I think people already know the truth. They already dig the message Lawlahdey is trying to pass, but they just wont admit to it or cant come out openly to admit it. Compare the likes and shares she got with that of her oppositions. It's simple and crystal clear. Marriage can only be preserved with patience and serious endurance. It's not always bout being wise or claiming rights.
Just as there are bad and ethically zero men out there, there are also women who are ethically zero too. The patience and endurance message isn't for the women alone, it's for both of them(husbands and wives). Adding to that, the fact that there are millions of factors that contribute to the failure of a marriage. It doesn't have to be the cheating factor alone(which can occur from both parties).
One thing I also realised is that, there are three classes of married people or people getting married, if we are to implement this patience and endurance advice.
•The forever patient and endurant couples: these ones -irrespective of what comes their way- are ready to take the chill pill, they are ready to hold unto each other, no matter what. Since its for better for worse. This group tend to make the happiest couples.. But it's one hell of a looong ride. Our parents and forefathers feature here.
•The patient and endurant couples: these ones too are like the previous class, but one thing they will never suscribe to is the forever factor, unlike the first group. The argument here is for how long, some will quit after series of downs and obstacles thrown their way, and some will stay longer. But bear it in mind. They can never be forever patient and all sort. Most people rep this class.
•The Never patient and endurant couple: these ones can never be patient, they will claim their rights even at gun point. They believe marriage can be managed with brain alone. Obviously, break ups are aparent in this group.


Here's the link to her write up
https://www.nairaland.com/3673385/lies-women-tell-themselves#54431645

Abeg dat gal probably got serious heart breaks... Not all men cheat, temptations will come but some men have stronger resistance to it... If ur boyfriend fvcks other gals doesnt mean all guys do

I love your write up. You're right. But making immorality, moral is a different case. There's no justification for cheating.

We don arrive

vedah:
I love your write up. You're right. But making immorality, moral is a different case. There's no justification for cheating.

Lol thank you,ma.
@bolded, u already know where u belong in my write up
Have a nice day,fam.

Aderola15:
We don arrive

Lol you are welcome

Blacklister:

Lol thank you,ma.
@bolded, u already know where u belong in my write up
Have a nice day,fam.

Yes I do know where I belong. Have a nice day too sir.

Smallville10:
Abeg dat gal probably got serious heart breaks... Not all men cheat, temptations will come but some men have stronger resistance to it... If ur boyfriend fvcks other gals doesnt mean all guys do

First emboldened, I will rest my case here. Let her come answer u.
Second emboldened, U deserve a fucking gold medal for this. if u be girl i for throw u kiss..

2dice01:
when dem break person heart into pieces person reasoning go upgrade

You guys no get joy for NL Aswear

And here it goes again. Marriage is not for everyone! Don't make a vow if you will break it. Besides everybody should stop whining! I won't settle for less if you want to who cares?! IF you go in a marriage and you think it's okay for your husband to cheat then who cares? If you think you are not worth it, who cares?
But I care if you force your opinion on someone. Not everybody thinks like that, I don't!
And
Men are NOT polygamous in nature who even started with that crap? What an insult to ALL MEN especially the faithful ones. That's so degrading, like they only think with their dicks and have absolutely no control over themselves


And if you think it's ok for you as a man to cheat it, should be OK for your wife to cheat also. People like that exist, such marraiges exist. They are called swingers! They both sleep with other people outside their marriages and both approve!

Blacklister:
You guys no get joy for NL Aswear

thats the plain truth bro...person go dey reason pass hin age

2dice01:
thats the plain truth bro...person go dey reason pass hin age