johnbuck81:
this is wrong..a woman is a woman and a man remains a man.treat the pussy as a cat and the dick as Harry.

hucienda:
This CNA feminist craze is now getting stale.

Trying too much to seek validation from western liberal powers that be.

Make she no overdo am before common folk start seeing her as one over-rated writer.

Apina:

That's were she and those of you in support get it wrong. outside the love of God, there's no other being who's love doesn't go with conditions. That aside, feminism is a misconception of roles. Women should demand to be treated as humans with rights like every other human and not using men as the yardstick. If they want the same roles as men, who would fill in for theirs?

johnbuck81:
this is wrong..a woman is a woman and a man remains a man.treat the pussy as a cat and the dick as Harry.

UncleJudax:

Sadly, no love is unconditional. Although you have the right to believe otherwise.

Scatterscatter:
I dislike the insincerity of acclaimed feminists.

"Women should be treated as those with joysticks" but when armed robbers attack, the same women will run behind those with the "joystick" and the "joystick" will willingly receive the bullet on her behalf.

I really pity our Nigerian ladies who are doing copy-copy of the nonsense feminism wave blowing in the West.
Ever wondered why the rate of divorce and separation has increased in Nigeria since the advent of Social Media?

Ladies, be wise as no man will ever give his best to any woman that dare challenge his authority all the time. Make a man feel less of himself and watch a Prince turn to a dare-devil!
Men are naturally egoistic in nature, stroke his ego positively and trust me, you will have him do anything you wish without conflict.

gemale:

A stupid person doesn't get a masters & honorary PhD 4rm John Hopkins University. A stupid person doesn't write books lyk "purple hibiscus" & "½ of a yellow sun". However a stupid person makes statements lyk d 1 u just made. & y? because som1 is asking 2 b treated equally & nt 2 b discriminated based on her sex. Only a man wt severe low self esteem believes dt women shld b subject 2 him.

7Alexander:
Seun lalaaticlala, I'm still trying to understand why parts of the body like 'pënis and vagina' are automatically changed to joystick or whatever useless name.

Isnt it stupid that one can type 'leg, knee, head, finger' without it been changed, but can't use penis? There is no part of the body called 'joystick'

This is plain hypocrisy and childishness!!!

It will really be interesting to know the lame reason for this


So out of curiosity, I decided to type penis to see if it'll change
Modified: OK so now I'm playing... What if I type vagina? no change mscheww y won't there be feminists

SACI:

Dude,really..?
A pussy as a cat(animal)
A dick as harry (human)
That u guys have a pole instead of a hole does make u "guys" superior to us.

Timi141:
This is the readon why you and your female daughters will live and die in the kitchen. The constant search for male validation and not willing to stand up to challenge the status quo and fight for your equal rights. Well continue, more power to me the alpha male.

oxon:
she is actually overrated the only reason she is getting this much publicity in the first place is because she is a woman , I know a lot of male writters in Africa who will beat her hands down when it come to literal prose but then no one has given em any recognition, because in a mans world just good does not cut it, actually excellence buys you the respect you need , if we are to take an equal stand then trust me she won't be this recognized... take yemi alade for example is she as good as the likes of brymo, dammy crane , but she's the one getting international recognition ..

JacksonD7:
Chimamanda is losing her respect real fast, first it was feminism now she added gay rights into the mix who knows what will come next.

RosaConsidine:


She's gaining respect elsewhere with people that matter. Yours doesn't really matter.

JacksonD7:


She's also losing respect with people that matter. Your respect doesn't mean a thing.

TMDavidWest:


You see, I talked about "unconditional love", I did not talk about "Feminism". That's all I want to point out.

RosaConsidine:


Too often, I see posts like these and I would just like to believe that they are made by people who don't understand the basic premise of feminism.

For starters, women run behind men in the face if danger? That happens but there are also men that run behind their women in the face if danger. There strong, bold, resilient women who would brave any circumstances even better than a lot of men would. Why should they be treated differently or as lesser creatures? Your gender is certaonly not what makes you smart, bold, courageous, strong, resilient or intelligent.

Sure, there are women who are only too happy to play the damsel in distress and leave their men to do everything "because I'm a woman". Those people are just plain lazy and I wouldn't marry such. While there certainly are differences between men and women generally (asides anatomy, of course!), these differences aren't a reason why women should be looked on as lesser creatures with inferior abilities. There are people who wouldn't give women jobs as engineers or scientists or even doctors or lawyers just because they are women. And that shouldn't be so. People should be treated based on the strength of their character and their personal abilities, not their gender.

