RangeSports:
You are lucky you are not married to someone like me, because I will cut off your fingers and feed them to vultures. I will not divorce you. No I won't. But I will make you miserable the rest of your life in my house. I know the only thing that can separate us is death. So don't even think of divorce . Yes! I don't care you are or your level of maturity but you need to understand what marriage entails and what your roles, as a mother, are. Your mother should have told you all that before marriage(that is if she lives). I understand many young ladies these days are closer to their mothers than fathers.


You need not give room for infidelity. Bible says flee from immoral chastity, so flee!!

After suggesting violence against someone you're supposed to be in love with, you rounded off with a bible quote. Way to go Nigerian Christians!

amyzon:

I don't work there, I only came for family planning pill that will last for 3 years, plus its a general hospital, u hardly meet the same doctor twice

so, you and your hubby want to keep nacking , enjoying unprotected s3x for 3 years non stop? whereby he can offload as he like , you are enjoying oooo!! wow

See what a moment of indiscretion can bring...smh

Dilish007:



Home wrecker spotted...

Madam wrong number, young doctor... See pipu dah wantu thief ya husband o... Ur head go soon correct.

instead of get so angry he should have told her the right thing to do and let her know he doesn't like it
Not being so inconsolable! I get irritated by that kind of behaviour
What if she decide not to tell him next time

considering the number of married women wey i don wire, i must authoritatively say that this op here is a coded olosho where still dey find prick. i bet you there are a thousand and one guys like me there waitng to wire you married or not.
stop pretending. most of us hate pretenders. like i asked you before, IF SAY NA AGBERO FOR OSHODI OR AJEGUNLE ASK FOR YOUR NUMBER, YOU FOR GIVE AM?

DMeanMan:


I thought only ladies had the notion that "every man" that ask for their number has an hidden not-so-hidden anymore motive.

That you now have a husband doesn't mean you're forbidden from talking to every man out there.


I really don't know what relationships are like, but I feel these are stuffs couples should laugh over not fight over.

my dear...I thought same thing.....I'm surprised at how everyone wanna chew the woman raw.....@ op....just dont give out ya no next time to avoid troubles....i would as well expect my hubby to laugh with me should such a thing occur but since individuals are diff,just learn who ur hubby is and steer clear for ya own peace of mind.....dont mind these people here blasting u unnecessarily...u know yasef and ya worth and not what some of them term u to be....

amyzon:

I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing

[b]u need to share. [/b]Giving him wrong no means u will eventually give him d right no because he will get angry at u next time u meet n u may just decide to give him d right no.

micxwell:

Bros, calm down o. Lol

Bross no.. U check am na... E nor make sense na

This girl just make the pineapple when I dey chop now now just sour for my mouth...

Had it been nairaland get "Konk" button eh.... I for press Konk for her head this evening..


She nor even feel remorseful self.. She still dey follow people argue here....

Sincerely you did nothing wrong but why do i think your husband sucks?.

AZeD1:

What's the big deal in a number? It's something that can be gotten anywhere.

Let's say the doctor got her number from her hospital card, what will the husband do? Ban her from using a phone?

Hmm getting the number from the card is different from giving him yourself,the point we are trying to make is that her action will give the doctor the impression that she is open to philandering.

I have told women to be-careful of any man that knows that you are married and he still want you, dont love you because he will never be jealous of you cause you will be with your husband while he is coming to steal at a short time without jealousy .

If you are my wife you will go and live with your mother for 1 year before i will consider you back or not. What on earth will you give a number, that means you can also do something in the oza room.

If you ignores him then he will know that he is a big fool to ask a married woman a number.... Will he be happy if another man ask his wife for a number?

. Therefor you have committed offence and you must cleanse your husband's mind with a 2 He goats (Smelly ones) 2 Kola nuts 3 big fouls, 4 tubers of yam , 2 kegs of palm-wine , a port of soup with bush meat. and 4 copies of apology letter with your signature stating that you will never do it again until death do you part. Thats my judgement now......

I could not help but comment.

