Awwn..

tmgold007:
TRUSTING HIM....I REALLY REGRETED TRUSTING HIM AND BEEN FAITHFUL TO HIM...AND I REGRETTED GIVING HIM MY FLOWER TO DISFLOWER ON MY BIRTHDAY...

Loving her truly,other than dat,I wunt say I regret spending for her,it was not a big deal,only glad she showed her true colours at the time she could have enjoyed bigger things

lordbish:
bros #wehdonesir. In helping people expect nothing in return.

I don't even feel comfortable wen people help me,but I like helping others whole hearted.

Hotfreeze:


Don't worry, your perfect woman is on her way. Have a great life ahead bro!

Thanks man....and you too.

queenbetsy:
5 years?? that's crazy of her!

Yes, five solid years. Years back I was heart broken, it seemed the end of life then. But now, she has been begging for almost two years now. She's currently done with her one year mandatory service while am still undergoing mine presently.

Her siblings were surprised because they never believed she could do such a thing.

The secret is that I Work hard and prove her wrong. I Prove to her that she lost, not me.

Laxy009:


Yes, five solid years. Years back I was heart broken, it seemed the end of life then. But now, she has been begging for almost two years now. She's currently done with her one year mandatory service while am still undergoing mine presently.

Her siblings were surprised because they never believed she could do such a thing.

The secret is that I Work hard and prove her wrong. I Prove to her that she lost, not me.

the best thing is to make them regret by working hard and upgrading your standard... first to do no dey pain

samuel051:
you are not far from the truth bro,but one thing I also realized is that,since they didn't suffer d way d guy did in order to assist them in times of distress,it makes it so easy for them to just over look things and say what pleases them not minding d stress d guy went through.

[b]Not quite. It's not really about the suffering. I dated someone whom we both went through tough times and out of our ways for each other, but the moment she felt the relationship wasn't going her way (she wanted instant marriage but was too emotionally unstable and not ready to first work on herself) she discredited everything (You did nothing for me! I could have done it all myself!!) and labelled it "waste of time" regardless of the immeasurable progress she's made (thru me) in her life, that she has severally praised me for in the past (I could never hav paid all those debts without u. I was so scattered and u just organized my whole world. I can't believe that I cud be this calm and at ease. Thank you etc.)

So it's not abt their Not investing or not appreciating, it's about something not going their way one moment, and they turn around and ruin everything without care or caution. It's selfishness. Its being mean and emotionally irresponsible. They can watch u burn and even piss on the flames just cos u "provoked" them and so ure their enemy for the time being. I was thinking it was just that lady, but when I put the topic online plenty of them sprang up and I was like and now ure giving the same testimony too. Honesty, If a man is lucky enough to meet a lady who's not like this, let him hold her tight and make her feel really understood and appreciated. At least that's what I'd do[/b]

LordAdam16:


Na d ones wen don baff with poverty wen suppose understand how hustle hard nai dey do this narcissism pass.

Forget those people. No how u 1 turn am pass. They feel that hole between their legs is a key to open all types of doors. So, once them don open ur door, forgerrit. Nothing concern them again.

-Lord

they just like taking one for granted not even trying to think for a second wat d guy might turn out to be tomorrow,most of my ex who took my quiet nature for stupidity still end up asking for us to come back after finding out dat my personality is hard to find,sadly I turn dem down becos the moment I consider someone my ex,she stays as an ex.

queenbetsy:
the best thing is to make them regret by working hard and upgrading your standard... first to do no dey pain

Sure. Success is always the best revenge. When you keep doing it successfully they will be force to bow on their knees.

That useless boy, I go like get amnesia and forget he existed sef
No regrets though, we win some...we lose some.

Charlentine:
[b]Not quite. It's not really about the suffering. I dated someone whom we both went through tough times and out of our ways for each other, but the moment she felt the relationship wasn't going her way (she wanted instant marriage but was too emotionally unstable and not ready to first work on herself) she discredited everything (You did nothing for me! I could have done it all myself!!) and labelled it "waste of time" regardless of the immeasurable progress she's made (thru me) in her life, that she has severally praised me for in the past (I could never hav paid all those debts without u. I was so scattered and u just organized my whole world. I can't believe that I cud be this calm and at ease. Thank you etc.)

So it's not abt their Not investing or not appreciating, it's about something not going their way one moment, and they turn around and ruin everything without care or caution. It's selfishness. Its being mean and emotionally irresponsible. They can watch u burn and even piss on the flames just cos u "provoked" them and so ure their enemy for the time being. I was thinking it was just that lady, but when I put the topic online plenty of them sprang up and I was like and now ure giving the same testimony too. Honesty, If a man is lucky enough to meet a lady who's not like this, let him hold her tight and make her feel really understood and appreciated. At least that's what I'd do[/b]

truth couldn't be truer than this..

