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Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Nobody: 2:13pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
AfroSamurai: It's either you are irrecoverably dull or... You have a serious comprehension problem. But nevertheless, I'll explain. See, this thread is all about staying faithful. She wants people to stay true to their partners just like Penguins because naturally they “penguins” stick to a single mate for life unlike some people or “Lions”. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Twaci(f): 2:14pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
"Thats why as a lady you shouldn't settle for less, cheating shouldn't be tolerated for any reason, the more he cheats and you overlook it, the more he takes you for granted, he'll believe that you'd stay as usual no matter what he does, because you're making a silly sacrifice to keep your marriage. He's aware of all the commitments of a marriage before he said i do, as an adult he's supposed to be responsible for his actions, for him to overlook something as tangible and sacred as a marriage vow and cheat for any reason, it means little things don't matter to him. Any man who cheats sees his wife as an option, your problems are no longer his top priority, the lady(concubine) becomes a third party in your marriage, his attitude will change and he gets angry over little things, that hate and resentment will keep pouring in and he hits you at the slightest provocation, gradually it becomes an abusive marriage, and gradually he starts maltreating you and your kids, and you could loose your life, even God understands, you cant stay in an abusive relationship." Nice points you've made OP. Lawlahdey:Of course you wouldn't, it counters your thread 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by royalmoron: 2:14pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy:Are you dumb? this example doesn't correlate with the topic.This is talking about domestic violence while your topic is infidelity. 1 Like |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Shortyy(f): 2:17pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
royalmoron:And you deserve the best because you have a stick of broom between your legs? I deserve the best cos I'm a human being, cos I wasn't created to be cheated on, or mistreated. Don't ever quote me again you piece of shît. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Nogodye(m): 2:17pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy: And you think divorce is the next thing even after you say I DO? Always go for Wedding Anniversary Celebration.You will learn there how to stay in marriage despite the challenges. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by handsam(m): 2:20pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy: Ok! Shots fired! 3 Likes |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Shortyy(f): 2:20pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Nogodye:Yes, I'll go for divorce if ever I get maltreated. Stay in marriage my ass. If you like don't treat your wife right, just because of some stvpid wedding anniversary. You are human, and your wife is human too. 2 Likes |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Gflat: 2:20pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
AfroSamurai: I salute your laconic statement bruv but the origin poster is obligate in nature and your statement to her is a threat to her aggressive personality. |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by babz007(m): 2:20pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
well said, though you dont have to quit tough times dont last tough people do. 1 Like |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by royalmoron: 2:21pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Twaci: twaci why? you left awon weyrey %100 , I thought your are their leader. 1 Like |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Shortyy(f): 2:22pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
royalmoron:I have a vágina, not a hole! you idiotic stvpid animal! 6 Likes |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Twaci(f): 2:23pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Michellla:We should trend it #NeverSettleForLess! |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Laveda(f): 2:23pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Nogodye: Irrespective of the man following everything and anything in skirts, the wife should endure. Cause she's s woman and ought to show examples as a good wife, she should still stay and watch the man misbehaving.. You just made so much sense, you deserve a brandy. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by royalmoron: 2:24pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy:Yes vagina, isn't that the most important thing in your life and why you think you deserve the best? |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Amarabae(f): 2:24pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Nice writeup! Ladies should not settle for less biko! Some ladies who are battling with Std got it through a cheating husband. Ladies should be on alert over their husbands, monitor his attitudes, his sexual relationship with you, is he becoming suddenly uninterested, is the chemistry bond fading away etc . Also,some men cheat because the wife is "soft", be a no-nonsense smart ass lady. Thats how i behave. When you are like that,a man will think twice before cheating because he knows how his wife will react if she finds out. nice writeup once again. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Nogodye(m): 2:24pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy: YES! coz i didn't force her into it at first...I know what marriage divorce caused into the life of the children of the divorcee...Talking from experience dear. 1 Like |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by AfroSamurai: 2:25pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
