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Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:37am On Mar 02, 2017
Cheating Husbands are Actually Pretty Easy to Catch
You can usually spot the signs of his infidelity by paying attention to body language.

1
He avoids being alone in the room with you.
Many times a cheating husband has already made up his mind about having an affair, or may already be involved in one. If he's avoiding being alone with you, it's a sure sign something's wrong with your relationship, and he knows that something's wrong.

2
He stops initiating casual touch with you.

Couples in a healthy relationship often share little touches, such as a casual bump when passing in the hallway, or a gentle caress. These brief displays of intimacy may not seem like much, but if they stop, it's a sure sign that his mind is on something or someone other than you.

3
He doesn't look you in the eye anymore, especially when being intimate.

It's hard to lie, especially when looking someone in the eye. When it comes to looking someone we love in the eye, and telling them a lie, it becomes almost impossible. Because of this, a cheating husband will not usually be able to look you in the eye when you're being intimate, because he knows it's a lie.

4
The emotional quality of your relationship has changed.

If your husband starts caring less about you, or your marriage, and worrying a lot more about himself, it could be a sign that he's cheating on you. A faithful husband will be focused on your future together, while a cheating husband will be more worried about his future, without you.

5
He starts keeping secrets, and not telling you little things he used to share.

When your husband stops sharing little things with you, like stories from the office, or a challenge he might have overcome, it's a bad sign. Men aren't usually the most talkative creatures, but they have an instinctive need to show off accomplishments and successes to their wives. If he stops showing you, he's either going through a major crisis, or showing another woman.

6
He is working much more, and spending less time at home.

Much like the man who travels constantly, the man who is always at work usually has other reasons for being away so often. Unless he's a lawyer working his way up through the firm, or a doctor earning degrees and establishing a practice, he either doesn't want to spend time with you, or he's spending it with someone else. Either way, this is a sure sign of trouble.

7
He deletes text messages from his phone.

Most people don't delete their text messages, because it usually takes more effort than reading them. If he starts deleting his text messages, chances are that you have a cheating husband on your hands, or one preparing to cheat.

8
He makes and receives phone calls in private.

This is another big red flag. Only a man who doesn't want you to hear what he's talking about takes or makes calls in private. Usually, the only time your husband doesn't want you to hear what he's talking about is when he's cheating, or talking about you.

9
He has more than one Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter account.

This is just like the email account problem discussed above. If he's going to the trouble of keeping many different accounts, it's almost certainly because he's either already cheating, or planning to cheat in the future.

10
He keeps his Kik, Skype, Viber, or WhatsApp accounts private.

Instant Messages are the new email, and because they're more private than regular SMS and Text messages, it's fairly easy for your husband to cheat on you without your knowledge. While you shouldn't expect to read his messages or spy on his phone any more than he should expect you to read them and give a summary of the important ones, there's nothing wrong with glancing at his screen from time to time. If he's hiding it, chances are he's hiding more than just a message.

11
He starts arguments out of nothing, and then leaves the house.

This one seems so obvious, yet many women miss it due to being so distraught over an argument they can't understand. This is because it hits them from out of nowhere, and then they sit home wondering what they did wrong to make their husbands leave. This I sad, because a husband who starts a fight over nothing and then leaves the house is either looking for an excuse to leave the house, or not expressing his true frustrations. Both are signs of deeper problems, often involving infidelity.

12
He begins dressing differently.

Men don't often change their styles. If he likes jeans and a polo shirt, that's likely going to be his style forever. So, if you notice that he's traded in his jeans for a pair of dockers, or his usually conservative polo shirt for a printed t-shirt with a rock band logo on it, you might have a cheating husband on your hands. Men only change the way they dress when it serves a purpose, which in this case is pleasing another woman.

13
He starts caring more about how he looks.

Grooming and hygiene patterns change. If your man used to be OK with slightly messed up hair, or half of a shave, and he's now carefully grooming himself, it's obviously not to impress you. In fact, one of the most obvious signs your husband is cheating on you is when he starts improving his personal hygiene and grooming habits. Don't ignore this, as it's an indication of a husband looking to please or impress another woman.

14
He starts attending office parties and social events he used to avoid.

Everyone knows the jokes about office parties, and let's be honest, they're usually pretty true. So, when your husband suddenly starts attending them, it probably has something to do with the new girl in the office. If you aren't invited, it almost certainly has something to do with her. This is a sure sign of trouble in your relationship.





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Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:39am On Mar 02, 2017
its aint new "every man cheat" why stress it??

