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Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:18pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
I don't know why, but going by the book, this is not meant to be. But since it has, I guess there is not much I can do about it if not for what seems to be a regressing obstacle. There is the girl in my faculty, lady perhaps. Petite she is, cute? I will give her a perfect tick. She has this glasses on, I think that's what attracted me to her in this first place, aside the intelligence and gentleness. She is good, pretty good; I mean her English, so I decided to kind of cue her in into my project(editing my novel). So we become close, kind of, in my own definition though: I'm a schizoid; I think that helps in gauging how close is close when I say close. The thing here now is this: like I said, I am a schizoid. Just these days I am feeling so to say this urge should I say, to keep in touch with her, to say hi, to chat. This longing, should I call it need, I wouldn't say thirst for her presence but the truth is I love seeing her around and this, in particular, is giving me concerns. And this is because, despite all these, I still find it difficult, should I say more impossible to cross that line, the two distinct territory within me. The weaker part of me want to cross that line, but the stronger guy continually overshadows it. Though I have been able to, over constancy, do some things naturally I wouldn't do as a schizoid yet this, the stronger part, I seem helpless before. So, nairalanders, I think I will be needing suggestions, tips, on how to get this done: be with someone I, for the first time, take pleasure not just in her presence but her happiness. Thanks. Cc: Lalasticlala |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by auntysimbiat(f): 10:22pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hmmmmm..... |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:23pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
auntysimbiat:An extension of words may be helpful. Thanks. 1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Yinkey6(m): 10:24pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hey ,bro.
Are you a Scriopo? |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by BlackDBagba: 10:25pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 10:26pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Schizoid personality disorder? Personality disorders & relationships don't mix well. Not sure if many people here will understand the mechanics of your disorder. Have you tried forums of people with personality disorders? I can give you a few suggestions. 1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:28pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Yinkey6:Sorry bro, don't know what Scriopo is. Want to clarify? |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:29pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
ZarZar:Tried quite a few, not satisfying. Nonetheless, your suggestions can still come in. 1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 10:32pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hurlstarling: OK. Psychforums.com & Psychcentral.com. Good luck. 1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Yinkey6(m): 10:37pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hurlstarling:Scorpio is the eighth astrological sign in the Zodiac. Just asking Bro. |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Divay22(f): 10:37pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hmmm...i just might not know how it feels to be a schizoid But why don't you give it a try It's all in your head,you either choose to make it work or not to....... |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 10:40pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Yinkey6: Lol, you had to take it the astrology route. I think I found a kindred spirit. What's your sign? |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 10:43pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Yinkey6:Why did u ask the guy bro Cos I'm scorpio and i kinda have the same prob with op 1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:45pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
ZarZar:Sign? You are driving me crazy by your new astrology. Please come down to my level, i am interested in knowing my signs. Thanks. |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 10:47pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hurlstarling: Your sign depends on the date & month you were born. To make it easier, when is your birthday? |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:49pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Yinkey6:Oh....my bad. Let me consult google. Done. Can't be a Scorpio. 2 Likes |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by HARDDON: 10:50pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Be there speaking english wit ur bumbum thinking life is a well scripted novel while some other guy wud come lick her off under ur nose like tomtom aiit? 1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:50pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
ZarZar:Oh.....my bad; poor me. August 10. |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Hurlstarling: 10:51pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
HARDDON:Any suggestions? |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 10:53pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hurlstarling: You're a Leo. You're supposed to be vivacious, so...IDK. You can look up the traits for entertainment sake when you have time. |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by HARDDON: 10:54pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Hurlstarling: Nopes! Let d schz stuff keep hooking u to that english plastic chair u take for a rock! Smh Btw ZarZar Zazzy, u havent said hello to Big Deddy today. ![]() |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 10:57pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
HARDDON: Lol @ Big Deddy. Hello ![]() |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by kiddoiLL(m): 10:58pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
ZarZar:when one Psych meets another psycho
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Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by HARDDON: 11:03pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
ZarZar: I hereby Return ur Hello to u in its full fervour. Im not dealing. How can an Hello be so bland n blank? No flavour,spice, nothing. ![]() Aint u supposed to be sexy? ![]() |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Yinkey6(m): 11:28pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
hoshodie:Same here too. I also have such ish. .but If she is a Pisces. You're good to go. Anyway I love being a Scriopo.. 1 Like |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Yinkey6(m): 11:31pm On Mar 08, 2017 |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by waluga(m): 1:37pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Divay22:does been a schizoid have anything to do with ur zodiac sign...cos am scorpio and had schizoid../schizophrenia...please enlighten |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by waluga(m): 1:38pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
hoshodie:same here...scorpio and schizophrenic |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Lilyjoe567(f): 2:04pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Okay, not sure if this helps though, but I'd like for you to think of her as a loophole. You feel something for her, which isn't supposed to happen but somehow it did. Why not press on with the weaker part of you and see where it goes Although totally unrelated, I had a severe case of OCD, I can't count how many times I wake up at night to check on the gas to make sure I put it off or how I think following a particular side of the road is better, but one particular night, I was so tired and that part of me was still urging to get up and check on the gas, I told myself, I've checked it four times already so if the house wants to burn down, then let it, and I slept Now, I can honestly say that, I'm well, almost there. So, give it a go 2 Likes |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by Nobody: 7:27pm On Mar 09, 2017 |
Schizoids can still have a fulfilling relationship. All you need to do is make her understand your personality. If she's intelligent then she will know how to del with you. From experience go for her and later on tell her |
Re: Love Her, But My Schizoid Personality Is Stopping Me From Bonding. by boomssey(f): 5:33pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
If you are August it definitely means you are Leo!but with this attitude,should i call it attitude it's rather making it hard to comprehend.all the same good luck with your findings. |
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