My dear,

A doctor you do not know asks for your number, and you care so much about how he would feel if you were rude/disrespectful by not giving out a number or reprimanding him for being disrespectful to you and your husband (YES, he should respect the sacrament of marriage)

You found the issue funny, and thought you and your husband would laugh about it

Your husband was honest, and expressed his anger and pain regarding the issue, and even offered you a solution for next time (do not give any number at all, and let the person know you are happily married and do not appreciate the fact that he is disrespecting you, your husband and even your little one)

At this point is where you should have just said "oh baby, I did not see it from that perspective; thank you for letting me know how you truly feel about such situations; you mean the world to me, and I would never do anything to hurt you; this is a man you love and cherish and just had a baby with; instead, it looks like you care more about not offending some stranger doctor than the feelings of your husband

Madam, this is an opportunity for you to make your husband feel loved and cherished; stop acting proud and do the needful

Who cares how you perceived the situation; the issue here is your husband you love feels down and hurt and angry about what happened, and you are blessed that he even opened up to you about it; this is not a you vs. him fight; this is a you lifting up his spirits when he is down especially as your actions caused him to feel that way (whether you intentionally did so or not is not the issue)

Swallow your pride woman; love conquers all

This is a big mistake from you,,you don't please others to displease ur self nah

BoboYekini:
I understand you jare. You must be quite the glowing sexy young mum. Your husband can't help but be jealous. But it's not something that can't be laughed over. Kini big deal? Your husband should go in with you at your next appointment and be introduced to the Doc. One girl I tried to chyke did that once and the 3 of us(her boyfriend, her, and I) had a good laugh and are still friends today.

This is the only sensible comment I have read so far! For crying out loud what's wrong with giving someone your number? The fact that she gave him a wrong number forecloses any chance of further communication with him as well makes it clear she was not interested in such. Only a deeply insecure man will make case out of this scenario.
@OP, I strongly believe there are underlying issues which triggered this reaction from your hubby that you need to iron out with him. Yes there are trust issues and you have to check yourself well.

Marriage does not confer an asocial status on one.

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

Na wah so

Some people Wey get sense still dey Nairaland.

U try Jare.
Sound opinion you ve got.

amyzon:

I don't work there, I only came for family planning pill that will last for 3 years, plus its a general hospital, u hardly meet the same doctor twice

u made more sense here,

Don't blame ur hubby, he will b a fool not to get angry.

DukeNija:


Lol you are definitely not married. Ignore your annoyed or angry spouse on such a delicate matter like this? Lool

she has been apologising
What else does he want?

Keep apologising and watch things blow out of proportion

tammie24:
instead of get so angry he should have told her the right thing to do and let her know he doesn't like it
Not being so inconsolable! I get irritated by that kind of behaviour
What if she decide not to tell him next time

Every man has his way of dealing with issues. This way is her husband's way.

If she decides to start keeping stuffs from him, she will personally set her home on fire.

I change am for my gf because she didn't tell me she was travelling for two days. Make we no come talk of keeping secrets in a marriage. Its called #poison

DMeanMan:


I thought only ladies had the notion that "every man" that ask for their number has an hidden not-so-hidden anymore motive.

That you now have a husband doesn't mean you're forbidden from talking to every man out there.


I really don't know what relationships are like, but I feel these are stuffs couples should laugh over not fight over.

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Noone says she is forbidden to talk the man or men. But the redflag was raised in this case. He was all over her conversation with the matron, he asked for the number after the matron left. Yet she gave a number. It is lack of respect for the husband. If the doc wanted something else other than her body, he would have asked in the presence of the matron.

Though you might be Ok with it with your spouse. Different strokes for different folks

How come no one have thought it wise to ask the question, "Why is the 'doctor' asking for his customer's number in the first place?" I thought there are things you don't do while performing your duty. Obviously, the 'doctor' is more concerned about the number of phone numbers he can get and number of females he will slay while on the job.

On a side note, your husband is a gay, yes, you made a mistake but to keep malice, he is bound to die early if he keeps that kind of style in his marriage.

Next time, tell anyone who is asking for your number while on duty to mind their job and not phone numbers

Simply tell the person, you are married, end of story!

Finally, tell the self-deprived male you married as a husband to grow up and act as a man.

Also if this is a an alternative truth, don't do it again, ever!

[quote author=amyzon post=54168169][/quote]pls stop rationalising your fault. Heed d counsel of fellow Nairalanders n move on.Defending ur action could b smart not wise.wise women keep homes.cheers.

Memyselfu2009:
NO OR AM MARRIED WOULD HAVE BEEN THE BEST THING TO SAY BUT AS FOR YOUR HUSBAND HE IS JUST BEEN JEALOUS ITS WAS RIGHT YOU TOLD HIM, I REALLY WONDER WHY HE HIS BOILING LIKE HOT WATER.... AND IF YOU GO THRU HIS PHONE HE FIT GET SIDE CHICKS OR HIM TO NO THEY GIVE GIRLS HIM NUMBER OR ASK FOR THERE NUMBER.... AS LONG AS THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU AND THE DOCTOR I NO SEE REASONS TO BE ANGRY AFTER ALL NA ONE DAY PERSON THEY MAKE FRIENDS... WE WERE NOT BORN WITH FRIENDS WE WERE ALL STRANGERS AT ONE POINT.

