iPopAlomo:
Sorry...
I need to understand how hard to say "I am so sorry... I'm married..." is...?!!!

That's six words mehn... six Fucking short words!!!

Abeg thank you Jare!!!!! Just what I was thinking.

iPopAlomo:
Sorry...
I need to understand how hard to say "I am so sorry... I'm married..." is...?!!!

That's six words mehn... six Fucking short words!!!

Q.E.D

By the way,woe betide all men who go after other men's wives even after knowing the women are married
Despicable lot

tammie24:
Stop apologising and ignore him

Haven't done anything wrong

Lol you are definitely not married. Ignore your annoyed or angry spouse on such a delicate matter like this? Lool

Men don't have to be an extremist in marriage.
If you wanted to cheat on him without him knowing, you could do it
he should appreciate the fact that you were open enough to tell him the whole story
all he has to do is to caution you if he doesn't like your approach
lack of trust on either side is capable of pushing married women/men to cheat

amyzon:

I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing

is that how you do ur things? u never accept and believe you are wrong?

menh person wey marry this one don marry olosho put for house oo

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

So you don't know some men like nursing mothers/pregnant women because they look more beautiful. Op, you get luck I'm not your husband. You have given the man an impression and I'm very sure he will continue to pester you whenever he sees you.

Until me I see a picture of you then I will know if the guy get mental problem or not.

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

The bolded portion shows that you are not the type that is ready to learn.

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

yes u did wrong to have told him at all, afterall u handled it already!

iamtewwy:
u told him just to make him feel jealous or just to make ursef feel good that u are. beeen wanted by men outside despite u have given birth? and u expect him to smile sheepishly at you? u feel u dint do anything wrong? if i was in his shoes i would even do worst than the silent treatment his giving you....iranu

You seem to understand how the female mind works..

amyzon:

I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing

Mistake.
If that's your approach, after this experience, you need to learn a lot.
I'm afraid, worse things could be lurking.
Abeg, wise up

tammie24:
Stop apologising and ignore him

Haven't done anything wrong

Home wrecker spotted...

Madam wrong number, young doctor... See pipu dah wantu thief ya husband o... Ur head go soon correct.

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I feel sorry for the husband.

His Queen and keeper of his castle is immature and socially inept.

I doubt it if you are ready for marriage.. You actually erred, the best thing you should have done was just to tell the male doctor off. It shows you a lady of lesser virtue.

u really suck!! I just developed some kind of hatred for you right now.

amyzon:

I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing

Omohjick:


They keep advicing u but u keep turning them down. Please do whatever u like if u feel its right, plz kontinue!

Shikenna

I wonder why she posted the story when she won't listen to people's advice. You're wrong accept that and make amends jor

The op is not even remorseful...smh at the husband...a married woman shouldn't give her number to strangers...be it right or wrong number..

nothing wrong in giving out ur number as a married woman...continue! you hear? Eranko.

blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

my brother i swear u get brain.

i jst wana believe the op is not a grown married woman. its young girls that engage in such misgivings. whats difficult in challenging the man to let him know u are married and that he's crossed a line by asking you for your number?

monerozi5590:
....This dude funny die. On a serious note you have said it all. She disrespected and insulted her husband.

The thing vex me gan!!! I swear... Shuuu..

She still get that spirit of flirting for her body till now even after she Don Marry....

Abeg nigga... Good evening jor.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Very clearly you are already thinking of how to cheat on your husband. Why give number at all? Even unmarried girls give wrong number too, so what's the difference between you and an unmarried lady who gives wrong number? Any guy you give wrong number believes you are just playing hard to get and if he really fancied you or has the strength, will continue to pester you.
So what will be your answer next time you sees the Doctor? Something tells me you are not proud of your husband at all and that is why you denied him that day. So why were you not wearing your wedding ring?

amyzon:

Gave wrong number not my number

My friend please there is no moral justification for telling lies. "I'm married" would save all the energy.

amyzon:
Even when I told him about it

See women mentality sha Ayaf die

Shut up u idiot

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Snow5:
Giving the man alone a number spells doom for your husband..

Giving the man wrong number spells rebound for the doctor guy.. Cos he is gonna still come around and keep searching for you..

Telling your husband that silky act spell danger for you..

You just insulted your husband by giving out your number.. Even when it's not for a business purpose.. Even you rightly know he was flirting... Even when you know your husband came with you to the hospital... And even when you still holding your 2months old baby...

You disrespected you husband, you baby, and you self


If I be your husband... You will leave my house to your family house for one week... And you will learn in the hard way...

I go wooz you slap join sef.... Nonsense and ingredients

Bros, calm down o. Lol

eherbal:
what goes around comes around. Let's see how you handle the situation when you get married

Trust me, i couldn't be bothered. Getting someone's number, is not that hard. Its 2017 not 1950. A trip to true caller would enlighten you.

I feel if this is your way, u might give a correct number to someone u want to have as a friend someday. Men generally dont bother about a current situation.....we quickly move on to judge possibilities of more serious encounter in the future.

You have hurt him a great deal !

Thats your wife woman... You are the man !

In America, if you tell a lady 'hi, you look beautiful'. Before asking for number seff, the reply is 'I have a bf'
Next time, just tell the men asking for your number you're married