I've said this before.... Cheating is born out of Selfishness. The desire to Satisfy yourself more at the expense of another person's Joy or Happiness.
PPL need to learn how to Love. but in the world today where wrong is being celebrated, you'd think you're doing right by doing wrong. Love is a Choice. it's Choosing to do the things wch will make the other person at ease rather than putting you at ease n the other person in tears. everything we do today is all abt 'me, me, me,'..... what abt the other person, doesn't their interest count? how happy we feel wen others cry at the expense of trying to feel fulfilled within... it's Crazy Mehn.

dacovajnr:
Haba! Aderola Losun!!!!!

Loooool

Ipade wa nii

Aderola15:

Very well ooooo

Thanks jawe How are your kids and husband now?

Jesusgirl92:
Na you get your mouth. I don't wish to look any different. If i get big nose it's becus "cute pointed nose" won't fit. God created everyone d best way possible. If you no like urself na ur biz!

It is your fat nose I don't like. But your response was cool till your last statement.

Not really, just look at this way. Mind you, i was also told.
"All camel toes taste thesame in RESPECTIVE OF HOW THE WOMAN MIGHT look.
All bo#bs have thesame feeling when touched. "

So the only reason you will eye another woman when you already have one beside you is because you think it might taste diffrent. ITS ALL DSAME, JUST FIX HOW UR BRAIN WORKS & U WILL BE SUPER FAITHFUL TO UR WIFE

Aderola15:


Loooool

Ipade wa nii

Even if you're at your Coven...iyen o ma ni ko ma sun...She appears and comment on every Thread like kilode! Even Olode of NL like myself is sleepy but can't sleep on duty

lebete3000:


It is your fat nose I don't like. But your response was cool till your last statement.

Who ur like epp

tosyne2much:
[i] I think you're getting it wrong bro... One of the reasons why there are usually high rate of failure in English Language is the inability to comprehend a message an encoder is passing across... Nobody is saying that there are no men who aren't faithful to their wives.. The question is, what is the ratio of faithful men compared to the ratio of unfaithful men? Does the rate of faithful men outweigh that of unfaithful men? I think that should be out thrust of discussion, not about you deciding whether you will cheat or not


Thank you

I'm Jes speaking for myself and not for anyone else. I know relatively very few men out there are faithful. I quite understand her point. like I mentioned, cheating is a choice. that the OP hasn't found or seen one who is faithful doesn't mean she should write off all men. she didn't even mention if quite a few are faithful or not, she Jes wants women not to expect their man to be faithful.... but then why marry him if you can't trust him to be faithful.

Papykush:
E no go better for the guys whey break this girl heart

Oga Boss chillax now, she no be the first pesin wey don suffer heart break na!

Jesusgirl92:
Who ur like epp

Nobody Nose 2morow.

dacovajnr:
Even if you're at your Coven...iyen o ma ni ko ma sun...She appears and comment on every Thread like kilode! Even Olode of NL like myself is sleepy but can't sleep on duty

Kikikikikikiki

On every thread keh That's not true jhor but I'll go to o bed now. Thanks for chasing me away

lebete3000:

Nobody Nose 2morow.

Dry!!! #go_sleep_abeg.

Davijunson:


I'm Jes speaking for myself and not for anyone else. I know relatively very few men out there are faithful. I quite understand her point. like I mentioned, cheating is a choice. that the OP hasn't found or seen one who is faithful doesn't mean she should write off all men. she didn't even mention if quite a few are faithful or not, she Jes wants women not to expect their man to be faithful.... but then why marry him if you can't trust him to be faithful.

Hmmmm...

Aderola15:


Kikikikikikiki

On every thread keh That's not true jhor but I'll go to o bed now. Thanks for chasing me away

Hehehehe! She don vex..sha Weewee before you sleep #RunOuttaThread

Tuham!
Xo you finally read this post after telling me you won't read and komment abi?
ME: i can't just resist the temptation.. sorry Pal
.
.
*coughs*
I read the Op's article, check out some comments also, and seems am the only one who understand how people feel. I understand the Op's point and i understand some commentators but these two parties ain't getting their gist
Here is my own view;

There will always be a more better person out there xo one can shojukokoro [me supporting the OP] but that doesn't mean being 99.9999% loyal is impossible [me supporting others]| Some people are like; Once they meet the one they'd love, they would blind themselves from other ladies even if you fine pass ehm.. ehm.. (Abeg, someone should help me with the name of the most beautiful lady)

iLegend:
Wow wow wow. Since I came to Nairaland this is the first post by a woman I'll rate 100/100. Larabae13. Come and read what this girl is saying. I may be wooing her soon, cuz she sabi book just like you.

