Laxy009:


Good. The past events in a relationship always make someone scared especially when you're been betrayed in the past by someone you love so much. It'll always be difficult to trust any one again. In my own case, I see every ladies as same which is wrong. It really

Yes
Its true , but i have learnt that not all guys are the same
Honestly when it first happened was on a hate guys campaign lol but now I know his just one man
Not all guys do that

Hope your ex didn't do much damage o .. apparently a break up is like a death hope u also have moved on

Toks2008:
Staying faithful to my ex for good 12years even when I was in a position to be with as many babes as I could...at the end she still left saying she feels she is caged as she has spent all her life with only me from age 19 to 30 so I let her go...after 3 years she came back and I tried to give her a second chance but unfortunately things were not just working out so I had to break up with her for good.

But I don't regret doing that tho cos that is who I am and I will still be faithful to any lady in my life but this time not to a naive lady who will probably still stray cos no matter how sweet caring romantic and faithful you may be to a naive lady ,she will always believe there is something better out there.

It takes someone who has experienced heartbreak to value true affection.

there are no guarantees that the next one will not stray like the first one did.

being naive or not, when a lady initially makes up her mind to leave, you can't stop her.

I had a similar experience, though mine was for 3 years straight. shared the little I had with her back then. did things together. forgave her once after I found out that she had a fling with her Boss. the list is endless. she finally told me via SMS that she was leaving town the next day to meet the man who had proposed to her at the time. Her excuse was she had found someone to marry her since I wasn't ready at the time. I tried all I could within that short notice to make her stay back but her mind was made up.....

Another Ex was extremely possessive during our courtship. she would call back any lady who calls me to rain abuses on her. it continued for some time till I could not take it anymore. she still begs me to put her in the family way.

Looking back I regretted the time and resources spent to make these relationships work. But I learnt a few lessons and these has helped me to remain focused on certain goals.

Mrtolotolo:


Osky the lala

Joor fimi le
I no even go church self God dey look me with one eye .. let me go check if i can make next service .. before he stops my blessings
I'll holla later

See ya

Bumbae1:

Joor fimi le
I no even go church self God dey look me with one eye .. let me go check if i can make next service .. before he stops my blessings
I'll holla later

See ya

Oki

This thread has opened my eyes to the fact that ladies are more confused, promiscuous,insatiable and heart breakers than guys...

Anytime I hear any lady rant about guys being bad I will simply ask her to shut up...

Ask any guy who is a heartless lover and you will be amazed to know that he once loved a lady genuinely.

Aderola15:
All the pension collectors... WehdoneSirs

Oh yeah.
I collected mine pressed down, shaken together and running over. The babe didn't believe I could do that. She was actually boasting to her friends that if we could have sex, she would get me back. It was after I kicked her out that I heard about it.

uboma:




there are no guarantees that the next one will not stray like the first one did.

being naive or not, when a lady initially makes up her mind to leave, you can't stop her.

I had a similar experience, though mine was for 3 years straight. shared the little I had with her back then. did things together. forgave her once after I found out that she had a fling with her Boss. the list is endless. she finally told me via SMS that she was leaving town the next day to meet the man who had proposed to her at the time. Her excuse was she had found someone to marry her since I wasn't ready at the time. I tried all I could within that short notice to make her stay back but her mind was made up.....

Another Ex was extremely possessive during our courtship. she would call back any lady who calls me to rain abuses on her. it continued for some time till I could not take it anymore. she still begs me to put her in the family way.

Looking back I regretted the time and resources spent to make these relationships work. But I learnt a few lessons and these has helped me to remain focused on certain goals.

I agree but it takes someone who has experienced heartbreak to value true affection.

samuel051:
That experience made me to call of two relationships, because from my experience and that of others I know and heard about,I noticed that most girls from d age of 25yrs and below are confused,they don't know what they want in a relationship, older girls tend to be more sensible and experienced as they know what they want and how to handle relationship issues.(my own personal opinion).

I support your opinion..most girl within that age range don't no what they want..they are confuse and not always satisfy with the good caring guy they have until they lose it..they hardly show any sign of remorse for their doing because life has not taught them a lesson...they only realise their mistake in years time (when they are at d age of 28 to 38).also, this type of girls are the ones that thinks they are players but they do not no they are destroying their life and also being damage...I fact, they are the real definition of loose bitch who don't no what they want

Bumbae1:


Yes
Its true , but i have learnt that not all guys are the same
Honestly when it first happened was on a hate guys campaign lol but now I know his just one man
Not all guys do that

Hope your ex didn't do much damage o .. apparently a break up is like a death hope u also have moved on

Imagine your girlfriend breaking up a relationship of about 5years telling you that you didn't offend me just because of a guy some where. It was God who saved me that semester back then in school, the break up really help because I had 7A's and a B that semester. It was hell then because she really shattered my plans seriously. It been 3 years now. Have moved on perfectly well.

The situation was just an eye opening event

Toks2008:
This thread has opened my eyes to the fact that ladies are more confused, promiscuous,insatiable and heart breakers than guys...