I wonder oo....I dont know y he should be that angry with her.....she should check the hubby wella cos na them they pretend pass....nonsense

torqque7:
Madam it seems you need special deliverance..how will you feel if your husband dignified a girl by giving her number weda real or fake number?smh for some women..you just gave the doctor the impression that you are loose and can cheat on your husband,you should be ashamed of yourself. If I was your husband I'd do worse sef,what rubbish?A married woman giving out number.

no mind her,the truth is women brain are exactly like a fish brain some of them are so dull and silly,If not for offspring I think men should live alone you will live long and avoid unnecessary drama

YOU PIPPU ARE TALKING YA OWN! MADAM, PLEASE I NEED THE NAME OF THE HOSPITAL, LOCATION AND DESCRIPTION OF THE DOCTOR, AND HIS NAME. YOUR HUSBAND IS A DEEP THINKER AND KNOWS THE ENDGAME. ON BEHALF OF WHOEVER YOUR HUSBAND IS, I WANT TO WAGE WAR ON THE MORRAFUCKER

obyrich:
This is the only sensible comment I have read so far! For crying out loud what's wrong with giving someone your number? The fact that she gave him a wrong number forecloses any chance of further communication with him as well makes it clear she was not interested in such. Only a deeply insecure man will make case out of this scenario.
@OP, I strongly believe there are underlying issues which triggered this reaction from your hubby that you need to iron out with him. Yes there are trust issues and you have to check yourself well.

Marriage does not confer an asocial status on one.

Its ur type that asks married women for their numbers...

torqque7:


Hmm getting the number from the card is different from giving him yourself,the point we are trying to make is that her action will give the doctor the impression that she is open to philandering.

Her action doesn't signify anything. Only shallow minded people think like that.

nma4god:
my dear...I thought same thing.....I'm surprised at how everyone wanna chew the woman raw.....@ op....just dont give out ya no next time to avoid troubles....i would as well expect my hubby to laugh with me should such a thing occur but since individuals are diff,just learn who ur hubby is and steer clear for ya own peace of mind.....dont mind these people here blasting u unnecessarily...u know yasef and ya worth and not what some of them term u to be....

Okay.....u would expect your husband to laugh over it that you gave a man your attention talk more of giving a number out? Just forget the fact that she gave out the wrong number cos I see dat as a justification on her part...


Visualise this scene....

Your husband was talking with a lady.. And to the extend he gave her his number.... And when you came home... he was telling you he gave a lady the wrong number today cos she was into him and with all shinning smile on his face..
Would you laugh it off too?

Or you would tell your husband what he did was disrespectful and he shouldn't even pass through that spot he gave the lady the number again...

Tell me the truth... Which one u go do? Laugh or vex

YACAA:
I could not help but comment.

My dear,

A doctor you do not know asks for your number, and you care so much about how he would feel if you were rude/disrespectful by not giving out a number or reprimanding him for being disrespectful to you and your husband (YES, he should respect the sacrament of marriage)

You found the issue funny, and thought you and your husband would laugh about it

Your husband was honest, and expressed his anger and pain regarding the issue, and even offered you a solution for next time (do not give any number at all, and let the person know you are happily married and do not appreciate the fact that he is disrespecting you, your husband and even your little one)

At this point is where you should have just said "oh baby, I did not see it from that perspective; thank you for letting me know how you truly feel about such situations; you mean the world to me, and I would never do anything to hurt you; this is a man you love and cherish and just had a baby with; instead, it looks like you care more about not offending some stranger doctor than the feelings of your husband

Madam, this is an opportunity for you to make your husband feel loved and cherished; stop acting proud and do the needful

Who cares how you perceived the situation; the issue here is your husband you love feels down and hurt and angry about what happened, and you are blessed that he even opened up to you about it; this is not a you vs. him fight; this is a you lifting up his spirits when he is down especially as your actions caused him to feel that way (whether you intentionally did so or not is not the issue)

Swallow your pride woman; love conquers all

Baby, please are you married? Cos I think I just found the one.

enuk80:
I forgot to add this to my previous comment...op does not even show any sign of remorse..she thinks she did the right thing by giving d dumpy Dr. her no..her response to peoples comment shows she is a proud type...she is dis type that don't take correction easily because she thinks hse is right...I hope u r not making mistake that u will regret tomoro

I am glad I am not thinking about this alone. as I read through her response,i see her as sm1 stubborn too. just imagine,tryin go justify her reaction. her responses are irritatingly annoying and dumb. #idonseeanytinwrongin it. yeye pple

amyzon:

I don't work there, I only came for family planning pill that will last for 3 years, plus its a general hospital, u hardly meet the same doctor twice

You are loose and your type will be very easy to nack