Berbierklaus:


Hehehehe,two love birds

You people should go and discuss this one properly o,when will I get the IV,e don too tey o.


Misspicy

Lol. We shall continue the discussion in the other room.

amyzon:
Even when I told him about it

you are totally wrong, giving him a wrong number even was a sign of disrespect approach.
Admit it

blesoh:
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My dear I don't even understand, simple sorry I can't give you my number would have solve this problem.

discus it and laugh over it? What happen the next time you will go there and meet this same miserable doctor? Perhaps he will continue from where he stopped by telling you he has been trying the number and all that then a discussion will begin from there...woman wise up please learn to say I am married and respect your hubby..don't deny him of his pride again.

Pidgin2:


Your husband is not clean, i'm sure he gives females his number with wrong intension that is why he suspects you of doing the same thing even after you told him you did it innocently, he is remembering his own sins.

you are very correct, men who react that way are guilty of doing same. A man who isn't asking for phone numbers from girls and sleeping around with them will only laugh over the incident.

Yes giving him your number (though fake) undermines your husband.
Look at it this way, he could go on talking about it (he might justify the wrong number anyway he likes) and what happens when next you see him?

But being the kind of person i am i understand exactly why you did what you did.

That's what you should explain to your husband and importantly when apologising it's one thing to be sorry. It's another thing to promise not to do it again. The later usually does the trick!

Everytin is wrong, don't u knw d reason y d doctor asked 4 ur number? A responsible married woman would not allow that happen

Your an idiot beyond redemption a #20 condom would have saved this World from fools like you. Or even Vaseline.
That said, your type shouldn't be here and even sprowing shit.
Go hug transformer
Yeye imposter.

athaliya:


I've said it before, you're a child that has alot of growing up to do.....
That being said, I don't roll in the mud with pigs. Go find your fellow pigs and stay out of matters beyond your IQ

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

Calm down and understand. What your husband is not happy about is the fact that you could give out your number (whether correct or incorrect) as a married woman who could figure that his purpose for asking was not sincere.
I do not think you should insult guys that make advances at you too. However, be firm with them and state the obvious. For instance, 'I'm sorry, I don't give my number to random guys. As you can see I'm happily married with a child and you are not my doctor to make that request'. I don't think this is insulting. Infact, it could be said with a firm smile... lol. Hope you get?
Just accept you're wrong and apologize to Bros. He'll come around. Cheers

Melian:
Everyone is overreacting here. It was a fcking fake number, period. A fake number is no number. Your husband overreacted. I doubt your friendship /relationship foundation is solid. If it was there shouldn't be trust issues.

Exactly my thoughts. Too much anger here.lol

Symphony1:


Madam wife you still dey argue abi? You better take corrections before unimaginable divorce sets in.

Don't you know you have lost a reasonable percentage of trust from your husband? keep arguing.
na to tell am say; I'M MARRIED, hard for you?

So na ur type dey distribute numbers like rain drops to guys when u be single abi? keep it up.

Hellooooo... Don't you think the husband is taken it too far? She had apologized. What next? Abeg joor, the man get low self esteem. He has the right to be angry but not to be keeping malice .

Secondly, don't u too think the man has lost his wife sharing information to him? Someone confided in you, if there is a mistake, u correct n not feed fat on it. Trust is both lost by the couple.

blesoh:

Are you OK?

perfectly OK

SirVintageCock:
They are living in UK. So to hell with your fathers house sh!t. A wife in Africa is obviously maid that can be sent out at will. Little wonder it is still refers to as the dark continent.

Suggesting that if I were the husband, I would send her out is just a hyperbole. I am just trying to lay emphasis on how wrong the act was. for me, I think she should have told the guy she is married.
please, tell me there's no father's house or family house in the UK?

Melonny:
Suggesting that if I were the husband, I would send her out is just a hyperbole. I am just trying to lay emphasis on how wrong the act was. for me, I think she should have told the guy she is married.
please, tell me there's no father's house or family house in the UK?

In uk or other developed countries you are the one going out of the house to your father's house. Whatever that the hell that means to an independent fully fledged matured adult.

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

I am sorry....I m married. Go cram those words and stop giving people wrong no

ayando:

Hellooooo... Don't you think the husband is taken it too far? She had apologized. What next? Abeg joor, the man get low self esteem. He has the right to be angry but not to be keeping malice .

Secondly, don't u too think the man has lost his wife sharing information to him? Someone confided in you, if there is a mistake, u correct n not feed fat on it. Trust is both lost by the couple.

You definitely have a point, but what's so hard in saying; I AM MARRIED, to avoid stories like her's on nairaland?

amyzon:
It started yesterday afternoon when my husband took me to the hospital to pick up my family planning pills with our 2 months old baby. To cut the story short, I went into d midwife's office alone to pick d pill , ask questions and get answers.

Inside the midwives office was a very young doctor who got involved in all my discussion with the midwife. Alone the line, the midwife went out to pick something and at that moment the young doctor asked me for my number, I gave him a wrong number .

So when we got home I told my husband about it. He got angry , started attacking me about it , my husband said giving the doctor a number at all was me insulting him, that it doesn't matter if it was a wrong number or not .

Truth is, I'm not the type to insult a guy who approached me, I always give wrong number. I have been apologising to my husband since yesterday even when I totally don't think I did something wrong , Yet he is still boiling up. Pls I need to understand what I did wrong cos I don't think I did something wrong.

