you guys should spare her, if you are matured as you people claim on this forum you'll realized that the lady is young, naive a wise woman wouldn't give a fake or real number in the first place and would definitely not even tell her husband, it goes to show the young lady didn't mean any harm to her husband, she's just a child in an adult body and the husband is also a child, all he had to say was don't give strangers fake or real number and would have explained to her why she was wrong, it shows its two young people in a marriage or two unwise couples in a marriage and two unwise couples in a marriage is seen when a man kneels for a woman and the woman stands in front of him,it shows they are both stupid, an example of why a man doesn't kneel before a woman is when i think it Rachel when she was approaching her Isaac, when the woman learnt it was her husband, she immediately gat down from the horse that way she wont be taller than husband or her husband looking up to her

A simple why do you need it and a sorry i can't give you would send him off. But now you have created a room for the next move from the guy. Next time he sees you its another round of "i tried your number...somebody else picked...bla bla bla". And your husband knows this. So next time tell him a simple and polite no.

agongajoseph:
then that's a different ball game, that's unproffesional of him to do...against work ethics....he'll be sacked for that.

No its not. If his aim is to sleep with the woman, does it matter how he got her number?

amyzon:

I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing

You don't sound like you're really sorry for your actions. Your act was immatured ( how old are you anyways?)
You actually did two wrong things which is quite baffling for a married woman to act that way.

1. You led on the Doc by giving him a number (real or fake). This is quite disrespectful and immatured. A simple "Sorry but I'm married" would have sufficed. Don't you know the Doc will lose more respect for you for your immatured act?

2. You disrespected your hubby by giving out ANY number to begin with. He may never trust you again! (My ex of several years back did something similar and I lost complete trust in her before the relationship eventually died off.

imagine what would have happened if your husband had walked in while you were calling out the number . ?
how will you have explained to him that you intended giving out a wrong number ? he wuldnt have believed you.

your husband was outside and u still comfortable to call out any number at all. u get mind oh.

what if an over sabi nurse had given him info and then he queried you when you came out ? he wud neva have believed you gave him the wrong number.


looks like op has A way of giving flirtatious men a lesser version of what they ask for.

he asked for number u gave him wrong one what if he asked for A quicky ?
you wud have given him a Mouth Gig instead ?? lol

prevention is always better than cure .

just learn to be firm with your no. thats all

I cannot understand wat u achieved as a lady by giving wrong number to someone, instead of u to say no u don't give ur number, u prefer to dole out wrong numbers. This is childish I don't know wat u want to achieve with the wrong number I pray u meet ur helpers in life all positioned to give u wrong numbers

Nonsense lady is dis one wife set..........

AZeD1:

No its not. If his aim is to sleep with the woman, does it matter how he got her number?

that is if she'll succumb....if she's wise she'll report to the Admin of d hospital

SorftWerk:
lol

You better don't talk

foolishness of d highest rank. No story wey person no go shuk hear for-for dx naija

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

my dear you have seen the house says you are wrong... And yes you are.. Next time just say no an married, simple... Hope ur husband gets over it

amyzon:
Even when I told him about it

Olosho na olosho! Sorry!

Ifyjuli25:
I even want something that will make my butt bigger sef

Lol I have the answer to your problem but it doesn't come cheap..women sef,so na big Butt be your problem?oya pic of your small butt or..

OnankpaBa:
gat nothing to say

Jose OnankpaBa Mourinho So na ontop dis serious mata naim you no get anytin to tok I hail thee

what happened to sorry i can't if u tink he has ulterior motive or a big No.

blesoh:
It was very wrong of you to have even given him the number, second mistake, why did you tell ur husband? Some things are better left like that. And the doctor is not even responsible seeing that you just gave birth and your husband is just outside waiting.

what is this one saying??...... " Somethings are better left untold"

blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

so we still have some sane pple in here

agongajoseph:
that is if she'll succumb....if she's wise she'll report to the Admin of d hospital

That the doctor got her number from try caller or a friend ?
Doctors are allowed to have a life you know.

