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blaise26abj:


Please irrespective of his reaction , don't stop telling him things. That is the best way to quickly understand your man. What he likes and doesn't like. Same goes for men. It builds trust. Someone said somethings are best left unsaid, but sorry, in marriage everything should be shared and discussed.

I just liked this comment (and your firstcomment- so full of wisdom), but what if the husband is a violent man? Wisdom should be applied. She can do it 60% tell 40% don't tell for now.

EdDave:
This is obviously a fictitious story meant to generate traffic through comments.
Seemed to be plenty of them on NL these days.

What reasonable wife would agree to give another man her number, even if its a wrong number?

If you think things like that don't happen, then it's either you don't live in the real world or you are simply naive.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

I dont think u have any experience about guys
By giving him dat wrong no u hv giving him d impression dat u are a cheater u would have shun him in full boldness & let him no his boundary
Ur husband is a gentleman u for reach ur mama house if i am ur husband.

You insulted your husband by giving the man your no, whether wrong or right. I'm also married but I always go straight to the point by telling men like that, that am sorry but I can't give them my contact. So go ahead and apologise to your husband.
#peace#

megareal:
In marriage, extra niceties outside spells trouble. You should have just told the Dr. off.

Period!

U think say ur husband go happy if u tell am say another man asked 4 ur number abi? How can u be so foolish to even listen 2 him? U neva tell us the complete story anyways.

Why give number at all? " I am married should have done it all.your husband is just still angry, little more time will do

It was wrong and ignorance made you do it. You are now married, with a child for that matter. And the young doc knew this. So you even have a perfect excuse to have declined or better still strongly shunned his overtures. Even giving him a wrong number doesn't speak well of you as a responsible married woman. It will give him the wrong message that you are available. Anyway, we are all learning.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

so why did he ask for ur number if u were thinking he doesn't flirt? Maybe he asked for the number so he will be monitoring when u fall sick abi?
If I call u olodo no vex oo.

go back and give im yhur number naw.....


maybe that will make im appy

You messed up big time, whether wrong or no wrong number you gave the Doctor a green card.

You were wrong. You knew why he asked for your number all you had to do was turn him down politely.

The day you will mistakenly give your real number na you sabi how you go explain to your husband when call start to enter.

NO OR AM MARRIED WOULD HAVE BEEN THE BEST THING TO SAY BUT AS FOR YOUR HUSBAND HE IS JUST BEEN JEALOUS ITS WAS RIGHT YOU TOLD HIM, I REALLY WONDER WHY HE HIS BOILING LIKE HOT WATER.... AND IF YOU GO THRU HIS PHONE HE FIT GET SIDE CHICKS OR HIM TO NO THEY GIVE GIRLS HIM NUMBER OR ASK FOR THERE NUMBER.... AS LONG AS THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU AND THE DOCTOR I NO SEE REASONS TO BE ANGRY AFTER ALL NA ONE DAY PERSON THEY MAKE FRIENDS... WE WERE NOT BORN WITH FRIENDS WE WERE ALL STRANGERS AT ONE POINT.

torqque7:
Madam it seems you need special deliverance..how will you feel if your husband dignified a girl by giving her number weda real or fake number?smh for some women..you just gave the doctor the impression that you are loose and can cheat on your husband,you should be ashamed of yourself. If I was your husband I'd do worse sef,what rubbish?A married woman giving out number.

What's the big deal in a number? It's something that can be gotten anywhere.

Let's say the doctor got her number from her hospital card, what will the husband do? Ban her from using a phone?

amyzon:
Well I guest being married is a different school of its own

What is your zodiac sign? It says a lot about you...

This is the reason why i don marry.....



















FoOlish woma.n

amyzon:

Gave wrong number not my number

you're still defensive of your irresponsible action. Maybe that's why your husband has found it hard to forgive you.

You are lucky you are not married to someone like me, because I will cut off your fingers and feed them to vultures. I will not divorce you. No I won't. But I will make you miserable the rest of your life in my house. I know the only thing that can separate us is death. So don't even think of divorce . Yes! I don't care you are or your level of maturity but you need to understand what marriage entails and what your roles, as a mother, are. Your mother should have told you all that before marriage(that is if she lives). I understand many young ladies these days are closer to their mothers than fathers.


