DMeanMan:


I thought only ladies had the notion that "every man" that ask for their number has an hidden not-so-hidden anymore motive.

That you now have a husband doesn't mean you're forbidden from talking to every man out there.


I really don't know what relationships are like, but I feel these are stuffs couples should laugh over not fight over.

thank u sir, ur comment is exceptional.. am sorry mrs bt ur hobby have low seft esteen . Had its been the doc was a truck puncher, will he hav reacted the way he did?? and u told him 4 you guyz to hav something to gist and laugh about bt got angry?? Some men are weird.

Mznaett:


Story.
Did you read where she said she had her baby with her? And she thought the husband would just laugh it off? She did nothing wrong my dear. Her only mistake is being sincere to her man.

This is always my problem with you. Since you don't know that she disrespected the husband by giving the number (fake or real) to a flirting doctor. Continue. #usen ikeme kangha.

PhantomD:
LOL, good one... but seriously why get married if u can't share ur every tots?

Share which thoughts again? Please? This scenario speaks for itself. The last one she shared with him caused her much... So what on earth does she want to share again? Abegii,you guys should just free me with your "Abrahamic" kind of lifestyle

LordofNairaland:


Some doctors sha. I am a doctor and this is something I will never do. I believe he knew you were married.

You did nt specify, Native Doctor?

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Madam wife you still dey argue abi? You better take corrections before unimaginable divorce sets in.

Don't you know you have lost a reasonable percentage of trust from your husband? keep arguing.
na to tell am say; I'M MARRIED, hard for you?

So na ur type dey distribute numbers like rain drops to guys when u be single abi? keep it up.

Please when is OP coming back with the my husband threw me out of the house thread...I pray your husband does not have something sinister in mind for you?...na those wey no dey talk too much dey revengeful...madam work on your weak attitude....don't be afraid to offend people for you family.. Be rude if necessary..unless you thing your marriage is not worth it..peace

amyzon:
Thank u all for all the advice , I have learnt my lesson and it won't happen again. Thanks for all the insult too. I have been apologizing since and he has forgiving me. Thanks alot

That's the key thing and what matters. You've picked the lessons and ignored the insults, that's the right attitude to have particularly in your condition. Wish you a safe delivery ahead.

Something is really wrong with you if as a married woman you go about giving your number to men when they ask for it whether right or wrong . If nah your husband dey do this kin thing you go like am? STOP GIVING OUT RIGHT OR WRONG NUMBER as it makes you look cheap.

Edipee:
This is always my problem with you. Since you don't know that she disrespected the husband by giving the number (fake or real) to a flirting doctor. Continue. #usen ikeme kangha.

And you know I won't give in to that?
"disrespect what"? Some men take this life so serious...Please,just spare me with all that... This is just one of the reasons some ladies prefers staying single for life...
I read this story with my girls and non of them is in support of the man's action.

Damsman10:


You did nt specify, Native Doctor?

Lol.

I am a medical doctor and an herbalist.

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

so if the doctor had asked you for sex that moment ,you would have given an excuse of being on your period instead of bluntly telling him you're married and not interested??do you get the picture now ?

Why you go give am any number at all? Married woman...sheena is in ur blood, it hasnt just blown out

Is it even a most to give out ur number...face it, you should be bold enof to say a capital "NO" and make ur husband feel secured.. Seriously, it's heartbreaking wen a married woman does things of this nature.. U do not owe those mother f*ckers any xplanation why you wouldn't give out ur number.

Pls lovely nairalanders i wish to know how to open thread on this platform. Kindly help one of you, thanks in advance. Its urgent pls.

She is a big time flirt....men watch your response and body language before they proceed to the next step....and having reached the step of asking for phone number simply means that the woman played along

Azil:
If I were your husband, I'd be more worried about the kind of conversation you had with him for him to even think it's alright to ask for your number.

Besides, saying "No, I am married" accompanied by a stern look isn't so hard.

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

Did u not have ur wedding ring on?
U should try to make it as noticable as possible so that the guy threads carefully in the first place
If he does advance further then u can tell him ur married n ur sorry or whatever

richiearmany14:
No man/woman is an island of knowledge the fact that you have to post these truly shows that you are someone that wants to learn, no harm will befall u if u have politely told the young doctor off, n as regards giving of wrong number, i think to the male folks you will be seen as trying to play smart which will increase there interest the more. So sister i am not judging you by your action, rather i feel that sometimes we act n speak according to the depth of our knowledge. Your husband will come around just allow him to cool off 4 now n prepare him somtin u knw he likes very well, i believe he will have a change of heart

You are wise JaRe

Truly we learn every day

YACAA:


Sweetheart,

It is understandable if some women find it difficult to say no; but is that the best? We should all learn to say yes when we mean yes, and no when it is no; nothing in between. If you find it hard to say no to others then it means you do not have a will of your own, which makes it hard for people to trust your decisions.

No her husband is not possessive; her husband is merely unhappy that his wife can not stand up for herself in a situation that is disrespectful (there is nothing respectable about another man asking for a married woman's number; what is he going to use the number for?)

