[color=#000000][/color] Please I need mature advice
just found out that my fiancee met her ex,we intend having our wedding next month ,though she denied initially, but When I showed her the evidence, she said the just saw by a church, problem is she is pregnant, I am confused, how do I go about this?

The best way to make sure she doesn't see her ex anymore is to blind her.

You don't know if the pregnancy is yours?

There's nothing wrong with her runnung into an ex,

But

If she'd deny this till you have to threaten her with pictures,

Then


There's so much she isn't telling you.

Good luck with that.

Please delete bro.
#HarshButEffective

She met ex to say that baby was coming and you dont need to provide for baby as i have a account opened for baby to be taken care and also you can have from it as depositor will get interest from mom
Just my view no offence intended
Thunder fires anybody quoting me and will lose his phone today

Put the wedding on hold, until you are sure what you are doing. Marriage is no joke.

Can you elaborate the following @Osas1507
What do you mean by "met her ex"? what evidence do you have? what do you mean by the "problem is she's pregnant"?

Meeting an ex without a prior arrangement may not be much of a threat, but denying the engagement is where the problem lies.


Be sure to know EVERYTHING before proceeding.

Joavid:
Can you elaborate the following @Osas1507

What do you mean by "met her ex"?
what evidence do you have?
what do you mean by the "problem is she's pregnant"?

I have audio recordings of where they met

Fadamant:
Put the wedding on hold, until you are sure what you are doing. Marriage is no joke.

thanks

Richy4:
I wish U can clarify this for me Why were you confused?..was it that he may have been seeing the Ex behind your back or that that the lady may have been pregnant for your man...which one was it?

why making an arrangement to see her ex without my consent, she denied, till I showed her the evidence

NwamaziNwaAro:

There's nothing wrong with her runnung into an ex,

But

If she'd deny this till you have to threaten her with pictures,

Then

.
There's so much she isn't telling you.

Good luck with that.

they scheduled a meeting

Are you sure you are even the owner of the pregnancy?

Osas1507:
I have audio recordings of where they met

really ....

then the audio record should guide your decision not what anyone says here.

Joavid:


really ....

then the audio record should guide your decision not what anyone says here.

that's why I need your advice, on how to handle the situation

Osas1507:
I have audio recordings of where they met

What is the content of this recording? Specifics.

Osas1507:
that's why I need your advice, on how to handle the situation

you haven't say what the problem is. You said you have records, what is in the records? Are u scared the preg isn't yours? Exes could still meet and talk,but she denying it makes it sound as though something is fishy. She probally denied it just to save face. It might be nothing. Do your research

Osas1507:
that's why I need your advice, on how to handle the situation

you're not serious o.

tonyfran:
you haven't say what the problem is. You said you have records, what is in the records? Are u scared the preg isn't yours? Exes could still meet and talk,but she denying it makes it sound as though something is fishy. She probally denied it just to save face. It might be nothing. Do your research

my problem is if I should go ahead with the marriage, for someone you want to spend the rest of your life with acting in this manner! The trust and love isn't there again

Joavid:


you're not serious o.

please explain

crackhaus:

What is the content of this recording? Specifics.

the meeting place with directions

Osas1507:
the meeting place with directions

With directions?
This could mean it's a first meeting. Could be, could not.
How much you trust her is what comes into play here.

But I understand where you're coming from though, she initially lied about meeting him and continued to deny it until you showed her the evidence. This can be disheartening.
However, women are a very special breed. She may have been lying to you because she feels that if she admits they met, you will never believe that nothing happened between them.

Yea I know it's a silly excuse but an excuse nonetheless, one which can only make sense to a woman who feels her man doesn't trust her enough yet.

crackhaus:

With directions?
This could mean it's a first meeting. Could be, could not.
How much you trust her is what comes into play here.

But I understand where you're coming from though, she initially lied about meeting him and continued to deny it until you showed her the evidence. This can be disheartening.
However, women are a very special breed. She may have been lying to you because she feels that if she admits they met, you will never believe that nothing happened between them.

Yea I know it's a silly excuse but an excuse nonetheless, one which can only make sense to a woman who feels her man doesn't trust her enough yet.

this is the second time with the same person

Osas1507:
this is the second time with the same person

See this is why you need to state every important detail at once instead of adding them bit by bit like you're writing a movie script.

If this is the second time, then there's a pattern here.
You might want to consider holding off on that wedding for her to come clean and for you to reevaluate if you want to spend the rest of your life with someone you don't trust.

What exactly is the issue here?

Cos koyemi

Dyt:
What exactly is the issue here?

Cos koyemi

vthe issue is that of a fiance still seeing her ex

Met her ex for what exactly?
Did she go to beg for wedding money or for final Congo polishing?Or did she just see him in passing and have a nice empty chat?

I'm anti Exes..Ex is in the past and should stay firmly there.Some are still pals with theirs.What does your lady believe? Take it from there and then reach an agreement on how to handle exes.

Una never start ,belle don dey ,ex don enter.
Abeg settle all this before you decide to sign the dotted lines and stay miserable.

Osas1507:
vthe issue is that of a fiance still seeing her ex

Seeing as in fecking?

Osas1507:
why making an arrangement to see her ex without my consent, she denied, till I showed her the evidence

Call off the wedding NOW!!!

Have a DNA test done when the baby is born.

You know the rest...