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Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by greatnaija01: 12:43am On Mar 02, 2017
not every man o only MEN in Relationship cheat. grin grin grin
and ladies too tho

BUT if the guy wants to really cheat, he will beat this list n the lady will never suspect



L0velyn:
its aint new "every man cheat" why stress it??
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by sinaj(f): 12:44am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:
its aint new "every man cheat" why stress it??
it's just like saying every girl cheat which isn't true.

You dnt have to generalize.

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Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by yomi007k(m): 12:45am On Mar 02, 2017
angry

Now dt u have revealed our secrets. .......RUN!

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Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by yomi007k(m): 12:47am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:
its aint new "every man cheat" why stress it??


I dont cheat. ...can u put a million bucks on dt?





.....I need more money grin
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:47am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
it's just like saying every girl cheat which isn't true.

You dnt have to generalize.


show me just one faithful guy.. undecided


i am ready to change my opinion about them
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:48am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:
its aint new "every man cheat" why stress it??
so u dont trust ur guy?
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:49am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:
its aint new "every man cheat" why stress it??
lol,
Someone just stressed 4 signs a wife is sleeping around so i merely responded. I suppose there are few men that don't cheat.

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Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:49am On Mar 02, 2017
yomi007k:



I dont cheat. ...can u put a million bucks on dt?





.....I need more money grin

if devil himself could deny being evil who at thou not to? smiley
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by sinaj(f): 12:50am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:



show me just one faithful guy.. undecided


i am ready to change my opinion about them

I will show you if you willing to leave that Red sea for PH
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:50am On Mar 02, 2017
thornapple:

lol,
Someone just stressed 4 signs a wife is sleeping around so i merely responded. I suppose there are few men that don't cheat.
a thousand likes to this

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Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by ideologies(m): 12:50am On Mar 02, 2017
y did it take you so long
hahahahahaa

most of you points are generic, but guys and ladies do it.

and they have flaws, EG >> How can you tell that someone deletes an SMS u never saw...

Almost all your points are mostly done by ladies grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

thornapple:
Cheating Husbands are Actually Pretty Easy to Catch
You can usually spot the signs of his infidelity by paying attention to body language.

1
He avoids being alone in the room with you.
Many times a cheating husband has already made up his mind about having an affair, or may already be involved in one. If he's avoiding being alone with you, it's a sure sign something's wrong with your relationship, and he knows that something's wrong.

2
He stops initiating casual touch with you.

Couples in a healthy relationship often share little touches, such as a casual bump when passing in the hallway, or a gentle caress. These brief displays of intimacy may not seem like much, but if they stop, it's a sure sign that his mind is on something or someone other than you.

3
He doesn't look you in the eye anymore, especially when being intimate.

It's hard to lie, especially when looking someone in the eye. When it comes to looking someone we love in the eye, and telling them a lie, it becomes almost impossible. Because of this, a cheating husband will not usually be able to look you in the eye when you're being intimate, because he knows it's a lie.

4
The emotional quality of your relationship has changed.

If your husband starts caring less about you, or your marriage, and worrying a lot more about himself, it could be a sign that he's cheating on you. A faithful husband will be focused on your future together, while a cheating husband will be more worried about his future, without you.

5
He starts keeping secrets, and not telling you little things he used to share.

When your husband stops sharing little things with you, like stories from the office, or a challenge he might have overcome, it's a bad sign. Men aren't usually the most talkative creatures, but they have an instinctive need to show off accomplishments and successes to their wives. If he stops showing you, he's either going through a major crisis, or showing another woman.

6
He is working much more, and spending less time at home.

Much like the man who travels constantly, the man who is always at work usually has other reasons for being away so often. Unless he's a lawyer working his way up through the firm, or a doctor earning degrees and establishing a practice, he either doesn't want to spend time with you, or he's spending it with someone else. Either way, this is a sure sign of trouble.

7
He deletes text messages from his phone.

Most people don't delete their text messages, because it usually takes more effort than reading them. If he starts deleting his text messages, chances are that you have a cheating husband on your hands, or one preparing to cheat.

8
He makes and receives phone calls in private.

This is another big red flag. Only a man who doesn't want you to hear what he's talking about takes or makes calls in private. Usually, the only time your husband doesn't want you to hear what he's talking about is when he's cheating, or talking about you.

9
He has more than one Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter account.

This is just like the email account problem discussed above. If he's going to the trouble of keeping many different accounts, it's almost certainly because he's either already cheating, or planning to cheat in the future.