VolTOxic:And it's either you're inexplicably dumb, or you're irrefutable docile. Never the less, lemme take out time to thrill you into the reservoir of deep reasoning. Lions stick more together than Penguins, why, cos they know they stand strong together. The lioness never bothers herself if the lion shag another lioness, cos she knows he (the lion) takes good care of her. So, the joy of a marriage is based on understanding of the couple involve. It breeds happiness and joy. Things like cheating and what have you only bother petty minds, never a great mind. If you read the news of the NURTW dude who impregnated another woman, and his wife accepted it, you'll understand why the lioness know a Lion will always be a lion and there's absolutely nothing she can do about it. So, why give yourself headache? 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Mizk(f): 2:25pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
AfroSamurai:i used a lesser animal to show that we humans should be able to do more than that and lions aren't faithful to one partner, which is the point am trying to prove, that we should be able to stay faithful to one partner, using a lion contrast the message am trying to pass, you dweeb 3 Likes |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Laveda(f): 2:27pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Nice one Mizk 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by tosyne2much(m): 2:27pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
babyfaceafrica:Abeg wetin you dey drink bros? |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by FemiZets(m): 2:27pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
I think there is still this stigma among our generation about divorce. Friends may ask a recently divorced lady whether she felt that she had failed. Failed! Marriage isn't an exam. The one big regret is about money - such lady could wish she'd been more shrewd. I tell my sisters, that they should make sure that they always has their own money, no matter who they marries." Of course it's painful to discover that your partner has been having sex with someone else, whoever she may be, but its rather more painful that, he told people all sorts of stuff about the problems you've been having within your relationship - really personal stuff. And his onereous purpose is to justify his actions. Too bad! |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Shortyy(f): 2:28pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
royalmoron:Because I have a vagina that's why I think I deserve the best?? Jesus Christ. Please do you have a brain at all? wait. Hold on. How old are you? Please go and wash plates and don't quote me again. What a brat 3 Likes |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by babyfaceafrica: 2:29pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
tosyne2much:my broda ,na weekend..make I manage henessy and nkwobi..thanks |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Mizk(f): 2:29pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Nogodye:really, children should grow up in a happy and loving home, theres never peace in a cheating and promiscuous home as you ignoramuses are encouraging, what you should tell your kids when they grow up is, your father cheated and I'd have died in his hands if i stayed, believe me your kids will understand |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Nobody: 2:29pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy:This is getting interesting. |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Nogodye(m): 2:30pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy: Its not all about you but all about your children and grand children.Have you ever think of the damages divorce caused into the life of the divorcee children? 1 Like |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Michellla(f): 2:30pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Twaci:Yeahhh tweet that 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Nobody: 2:31pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy:efulefu, please come with your laughing memes. |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by royalmoron: 2:32pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Shortyy:what a LovePeddler! |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by Twaci(f): 2:32pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
Laveda:Damn baby! |
Re: Counter Thread To "Lies Women Tell Themselves" by vedah: 2:32pm On Mar 10, 2017 |
AfroSamurai:Because the other thread favours men, that's why they're rejoicing shining their teeth. My dear, I'm not going to marry a man with the mentality that, later in our marriage he'll get tired of me and cheat and I'll try beyond my powers to avoid that. I'll be his personal "olosho", I'll even invent my own bedmatics, treat you like a king. And while doing all these its cool to have a twisted mindset that, "its in his DNA to cheat"? if its in his DNA then he shouldn't get married and be committed to one woman. A lot happens when you make your vow, unless if those vows mean nothing to you. If your husband is cheating and you see it as the norm, tomorrow he'll resort to domestic violence. I hope that one too is normal because you'll lose your worth. If you know your husband is promiscuous in nature, then help him, make him a better person, pray for him. Don't just sit down like an invalid with a bull crap mentality that its normal because "he's just doing what all men do". LADIES DONT SETTLE FOR LESS. 2 Likes 1 Share |
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