dey out side. tell us, a handsome young man asked you for ur number and you couldnt just resist him or hurt his feelings. stop all this bull crap of i dont know how to be rude to guys. so if say na one agbero boy for oshodi ask you for your number, you for give am?

Stop apologising and ignore him

Haven't done anything wrong