10
He keeps his Kik, Skype, Viber, or WhatsApp accounts private.

Instant Messages are the new email, and because they're more private than regular SMS and Text messages, it's fairly easy for your husband to cheat on you without your knowledge. While you shouldn't expect to read his messages or spy on his phone any more than he should expect you to read them and give a summary of the important ones, there's nothing wrong with glancing at his screen from time to time. If he's hiding it, chances are he's hiding more than just a message.

11
He starts arguments out of nothing, and then leaves the house.

This one seems so obvious, yet many women miss it due to being so distraught over an argument they can't understand. This is because it hits them from out of nowhere, and then they sit home wondering what they did wrong to make their husbands leave. This I sad, because a husband who starts a fight over nothing and then leaves the house is either looking for an excuse to leave the house, or not expressing his true frustrations. Both are signs of deeper problems, often involving infidelity.

12
He begins dressing differently.

Men don't often change their styles. If he likes jeans and a polo shirt, that's likely going to be his style forever. So, if you notice that he's traded in his jeans for a pair of dockers, or his usually conservative polo shirt for a printed t-shirt with a rock band logo on it, you might have a cheating husband on your hands. Men only change the way they dress when it serves a purpose, which in this case is pleasing another woman.

13
He starts caring more about how he looks.

Grooming and hygiene patterns change. If your man used to be OK with slightly messed up hair, or half of a shave, and he's now carefully grooming himself, it's obviously not to impress you. In fact, one of the most obvious signs your husband is cheating on you is when he starts improving his personal hygiene and grooming habits. Don't ignore this, as it's an indication of a husband looking to please or impress another woman.

14
He starts attending office parties and social events he used to avoid.

Everyone knows the jokes about office parties, and let's be honest, they're usually pretty true. So, when your husband suddenly starts attending them, it probably has something to do with the new girl in the office. If you aren't invited, it almost certainly has something to do with her. This is a sure sign of trouble in your relationship.





http://visihow.com/Sure_Signs_Your_Husband_Is_Cheating
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:50am On Mar 02, 2017
lefulefu:

so u dont trust ur guy?


i honestly dont trust anyone!
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by yomi007k(m): 12:50am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:


if devil himself could deny being evil who at thou not to? smiley



U dnt knw me....



Put ur money boo....im sure its gonna be as cute u. Lol
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:52am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
I will show you if you willing to leave that Red sea for PH

it doesn't worth the stress smiley


imo men are chronic cheaterz
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:53am On Mar 02, 2017
yomi007k:



U dnt knw me....



Put ur money boo....im sure its gonna be as cute u. Lol


money for what ?embarassed

i rather risk it for mmm instead undecided
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by sinaj(f): 12:53am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:


it doesn't worth the stress smiley


imo men are chronic cheaterz


wait lemme ask Reiign
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by yomi007k(m): 12:54am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:



money for what embarassed i rather dash it to mmm


Lol
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:54am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:



i honestly dont trust anyone!
ok oo but remember there are ladies who cheat as well and derive a lot of pleasure doing it
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:55am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
wait lemme ask Sinzu


his highness is drifting to sleep....
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by sinaj(f): 12:58am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:



his highness is drifting to sleep....
lol
It's late tho
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:58am On Mar 02, 2017
lefulefu:

ok oo but remember there are ladies who cheat as well and derive a lot of pleasure doing it


Yea we know. ...... smiley

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Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 12:59am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
lol
It's late tho
smiley

yea so whats keeping you up?
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by sinaj(f): 1:03am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:
smiley

yea so whats keeping you up?
I slept yesterday evening tho. M nt evn feeling sleepy at all.

Wot bout u
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 1:08am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
I slept yesterday evening tho. M nt evn feeling sleepy at all.

Wot bout u


same here.... smiley but i'll soon force my self to bed
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by sinaj(f): 1:14am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:



same here.... smiley but i'll soon force my self to bed
lol owkay
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by BiafranBushBoy: 1:16am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
I will show you if you willing to leave that Red sea for PH

Lovelyn don't go oooooo
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Nobody: 1:40am On Mar 02, 2017
L0velyn:
its aint new "every man cheat" why stress it??
Not every man
Still some loyal ones ... 1% grin
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Mattizzy(m): 2:36am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
I slept yesterday evening tho. M nt evn feeling sleepy at all.

Wot bout u
Hmmm
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by ipobarecriminals: 2:36am On Mar 02, 2017
sad undecided
Re: Signs Your Husband Is Cheating. by Mattizzy(m): 2:38am On Mar 02, 2017
sinaj:
I will show you if you willing to leave that Red sea for PH

we duh PH qanq

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