In addition, men know themselves hence her husband would be very upset that his wife could not decipher the intentions of the doctor and defend her husband and her marriage

And to add to that, it was very unprofessional of the doctor

This is how we open doors and windows for rubbish issues to enter our marriages

Perfectly understood. You didn't have to make me feel less human for me to understand that.
What I'm saying is that these hypocrites insulting her and saying how they'll send her packing are liars, go nau their wife is the dictator in their homes or they are cheats themselves.

If she came out with a story of how her hubby gives out false numbers, they'll all be talking about how she should be grateful he even gives false numbers, how she should be prayerful and patient, how she should wear red pant etc.

Let's treat everyone fairly and with love.

What happened to, "butt off slowpoke, kiss my ass, etc" why been nice to unprofessional, retarded man from a quack sch bringing the medical profession into disrepute.

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

U don't need to insult him.
Did u tell him u came with ur husband and that he is right now outside waiting for u?
Did u even tell him u r married or

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

U don't need to insult him.
Did u tell him u came with ur husband and that he is right now outside waiting for u?
Did u even tell him u r married or because he broke ur defenses, u just gave in like a single mother gosh, i wonder what stuff are made off.
So ur going back to the hospital and u meet the doctor what would be ur impression and how would u feel, fast woman, shy woman or a woman who cannot hold her grounds.
Sorry to say dis but if my sweet month friend wey dey use talk confuse women meet u, u can't escape.
Maybe u never wanted to hurt the doctor right?

See you.
She is justifying it and please read the article before you display your sluttish life here.
You are just been naive and a big fool.
Go get a life.



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Abeg make we hear word.
Egoistic men like you are the reason marriages are scattering. This is obviously the first time she is learning that it's a sin/crime to give out numbers.

Whatever happened to correcting in love?

I really hope you're still a teenager cus you have alot of growing up to do.
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Listen to yourself.......... You need to shut the hell up....

If this woman came here to say she caught her hubby giving out fake numbers and so decided not to talk to him till he tenders apologies, will you support her? Tell her he's damn wrong?
One of you even told a lady in a similar case to wear red pant for a cheater.

I give out fake or sometimes real numbers too, when they call I simply tell them off or give the phone to my bf to help me out. I'm working on saying no but due to my temperament it's not easy. Luckily for me, le boo is well matured.

Let's try to see things from another perspective to give a non partisan advice.
Sorry for any insult dished out anyway

I will pray for you.
You seem to have the tendency to cheat. God help you.

amyzon:

I really thought we were that close and that we share and understand everything. To tell u the truth, I don't pray similar thing happens but if it should happen again, number or no number I'm so not sharing

Laburos:
See you.
She is justifying it and please read the article before you display your sluttish life here.
You are just been naive and a big fool.
Go get a life. :-

I've said it before, you're a child that has alot of growing up to do.....
That being said, I don't roll in the mud with pigs. Go find your fellow pigs and stay out of matters beyond your IQ

Just say you are married ( quote author=amyzon post=54166175]So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting[/quote]

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

madam you better accept your fault now and look for a way of calming down your husband na small thing you don see
if pple start to advise your hubby from outside you would no the simple reality

Everyone is overreacting here. It was a fcking fake number, period. A fake number is no number. Your husband overreacted. I doubt your friendship /relationship foundation is solid. If it was there shouldn't be trust issues.

athaliya:


Perfectly understood. You didn't have to make me feel less human for me to understand that.
What I'm saying is that these hypocrites insulting her and saying how they'll send her packing are liars, go nau their wife is the dictator in their homes or they are cheats themselves.

If she came out with a story of how her hubby gives out false numbers, they'll all be talking about how she should be grateful he even gives false numbers, how she should be prayerful and patient, how she should wear red pant etc.

Let's treat everyone fairly and with love.

My dear,
Sorry if that is how I made you feel; it was not my intention. With regards the hypocrites and others you speak about, I can not comment on that. Blessed day.

agongajoseph:
If your husband sees this thread and sees how NL'ers are blasting you, he'll definitely file for a divorce. You are loose. Sorry, but it's d truth. ...you have made the young Doctor think you are an Ashewo for such behaviour. ...and he knows you are married wit a kid....where's ur sense?....the Doc might not even call to check if d number is correct or not, in his mind u are a married slut....he will laugh at your husband wit his friends anytime he sees u n him walking wit ur kid.

Na wa o for DNA pikin

Well said.

athaliya:


Listen to yourself.......... You need to shut the hell up....

If this woman came here to say she caught her hubby giving out fake numbers and so decided not to talk to him till he tenders apologies, will you support her? Tell her he's damn wrong?
One of you even told a lady in a similar case to wear red pant for a cheater.

I give out fake or sometimes real numbers too, when they call I simply tell them off or give the phone to my bf to help me out. I'm working on saying no but due to my temperament it's not easy. Luckily for me, le boo is well matured.

Let's try to see things from another perspective to give a non partisan advice.
Sorry for any insult dished out anyway

CoCoLav:


........ In such situations, giving a wrong number is not so bad to avoid too much talk.

5 bottles of Origin to CoCoLav