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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:09pm On Mar 03, 2017
slurryeye:
I'm not trying to castigate any tradition or culture as I believe every tribe in Africa has one or more tradition that needs to be eradicated. However, I think there are some traditions in Igboland especially those that has to do with women, inheritance and lands that need to be modified or eradicated.

Who u be now?

Igbo tradition for Igbos only. We make it 4 ourselves and we are never tired of them.
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by ChopBellefull(m): 9:13pm On Mar 03, 2017
What kinda tradition z dat abeg... Dey shld kuku strip her nakkked nd gv her to her husband unclad.. To justify dat she goes nt with family belongings

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:14pm On Mar 03, 2017
ChopBellefull:
What kinda tradition z dat abeg... Dey shld kuku strip her nakkked nd gv her to her husband unclad.. To justify dat she goes nt with family belongings

Y dont u let her Brothers come and inherit ur father property becos u marry their sister? That is a much better arrangement.

u marry my sister, i come and collect land for ur place and set up mansion. grin
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:16pm On Mar 03, 2017
The bible says from the East came wise men.


Wen ur dealing with men from the East, just know that before u think of it, they have already thought of it.


Be very careful.
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by femolii: 9:17pm On Mar 03, 2017
Osus matter tire me oo

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:21pm On Mar 03, 2017
femolii:
Osus matter tire me oo


loser!

Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:25pm On Mar 03, 2017
Igbos have maintained this tradition for centuries.

Our Igbo brothers and sisters have not yet complained becos we dont expect to take land with wife.

First they complain about Bride Price becos they are not use to it, they expect her family to foot the bill becos they are doing them a favour marrying their daughter.

Now these none igbo that have been allowed to marry from us accidentally, contrarily to our tradition want land too.

unless am no longer on earth will that happen.

many will die.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Dapsonemmanuel(m): 9:29pm On Mar 03, 2017
hammerF:


UR NAME NA AYO, MEANING U ARE YORUBA, Y DONT U GO AND DECIDE YORUBA TRADITION IS STUPID?
..dude you need to be in the assylum .. why on earth are you just attacking everyone you come across .. funny part is you wont be like this in reality yet you come online and start forming one tribalistic mofo .. how about you be real for once

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by ChopBellefull(m): 9:36pm On Mar 03, 2017
hammerF:


Y dont u let her Brothers come and inherit ur father property becos u marry their sister? That is a much better arrangement.

u marry my sister, i come and collect land for ur place and set up mansion. grin
u got it all wrong... What belongs to d wife automatically belongs to d husband nd vive versa... So if u get married to a woman who owns her own hauz..den u own d hauz too... Nt d lady's family

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:40pm On Mar 03, 2017
ChopBellefull:

u got it all wrong... What belongs to d wife automatically belongs to d husband nd vive versa... So if u get married to a woman who owns her own hauz..den u own d hauz too... Nt d lady's family

I think u are better off not quoting me to be honest.

I dont go around looking for women with money, i rather like to have more than her.

I wont marry any woman richer than me, how is that even possible? Wat was she doing?

I am not a gold digging man.
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 9:43pm On Mar 03, 2017
Dapsonemmanuel:
..dude you need to be in the assylum .. why on earth are you just attacking everyone you come across .. funny part is you wont be like this in reality yet you come online and start forming one tribalistic mofo .. how about you be real for once

U never met me, u dont know wat am like. Besides not everybody that shines teeth for u, like u. Be careful!

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Comfort01(f): 9:43pm On Mar 03, 2017
What rubbish, with her own money. What kind of culture is this, in this civilise country. Na wa o

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by snowblaq(f): 9:58pm On Mar 03, 2017
...what if she pretends to divorce her husband....sell the land to him(her husband)..then remarries him...case closed....that way she still has the land...and greedy brother's plan fails #joke#

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by hammerF: 10:04pm On Mar 03, 2017
ChopBellefull:

u got it all wrong... What belongs to d wife automatically belongs to d husband nd vive versa... So if u get married to a woman who owns her own hauz..den u own d hauz too... Nt d lady's family


ON SECOND THOUGHT, UR POST OFFERS AND INSIGHT.

IN UR POST, U ARE QUICK TO REMOVE HER FAMILY FROM SHARING OWNERSHIP OF HER PROPERTY. undecided

U ARE QUICK TO CLAIM OWNERSHIP OF HER PROPERTY.

YET U EXPECT HER FAMILY TO WILL PROPERTY TO HER AND BY SO DOING WILL THEIR PROPERTY TO U.

THIS IS WAT THE IGBO CULTURE IS AGAINST.

IN IGBO CULTURE, IT IS THE HUSBAND PROPERTY THAT BELONGS TO HIS WIFE AND NOT THE OTHER WAY ROUND.

THAT IS WHY THE IGBO WOMAN IS NICKNAMED ORIAKU... OBIAGELIAKU! Igbo means 'consumer of wealth'

UR WIFE PROPERTY BELONGS TO HER AND HER CHILDREN, IF NOT, IT REVERTS BACK TO HER FAMILY, NOT U.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by chronos: 10:04pm On Mar 03, 2017
Alexrayz:




They refuse to acknowledge dat nigeria is d best thing that could ever happen to dem

Abi Igbos are the best thing to happen to Nigeria. Without the Igbos, You and your almajiri brothers would have turned Nigeria into a waste land.
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by phenol33(m): 10:12pm On Mar 03, 2017
nkwuocha:
angry
This family is simply a greedy one. This is not igbo culture. The said land belongs to the buyer. The brother is just greedy and wicked.
guy in igbo tradition and culture a woman do not buy land. she must buy it either in her husband's name if married or in her family's name if not married... the question now is in whos name did she buy the land on where is the land located?
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 10:36pm On Mar 03, 2017
I am confident igbo will outlive their enemies. They will continue to think about us, whilst we continue to think of how best to grow and develop. No wonder Osinbanjo said, with Aba, the whole Nigeria have no business with China. #Igbomade!#
http://www.herald.ng/nigeria-no-business-china-aba-developed-osinbajo/
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Dapsonemmanuel(m): 10:37pm On Mar 03, 2017
hammerF:


U never met me, u dont know wat am like. Besides not everybody that shines teeth for u, like u. Be careful!

