yomi007k:


Dear Op, Respect and communication are vital parts in all relationships n its obvious urs is lacking them.


To me ur man seems to be getting bored of the relationship, I think u shud start parking cos titanic hitting an ice berg is imminent. Give him one last chance to hear out his side tho.


Dont worry, ur a good lady u will always find a good man.

tanyah0001:
A lot of people are replying to the post as if there is no communication, the communication is coming from me most of the times, he listens but I don't feel like there is any major change, and me telling him to look doesn't mean anything because either way he would seen it anyway as we were not in a crowded place, HE WOULD HAVE SEEN IT, even the stranger sitting next to us was telling me boyfriend "that's a big ass isn't it" so y'all need to shut up about it's my fault lol stfuuu, nigga still snapchatted it in front of me, there is no sense that "ohh my girlfriend is in front of me, how will she feel about this". Maybe next time I will see guy that is good looking and will snapchat the guy in front of him

tanyah0001:
A lot of people are replying to the post as if there is no communication, the communication is coming from me most of the times, he listens but I don't feel like there is any major change, and me telling him to look doesn't mean anything because either way he would seen it anyway as we were not in a crowded place, HE WOULD HAVE SEEN IT, even the stranger sitting next to us was telling me boyfriend "that's a big ass isn't it" so y'all need to shut up about it's my fault lol stfuuu, nigga still snapchatted it in front of me, there is no sense that "ohh my girlfriend is in front of me, how will she feel about this". Maybe next time I will see guy that is good looking and will snapchat the guy in front of him

Topestbilly:


Yes, he still gonna look but stylishly cos he'll fear what your reaction will be like, but you telling him shows you don't want to be respected. If you can tell people you don't know their age and position here on NL to shut up, then I supposed you have said more to your Bf and you expected him to keep you as a Gf?

tanyah0001:
Hi Nairalanders

I've been in a relationship with my man for about 6months now, of course things were fine at first but he got too comfortable and I guess the consistency started to fade out on his part, I will say I have been very consistent since day one but I just feel like the effort from him is not the same anymore, he says this is due to work but for someone who works from home, how busy can you really get. Anyway the problem now is we had an argument over him snapchatting a woman bum whilst I was right in front of him, even though I did tell him to look cause I like to admire endowed women, next thing he snapchatted it, I didn't even mind him looking but seriously going as far to Snapchat it? as if that was not disrespectful enough, he now goes on to say I'm the one that showed him, can you imagine. Now we are not talking, I have called him once and he hasn't picked up, not has he bothered to call or text me? Shall I just end the relationship because the effort is not the same anymore? I can't be with a ignorant man or someone who doesn't see wrong in their actions. How can you go a whole day without calling the person you love no matter what is going on, I need advice please or what would you suggest i do?