Anytime I hear any lady rant about guys being bad I will simply ask her to shut up...

Ask any guy who is a heartless lover and you will be amazed to know that he once loved a lady genuinely.

Talking from the guys point of view shey

Go back and read the experience of ladies in the hands of heartless men.
it's happen on both sides, stop being one sided.

Ask any Lady who is a heartless lover and you will be amazed to know she once loved a guy genuinely.

Toks2008:


I agree but it takes someone who has experienced heartbreak to value true affection.

this is not always the norm, Sir.

Omotayor123:

Talking from the guys point of view shey

Go back and read the experience of ladies in the hands of heartless men.
it's happen on both sides, stop being one sided.

Ask any Lady who is a heartless lover and you will be amazed to know she once loved a guy genuinely.

At least judging from this thread Tayo...you can't agree less with me.

Maybe if ladies open up more I might change my stand view.

uboma:



this is not always the norm, Sir.

Apparently there are always exceptions.

dejavubobo1:

As long has U had sex with a Nigerian lady. she feels all debts are been repaid without recourse to whatever has transpired btw u guys in the past

exactly n if u say they only have sex to offer they will get mad, so annoying

Edusouls:
chai happily doing it with joy,not knowing that you were introducing wahala into your life,sorry bro thats life experience...

Lol no be small thing o, can't even tell people whatsup now...only tells them she is fine whenever they ask after her.

DIKEnaWAR:



Are you and is she a Niger deltan? I found that attitude most in Niger delta ladies. Talking from experience.

yes bro

Adexchelsea19:
This is so true... my gf did the same thing last week, a girl I always help out o, do things for her just because I feel she has also helped me before. She ask me for 25k for a new phone and I told her I don't have much. After 2weeks this girl told me that what has she ever gain from me since we have been dating, Omo I open mouth Walahi. Though she apologize but I will never forget that statement.

3 girls have so far displayed that attitude, sometimes I am having the opinion that that's how they are programmed.

Bumbae1:

Lol i am simple o ..

Hmmm if i show off trust me you'll know
D most humble person you'll ever meet .. besides flashy things dont move me so why willi be flashy

you don't show off, but you're showing us BUMbae.

Bumbae1:

Joor fimi le
I no even go church self God dey look me with one eye .. let me go check if i can make next service .. before he stops my blessings
I'll holla later

See ya

church?.... mba

dejavubobo1:

As long has U had sex with a Nigerian lady. she feels all debts are been repaid without recourse to whatever has transpired btw u guys in the past

Whover told them this thing has ruined humanity. Their sense of entitlement after sex or before it is legendary. I used to attribute it to poverty, but rich girls do it too.

Notatribalist:
I subscribe to ur opinion bro.in fact 80℅of girls a confused. the lesson my fvcking ex thought me is priceless, I treat girls the way they deserve to be treated now.no more money to spend,if u re OK with that,fine.

I don't even do relationship again,my main aim is aiming something bigger,sometimes I thank God for what happened, who knows what will happen when I start sending money back home to her,she may start giving it out to another lazy nig*a while I work my arse away in another country.

marshalcarter:

bros....Since ya a cheerful helper ....help me with guitar plsssss plsss....I dnt want my music career to die plss

d days of cheerful helper are over, now I apply wisdom.

tmgold007:
TRUSTING HIM....I REALLY REGRETED TRUSTING HIM AND BEEN FAITHFUL TO HIM...AND I REGRETTED GIVING HIM MY FLOWER TO DISFLOWER ON MY BIRTHDAY...

The thing wit flower is: only d badt ones know how to pluck it right! N u guys only luv to gv it to em!
They r usually not in IT!
lead u on to d waters, have u taste it a couple of times, n leaves u to find ur way back hom

Bumbae1:


Lol will u sign the paper

B4 nko? That one nor be stress na. Any other thing to sign lemme know

aigbeedo:
Washed her panties, washed her clothes, cook for her, disrupt anyone tryin to say wrong of her. make others respect her. lick her toes. mehnn I gave her heaven on earth. even though I was not broke, I still gave her the little I had. Yet she still hit the freeway.

First Class wuss! Ouch!

U should read my thread: DATING DRILLS.
Thank me leta

FuckTheM0ds:
you mean you called to beg her for the relationship to move on but she didn't accept?
it's something I can never do. chai tufiakwa. to beg my gf not to break up. tufiakwa

Lol. Had to do the needful nah
Lashed her BFF and she got to know about it

Made d dog feel special

Bumbae1:

Lie lie next wan we go sign paper
I don learn my lesson

reply my message

I regret fucking my ex....


After fucking her silly many times.

she came one day to ask me dat are we dating?

Bla bla, bla... She say "We just friends" and she go marry anoda man.

Feel like taking my bleeps back coz she ova enjoy am.

I hate myself and hate her 4 dat action..

Well, since I was younger I have never believed in love. even till this day. so the little relationships I had I didn't invest emotions at all. so no much regrets.

I thank God for where I am now. there are cool, mature and highly intelligent girls available for me now. to probably practice the love thing.