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Casablanca22: 10:46pm On Mar 03, 2017
The story was not complete because they do not say where the land she bought was located... If the land is within his fathers compound or kindred, She has no right over it. I believe she is married outside his community. So she can't build a house within and be living with her husband there while she is suppose to be living in her husbands place. She can only come back to her fathers place and stay if she is being pursued from her husband place.
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 10:53pm On Mar 03, 2017
The story is not complete.
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by jo997: 11:22pm On Mar 03, 2017
Family, Tradition, male and female child.

If l'm the sister's husband, l will quietly advice my wife to forget that land and let it go for good of the parties involved.

Yes she brought the land with her money but in who house and on whose surname.

Everyone in this particular case is right for different views but the tradition must be respected and adhere to. ln lgbo land it is rare for a lady to be given a land as inheritance, whether her money was used to make the purchase or not.
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by afrikana333: 11:30pm On Mar 03, 2017
The guy should just pick up another land to replace his sis land,why trying to create such drama in this modern age embarassed
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Adebowale89(m): 11:30pm On Mar 03, 2017
OBAGADAFFI:
They can't try this in the SW.



married women still collect their shares from house rent around my area in Lagos from their parent property


I said, if I will be given a second chance to visit this world again and to Nigeria. I will still love to be a Yoruba


Ilu to ni ila'kaye, ibowo, ati culture to dun WO. just give it to the west

Ilu nla

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by freecocoa(f): 11:34pm On Mar 03, 2017
Very obviously fake story.

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by freecocoa(f): 11:36pm On Mar 03, 2017
jo997:
Family, Tradition, male and female child.

If l'm the sister's husband, l will quietly advice my wife to forget that land and let it go for good of the parties involved.

Yes she brought the land with her money but in who house and on whose surname.

Everyone in this particular case is right for different views but the tradition must be respected and adhere to. ln lgbo land it is rare for a lady to be given a land as inheritance, whether her money was used to make the purchase or not.
in which igboland exactly? The one I come from? Nigga please!
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 11:40pm On Mar 03, 2017
Adebowale89:




married women still collect their shares from house rent around my area in Lagos from their parent property


I said, if I will be given a second chance to visit this world again and to Nigeria. I will still love to be a Yoruba


Ilu to ni ila'kaye, ibowo, ati culture to dun WO. just give it to the west

Ilu nla

Na inside our igbo thread u dey come declare Afonja love? Abegi park well joor. Relocate ur Omoonile self back to Horrorbaland. We do this on matters concerning us and not others. Find a yoruba thread to make that declaration. Na2day! hisssssssssssssssssss!
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 11:45pm On Mar 03, 2017
freecocoa:
in which igboland exactly? The one I come from? Nigga please!
Read the comments on this thread, u will see something. Besides, do u want land in ur father compound after marriage? It is better u igbo women tell us now?
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Coolgent(m): 11:58pm On Mar 03, 2017
grin greedy jews

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Adebowale89(m): 11:58pm On Mar 03, 2017
unstableaswater:


Na inside our igbo thread u dey come declare Afonja love? Abegi park well joor. Relocate ur Omoonile self back to Horrorbaland. We do this on matters concerning us and not others. Find a yoruba thread to make that declaration. Na2day! hisssssssssssssssssss!



I'm just imagining why there is gender discrimination in the mindset of Africa. why treat a fellow human being with a human formulated culture

if you can think deeply, you will know it worth appraisal. I'm proud to come from that brown roof republic. where female child and male child have the same right...
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 12:00am On Mar 04, 2017
Adebowale89:




I'm just imagining why there is gender discrimination in the mindset of Africa. why treat a fellow human being with a human formulated culture

if you can think deeply, you will know it worth appraisal. I'm proud to come from that brown roof republic. where female child and male child have the same right...

The women that marry into the family and inherit the property from their husband are wat exactly? Mr Feminist? U think she should be inheriting alongside her brothers for ur lazy ass? Then u can kill her off for the property and marry another wife?
Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by Adebowale89(m): 12:04am On Mar 04, 2017
unstableaswater:


The women that marry into the family and inherit the property from the sons are wat exactly? U think she should be inheriting alongside her brothers for ur lazy ass? Then u ca nkill her off for the property and marry another wife?


we just need to free our mentality

can u point out one or two effect of that culture in the life of Igbo's?

we still leave in old age. thank God Yoruba are had grown beyond all those archaic culture and everything is still going on fine



this is why I love reading Egalitarianism theory over and over again. wish African can adopt it

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Re: Brother Battles Married Sister Over Landed Property Citing Igbo Tradition by unstableaswater: 12:06am On Mar 04, 2017
Adebowale89:



we just need to free our mentality

can u point out one or two effect of that culture in the life of Igbo's?

we still leave in old age. thank God Yoruba are had grown beyond all those archaic culture and everything is still going on fine

I dont care about Yoruba? I am never going to stop being igbo and be yoruba. In fact, yorubas are a nuisance to me, that is y i support Biafra.

Secondly, U think u love our daughter more than us? U think we hand property to girls that are not our own daughter becos we hate women? Go and get ur head checked and check-out of igbo affairs. Think about ur own community.

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