You need not give room for infidelity. Bible says flee from immoral chastity, so flee!!

Laburos:
Just admit you are open and weak which will crash your marriage someday.
May God help you to be bold enough to face your Devil and tell them I am Married.

Ladies Like you (Who does not have a NO for an answer) are the reason Many Families are broken

If my wife do that I will redflag her and Start Preparing for Life without a wife.

I will Judge you: What you did is wrong,hurt his pride and No justification at all.

Abeg make we hear word.
Egoistic men like you are the reason marriages are scattering. This is obviously the first time she is learning that it's a sin/crime to give out numbers.

Whatever happened to correcting in love?

I really hope you're still a teenager cus you have alot of growing up to do.

freecocoa:
I'd be madder than your husband was I in his shoes, what rubbish!


I don't understand women that simply can't politely say NO. Nonsense!

Then there's the fact that you are married but still play silly games, you are not to be trusted biko! I swear this story dey vex me.

There are going to be different shades of women (and people generally).

Some will enjoy saying no, some not so much.

All the above was on the assertion that

1. The Doctor was lusting towards her and was going to ask her out.
2. The OP wanted a piece of the Doctor so she didn't put him off out-rightly.
3. She had plans of getting down with the Doctor.

Damn, you're reasonable!

amyzon:

Well I guest being married is a different school of its own

Being married is indeed a different school. But you should be wiser next time, if you want to remain married.
Plus, I don't subscribe to the school of thought that forbids you to tell your husband about the drama. Listen, it's not that you're looking for trouble by letting him know. It's just a way of cementing friendship and creating a talking point.
I freely discuss anything (I mean anything) with my wife and vice versa because we've cemented friendship through such chitchat and even irrelevant ones.

Again, all the best

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Alright ma'am, what you did is wrong, please apologise to your husband and don't ever give your numbers out. Whether right or wrong,to cut all future ties.

how old is this lady in question? i think she needs to grow up as she seems to think there nothing wrong with what she did.

Shut up ur mouth ewu!!! U talk as if u were still single. U r not the type DAT did my ass

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

AZeD1:

What's the big deal in a number? It's something that can be gotten anywhere.

Let's say the doctor got her number from her hospital card, what will the husband do? Ban her from using a phone?

what goes around comes around. Let's see how you handle the situation when you get married

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

what a weak lady you are... common no you can't say very imatured. this is why am not phased with all the marriage marriage hype with naija girls, they just desperate to impress society that do not give a phuck about them

@OP
Woman, go thou and sin no more.

@ everyone, it haff do, na. Una wan kill am ni? U aff corrected her, but make una leave am to go take correction. Don't over condemn abeg.

Snow5:
Giving the man alone a number spells doom for your husband..

Giving the man wrong number spells rebound for the doctor guy.. Cos he is gonna still come around and keep searching for you..

Telling your husband that silky act spell danger for you..

You just insulted your husband by giving out your number.. Even when it's not for a business purpose.. Even you rightly know he was flirting... Even when you know your husband came with you to the hospital... And even when you still holding your 2months old baby...

You disrespected you husband, you baby, and you self


If I be your husband... You will leave my house to your family house for one week... And you will learn in the hard way...

I go wooz you slap join sef.... Nonsense and ingredients

....This dude funny die. On a serious note you have said it all. She disrespected and insulted her husband.

Men are clowns shikina!!!

blaise26abj:


Please irrespective of his reaction , don't stop telling him things. That is the best way to quickly understand your man. What he likes and doesn't like. Same goes for men. It builds trust. Someone said somethings are best left unsaid, but sorry, in marriage everything should be shared and discussed.

Another sensible person spotted.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

So many single mothers without husbands out there, so, the doctor is well within his right to approach you. You should have said no if you're still interested in your marriage because the doctor would think you're playing hard to get and would up his game during your next doctor's appointment.