Of course there are women who use the feminism movement as a platform to be unrealistic and to demand for what they don't deserve. Those ones should be ignored. However, we shouldn't dismiss the entire movement just because some people who claim to be a part of it either wholly misunderstand what they are supposed to be representing or are wilfully using it for their personal benefits. That would be tantamount to throwing the baby out with the bathwater.

Also, for those saying men also need to be treated equally on certain issues, I wholly agree. Issues like sexual harassment, domestic abuse and the likes on men are given less attention because we are expected to suck it up. In a way, feminism is fighting for that too - if men would also speak up about these things. Either we're all given the same treatment and attention or we all don't get any attention at all. Either way, equality is the baseline.

By the way, for those equating feminism to single life, you might want to know that Chimamanda is married and is still a feminist so check that view.

cremedelacreme:
Chimamanda I am one of your biggest fans but you are falling my hand lately with this your feminism stuff.

Scatterscatter:

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Mind you, when a man takes the bullet for the woman, he dies fulfilled and happy cos his main responsibility is to love, care and protect her and he has done this by Paying the ultimate sacrifice of laying down his life for her.
This is what his instinct and society tell him both in his conscious and subconscious.

After this been said, only a mad and cowardly Man will run behind a woman (except if she's a soldier sha), but trust me, Both the society and himself will come after him for the ACt and he will never forgive himself.

Secondly, no woman in her right senses will allow a man take over her kitchen all the time. Does that mean men shouldn't cook? No, but it is only appropriate to allow her do it with joy and happiness as it gives her a sense of fulfilment and responsibility cooking for the family.

I only gave those examples for you to know we both have areas in which we are to function. The more we fight for equality, the more inequality we create.

Rather than ascribe "female, girl, woman" etc, to the struggle why not make it open to all.
"fight sexual harassment of women in Nigeria"
"compulsory education for the girl child"
OR
"fight sexual harassment in Nigeria"
"compulsory education for all children"

Which of the above do you consider more genuine?

Let's just be sincere, we can never be equal as we both have our nature endowed strengths and responsibilities. Let's advocate for strict rules against any inhumane act towards any gender and race as this should be the main struggle.

Just to let you know, the feminist struggle is just a mirage, the main idea is to make women believe they are being cheated and trampled upon, to see themselves as not needing a man, it is also to make them believe they can stand alone and to throw caution to the wind anytime a man tries to exercise his authority.

The main idea is to destabilize the home at the end of the day.

"Life is eazi" when we all assume our nature endowed responsibilties and quit fighting for equality but rather fight for humanity.

johnbuck81:
this is wrong..a woman is a woman and a man remains a man.treat the pussy as a cat and the dick as Harry.

gemale:

Do u know 1 problem u hv dt u need 2 urgently work on? Poor communication skills. In 6 sentences, u hv managed 2 simultaneously nt make a single point & veer off d topic @ hand. Instead of returning d insult u hurled @ me in ur last sentence, I choose 2 bring u back 2 D topic being discussed. U spoke abt feminism being behind high cases of divorce & single parenthood. I countered saying dt marriage was a union contract between 2 different bt equal parties & it's both d duty & responsibility of husband & wife 2 protect their marriage so if 1 party decides 2 sabotage dt Union, D oda party shldnt b blamed 4 leaving. My final sentence was a statement of my opinion dt any man who believe by virtue of his sex, he's supposed 2 Lord over a woman & treat her lyk a subordinate is d least of men. Ur subsequent rant showed dt I struck a nerve & dt u unfortunately fall in2 ds category. 4rm ur brownian motion-lyk rants, I gleaned dt u think dt cooking & doing house chores r beneath a man. FYI I've cooked, cleaned & washed my clothes as a single person & so hv many males. I dnt think dt makes any of us lesser men. So if I hv 2 do dt in marriage, wts d big deal? If my wife can wash my clothes, y can't I wash hers? Y can't I wash my children's clothes? Wld any member of my family fall sick & die if I do dt? If I don't want 2 do it, it wld b because I'm unwilling, lazy or exhausted nt because it's a taboo 4 a man 2 do it.

Speedyconnect7:
trash talker

TMDavidWest:


Sadly... Believing that is why "conditional love" still thrives.