People are throwing shades at the OP but I stand with her on this.. Being too blunt and realistic sometimes haunts someone. That's exactly what the OP is facing

dacovajnr:
Hehehehe! She don vex..sha Weewee before you sleep #RunOuttaThread

Looool

Agbaya nii e

Goodnight and switdrimz

Jesusgirl92:
Dry!!! #go_sleep_abeg.

Wondering Wat kept you awake? You smelt something?

Tuham:
Tuham!
Xo you finally read this post after telling me you won't read and komment abi?
ME: i can't just resist the temptation.. sorry Pal
.
.
*coughs*
I read the Op's article, check out some comments also, and seems am the only one who understand how people feel. I understand the Op's point and i understand some commentators but these two parties ain't getting their gist
Here is my own view;

There will always be a more better person out there xo one can shojukokoro [me supporting the OP] but that doesn't mean being 99.9999% loyal is impossible [me supporting others]| Some people are like; Once they meet the one they'd love, they would blind themselves to other ladies even if you fine pass ehm.. ehm.. (Abeg, someone should help me with the name of the most beautiful lady)

Kikikikikikiki

Simbi

Aderola15:


Looool

Agbaya nii e

Goodnight and switdrimz

Be safe for me Ma'am..xoxo

Bumbae1:

Its sad honestly .. thats why i asked before if it was a woman cheating up and down .. what do you think will happen

Tomorrow they will say beating up a chic is also acceptable and they should remain and be punching bag for coward .. nothing is right about cheating
Why not advice the man to leave the woman jeje . If we as women agree that its acceptable and have this type of mind then we can't even blame guys that will read this as justification for adultery .. its even in the bible

all these cheating talk and the rest..bumbea1 if you see real love na you go still run o

Lawlahdey:
I didn't put a gun to your head now, did I? Issh.

I got married over twelve years ago and I have been faithful even in faces temptations. I use my faithfulness as key prayers request. It is not easy but if you satisfy your man enough he may steak with only you. Men too don't want to loose good wife. Despite the fact that my religion allows polygamy with conditions. It is a matter of choice, with discipline, commitments, sacrifices and prayers faithfulness in marriage is possible and does exist.

1bkaye:
What are the good reasons?

Too many to highlight.

tosyne2much:
People are throwing shades at the OP but I stand with her on this.. Being too blunt and realistic sometimes haunts someone. That's exactly what the OP is facing

I'm happy seing a lady taking the heat...I'm so happy this is coming from a lady.

cr7lomo:


Then ur dad must be a poor man cos every rich man cheats

Such a twisted mentality. You need to go check yourself up cos this is one of the dumbest post I've seen in a while.

Toks2008:


I'm happy seing a lady taking the heat...I'm so happy this is coming from a lady.

I guess she's now feeling the heat you and I feel each time we drop controversial articles.. Now she knows what it feels like when you people make you look silly

JeffreyJamez:


What is she right about?.....That there are no faithfull men?... or women?

Let's embrace logical reasoning bro.. Even as a guy, you and I know that she's right about most men being potential cheaters (whether married or not)

The truth is that men are naturally born womanizers, only a few of them are able to overcome that trait..

Ooooh common we are both guys nah, let's reason like men not women

vedah:
Pls this write up belongs here. Yes I said so that's where it belongs!

I've seen faithful men, you're trying to say, as a woman makes her marital vow, she should have it in mind her husband will cheat? This is dumb! Dumb, dumb, dumb.

If you're going into marriage with this mentality, you'll get paranoid and start checking his phone, I mean basically stalking him. And that will lead to instability in marriage.

You're the type that says all men are the same, stop moving with the same clique. YOU'RE WHAT YOU ATTRACT. So if your boyfriends cheat, go check yourself.

Lest I forget, your gibberish is here.

This is strong ma'am...

cr7lomo:


Then ur dad must be a poor man cos every rich man cheats

Please, if you could give your meaning of "rich"....

harffie:

This is strong ma'am...

I've read her write up, she's trying to "prepare ladies for the worst". But its flawed. There's no justification for cheating. It is morally wrong.