Laxy009:


Sure. Success is always the best revenge. When you keep doing it successfully they will be force to bow on their knees.

of course. You've moved on now?

samuel051:
I don't even feel comfortable wen people help me,but I like helping others whole hearted.

that's it Bro. Jahbless your hustle

queenbetsy:
of course. You've moved on now?

Yes, have moved on. I need to face my career hoping someone special might come during the process.

calls dats all

Laxy009:


Yes, have moved on. I need to face my career hoping someone special might come during the process.

sounds good... all the best!

queenbetsy:
what did u regret doing for your ex?

Being God-fearing, true to her and helping her become the better person that she is so proud of today. Let me put it this way: let's say ure trying to free a lioness from a snare that caught her but she keeps struggling and accidentally scratching you no matter how many times uve said "hold still!" and now uve freed the lion but ure seriously bleeding from all those scratches, and the lioness looks at u, hisses, says "why are u bleeding like a dead animal ehn? I hate the sight of blood, please, I can't stand it!" So ure trying to get urself to a hospital. Trying to forget the experience and move on. But it's hard as long as ure still bleeding and aren't yet at the hospital


Yeah I think I described the feeling well

cutedharmee:
Always complaining bout d mum nur giving him enof while in skul, sent money to him and had to enter gbese of #100,000. Such won't repeat itself sha o

lol. wow! E-hugs.

I never regret anything i did out of love... Or when the going was good between me and someone.. Wether they deserve it or not, As long as i felt good doing it then it doesnt matter anymore.
What matters is your current location and destination.

Charlentine:
Being God-fearing, true to her and helping her become the better person that she is so proud of today. Let me put it this way: let's say ure trying to free a lioness from a snare that caught her but she keeps struggling and accidentally scratching you no matter how many times uve said "hold still!" and now uve freed the lion but ure seriously bleeding from all those scratches, and the lioness looks at u, hisses, says "why are u bleeding like a dead animal ehn? I hate the sight of blood, please, I can't stand it!" So ure trying to get urself to a hospital. Trying to forget the experience and move on. But it's hard as long as ure still bleeding and aren't yet at the hospital


Yeah I think I described the feeling well

oh dear... she must have left so many scars then. Different strokes for different folks. Only you can help yourself out, it's very easy.

Klington:
fada Christmas

fucking her without condom ...

queenbetsy:
oh dear... she must have left so many scars then. Different strokes for different folks. Only you can help yourself out, it's very easy.

very easy? Oya gist me... What do u suggest?

Kyllahmc:
I never regret anything i did out of love... Or when the going was good between me and someone.. Wether they deserve it or not, As long as i felt good doing it then it doesnt matter anymore.
What matters is your current location and destination.

This is a good way to think. I wish it were realistic tho. My bet is, you got as much as u gave so it's all fair in ur mind. But if I'm wrong and u did lose a lot to an ingrate in a painful way, then I really admire ur thinking. I'd emulate

samuel051:
yes o,i took it as one of d lessons of life,majority of girls if not all can never take u serious as ur family member will even if u pull down heaven for dem,one little argument a girl dat was all over u just a minute ago will start flaming like pipeline bombed by NDA u go begin wonder if its same person u have been dating all these while.

**phew** thank God I don't have ex(s). Once its over you don't even deserve that 'ex' tag.

I really don't think people should regret because at a particular point in time, what they did what was they really wanted to do which brought them happiness.

samuel051:
Trained her from HND 2 till nysc, though she used to assist me in my ond days wen things were tough for me, because of a little argument,she asked me wat have i ever done for her,this was sum1 her mom said she wont go for HND,told her to go get married,she cried and cried no be small,na so we stay together,buy text books and everything,even bought clothes for her,feeding and everything was on me for more than 4 years because after service we were still together, d day she made that statement, my head spin,she apologised sha,but i lost interest in her till i had to call everything off,we still talk till date but,it has made me to mind the way i help people.

Bro...you should have try forgive her...even your future wife might tell.u that too
u see we must learn to accept not just the perfections of those we love but their imperfections also...we should expect the worse frm people....for she to apologize shows she was sorry..and that shouldn't have been a reason to call it quit

MissPuffPuff:
I regret giving him a second of my time wasted

you shouldn't dear

Humility017:

you shouldn't dear

tmgold007:
MY FLOWER TO DISFLOWER

. Sori dear, cry no more. Every flower always got deflowered, jst a matter of time.