Memyselfu2009:
NO OR AM MARRIED WOULD HAVE BEEN THE BEST THING TO SAY BUT AS FOR YOUR HUSBAND HE IS JUST BEEN JEALOUS ITS WAS RIGHT YOU TOLD HIM, I REALLY WONDER WHY HE HIS BOILING LIKE HOT WATER.... AND IF YOU GO THRU HIS PHONE HE FIT GET SIDE CHICKS OR HIM TO NO THEY GIVE GIRLS HIM NUMBER OR ASK FOR THERE NUMBER.... AS LONG AS THERE IS NO RELATIONSHIP HAPPEN BETWEEN YOU AND THE DOCTOR I NO SEE REASONS TO BE ANGRY AFTER ALL NA ONE DAY PERSON THEY MAKE FRIENDS... WE WERE NOT BORN WITH FRIENDS WE WERE ALL STRANGERS AT ONE POINT.

I know youre still single so you wont understand how marriage wprks. Dont worry when you catch your wife on your matrimonial bed with anoda man.. Thats when youll know that every details count

Y should u give number at all , it means u like d doctor. if I were to be ur husband I would have driving u out of. my hasu.

You should be happy your husband is the only angry person...

I expect the Doctor to be angry as well and probably give you a fake IV next time you visit him.

Why give a guy a fake number in the first place? Let your NO be NO, and your YES be YES!


Hope you won't give a fake KISS and a fake SEX soon in the name of being MRS NICE?

blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

Where the hell

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heaven are you from?

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

u don't know he was flirting, but u gave him a wrong number? if u did not know he was flirting, why don't u assume he wanted to call n ask of d health of Ur baby or if the control pills worked for u. Ur contradicting urself n defending urself even when Ur errors is been outlined by people, am sure this is what got Ur husband angry, not just d fact that u gave d doc d number. but Ur assertive defense.

damage control, still beg Ur hubby, this time accepting that u thought it thru, and saw u goofed, but that it was not our of wrong intentions.
and wen next d dokita approaches you to tell you about the wrong number ish.
then stare him in d face, smile and say, "you should have gotten my point now, I don't give my numbers to oda men cos am a married woman"
and walk away politely. (then you should also tell your hubby wen this happens too, in a playful manner tho)

ur husboy is bin unnecessarily childish abeg.... getting angry yesterday is manageably justifiable but xtending it to a new day makes him a jealousy baby & 2ndly as a married woman u owe nobody an xcuse so y giving out numbers in unwarranted situations weather real or fake nunbers? itz like a man always following hiz fwend to d beer palour but doesn't drink, question is "aw long is he gonna hold still"?

Oyind17:
You better don't talk

easy nah... It's really not what u think...

What led to him asking for your number?

blaise26abj:
You did wrong. Because if u return to the hospital the doctor will still use the opportunity to talk to you. You should have cut it off right there and then because u know why he asked for your number. You really insulted your husband. And stop giving men wrong numbers just tell them no . it shows you don't know how to say no to advances despite being married. He will come around sha

I know some people will come here and say, " why did you tell him? , what he doesn't know won't kill him" , well if u don't get to know what he doesn't like now, you will end up continuing this behavior until he finds out himself and his reaction might be worse than this.

You nailed it

distilledwalex:

I know youre still single so you wont understand how marriage wprks. Dont worry when you catch your wife on your matrimonial bed with anoda man.. Thats when youll know that every details count

yes i am.. single she would have giving the doctor the right number and kept quite about it. that is why communication and trust is important in a relationship he gave the number out and he told her husband about it the husband should then trust that his woman can never misbehave.. i hope you can case you wife at home

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

madam,it seems ur way no pure b4 u got married,me sef no fit take am,u better beg him very well....

I'll jilt a girlfriend over this, how much more a wife!

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

madam,it seems ur way no pure b4 u get married,me sef no fit take am,u better beg him very well....

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

you dey yarn dust madam,u r no longer on d street,u r married for crying out loud or are u a baby mama??which kind excuse be this,even if he is ben carson,doctor my foot