Madam that's an insult on your husband, how can a young male doctor ask you your number in the first place knowing fully well that you are a married woman and come to think of it, you couldn't stand on your grounds to tell him you are married and can't give out your number. By giving the number at all whether real or fake means you didn't regard your husband in the eye of the young doctor to echoe it in his ears that you married and he shouldn't be asking you of your number. Madam just go appease your husband because you messed up big time

Omohjick:


He won't ask me out and he won't let me go o!

maam,pls brave up and ask him where you stand!he is sure sending away those who want you...or get a male friend so as to make him jealous(he will sure come to his senses with that)..good afternoon ma!

goldedprince:
considering the number of married women wey i don wire, i must authoritatively say that this op here is a coded olosho where still dey find prick. i bet you there are a thousand and one guys like me there waitng to wire you married or not.
stop pretending. most of us hate pretenders. like i asked you before, IF SAY NA AGBERO FOR OSHODI OR AJEGUNLE ASK FOR YOUR NUMBER, YOU FOR GIVE AM?

your mother is a coded olosho

olac21:


maam,pls brave up and ask him where you stand!he is sure sending away those who want you...or get a male friend so as to make him jealous(he will sure come to his senses with that)..good afternoon ma!

Honestly dear I am tired... He keeps talking to me about the future, when I ask him any question, he will say he's not comfortable telling me now that maybe he can in d nearest future...He keeps saying I'm his friend now and that I should just know that he is a very good boy, that maybe I can ask around or anyone about him...but maybe because I'm not an office person since he is, that's y he's so afraid of the future with me or if business stops working for me. I noticed he likes corporate ladies

Well, I'm trying to move on and get him off my mind if only he will stay away from me but he won't

Omohjick:


Honestly dear I am tired... He keeps talking to me about the future, when I ask him any question, he will say he's not comfortable telling me now that maybe he can in d nearest future...He keeps saying I'm his friend now and that I should just know that he is a very good boy, that maybe I can ask around or anyone about him...but maybe because I'm not an office person since he is, that's y he's so afraid of the future with me or if business stops working for me. I noticed he likes corporate ladies

Well, I'm trying to move on and get him off my mind if only he will stay away from me but he won't

The whole thing to me is just complicated!May God guide your decision!

olac21:

The whole thing to me is just complicated!May God guide your decision!

Sure, He will...thanks

bedford101:
discus it and laugh over it? What happen the next time you will go there and meet this same miserable doctor? Perhaps he will continue from where he stopped by telling you he has been trying the number and all that then a discussion will begin from there...woman wise up please learn to say I am married and respect your hubby..don't deny him of his pride again.

Hope you are not refering to me, am not the Op lol

Obviously you still see yourself as girl ,the reason you feel the need to be nice to a guy and not turn him down outrightly . You are gullible, grow up !

amyzon:
So what was I suppose to do. Insult him or create a seen, plus I was carry my baby and didn't think a guy in his right mind will be after me. It was his reaction the moment the midwife came back that made me realize that he was really flirting

The goat of a doctor was really sick and that is why yoiu should have given his his treatment right there and then. You wronged your husband and I will be disappointed if you don't use your opportunity when next that idiot comes snooping around you again. Pls, treat his fuckup! He needs such to save other women and girls from his aimlessly wandering dickhead. What nonsense.

blesoh:

Hope you are not refering to me, am not the Op lol

lol not u

freecocoa:
I'd be madder than your husband, was I in his shoes, what rubbish!


I don't understand women that simply can't politely say NO. Nonsense!

Then there's the fact that you are married but still play silly games, you are not to be trusted biko! I swear this story dey vex me.

@op if madam Freecocoa fit tell you this then you case don pass be careful. Ah no dey support most of her post but today am making an exception because she no joke 4 diz kind matter.

torqque7:
Madam it seems you need special deliverance..how will you feel if your husband dignified a girl by giving her number weda real or fake number?smh for some women..you just gave the doctor the impression that you are loose and can cheat on your husband,you should be ashamed of yourself. If I was your husband I'd do worse sef,what rubbish?A married woman giving out number.

Madam... who says you have to insult to pass a message? is that the only way you can communicate? a simple "Sorry, I am Married" would ve done d job.

tammie24:
Stop apologising and ignore him

Haven't done anything wrong

this daughter of a bit__ch is a retar_ded idiot. na her type them suppose dey gang rape for india.
just imagin the type of advice she is openly giving.
i swear this one don break people relationship snatch husbands tire.
like that guy said. you are a confirmed olosho

it is not your fault, the problem is that most nigerian men cant differentiate between olosho allen ave and a wife. cos if he could do that, he wouldnt have married you in the frst place. so no be your fault. i blame the stupid man

titiakins:
your mother is a coded olosho

thunder fire your entire generation plus the unborn ones

why would you even give a man whose intention is clear, your number? ? whether right or wrong number?

what happened to telling him off?

Giving a wrong number is even childish. . better go and make amends with your husband. . and act more maturely next time..

Madam you are married with child, anybody that says the man has low self esteem is just being heartless... boldly, firmly and politely tell that so called young Doctor off, maybe you have a soft spot for him hence you don't want to hurt his feelings, meanwhile he saw you with a kid and I guess you have a ring and yet he want to come in between you and your marriage.... Madam wake up its eye for an eye... beg your husband and don't discuss it outside your home with time he will come alobg...