delishpot:
Have you asked her what she wants? Cos she is not mentally sick is she? If she can care for the baby and want to keep it, why not allow her? If she wants the baby but wants to continue her education, then keep baby somewhere safe ie orphanage.
If she doesn't want baby noe or in future due to how she was conceived, then adoption is best.
She can opt for an open or closed addoption .

koolet:
Your sister is yet to tell the truth

doughziay:
I think ur sis hasn't said the truth about how she gor pregnant. I was raped doesn't sound true to me. Any ways, she is immature to care for a child without assistance.

My Suggestion: Get someone mature to assist her with caring for the child when born, maybe a paid nanny.

my reason: if the child is given up for adoption, there is every tendency ur Lil sister wouldn't brace up to the fact that she has a responsibility hence, making her get into the hands of other guys since there isn't an evidence she is a mother. She might get pregnant a second time if care isn't taken.

God help u both to deliver safely.

Heromaniaa:
I will be willing to adopt the baby if necessary. I wish your sister safe delivery.

Slimzjoe:
And why exactly can't you raise her child alongside yours?

beqs101:


She said she would want to continue schooling and that she can't take care of the baby right now. That's why we suggested an orphanage and she's okay with it. But she hasn't said anything about wanting to take the baby later on.

beqs101:


I'm married and pregnant at the moment so I'm not even in a position to help her take care of the baby

seriously , that's just not an excuse ..... What will u then do should u have twins??

Cutehector:
I don't think she was raped. The thing with families is that they try to hide a lot of details when posting stuff like this on social media..


But am not here to judge anybody. Op u can take care of both babies. God won't be happy with you sending dat child to an opharnage

Tapout:



seriously , that's just not an excuse ..... What will u then do should u have twins??

Cutehector:
I don't think she was raped. The thing with families is that they try to hide a lot of details when posting stuff like this on social media..


But am not here to judge anybody. Op u can take care of both babies. God won't be happy with you sending dat child to an opharnage

kennygee:
"I was raped" is just a convenient way of her avoiding to tell you that she's been having sex from an age you'd be shocked to hear.

beqs101:


Feels pretty convenient but what can we do now other than look for a solution?

kennygee:
"I was raped" is just a convenient way of her avoiding to tell you that she's been having sex from an age you'd be shocked to hear.

Let her see a counsellor and let her be the one to decide what to do with the baby after talking to the counsellor.

Any decision you make for her now could be used against you in the future.

delishpot:


Why insist she wasn't rapped? Were you there to know her story? I hate when women are first to throw stones at fellow women. Her story is not your business. OP asked for solution for the interest of the child.

kennygee:
"I was raped" is just a convenient way of her avoiding to tell you that she's been having sex from an age you'd be shocked to hear.

Let her see a counsellor and let her be the one to decide what to do with the baby after talking to the counsellor.

Any decision you make for her now could be used against you in the future.

kennygee:


Did you read the post? Didn't the girl say she was raped?

Is the rape or paternity of the unborn child the subject of dispute here?

Abeg carry ur wahala dey go

beqs101:



My dear Kenny,please understand that I am not the one making the decision. We've had a discussion and she said she can't take care of the baby. Rather than abandon the innocent baby, me and my other sisters older than her are trying to help out by proffering a solution.