Themandator:





You guys are very hypocritical, you have made allowances for the priest but would have foaming in the mouth if it was a Pastor....the Catholic Church youths are largely conservatives in their dressing compared to other denominations.


Just accept that celibacy is not gonna work and allow them have partners...... even Peter you guys claim to be the first pope had a wife and Inlaws.

Ignore him. However, let me be quick to point out that this is not a Catholic vs Pentecostal issue. After all, the average Pentecostal pastor and a Rev Fr. are both seen as men of God.

It doesn't matter if allowances are made for the priest or not. It is a common thing among Catholic priests today. Just recently, I found out one whom many considered a no nonsense priest somewhere around had been having an affair with a friend for almost 7 months. Worst still, they check in and out of hotels without being seen. The same applies to Pentecostal pastors too.

For those who would blame the girls around a man who willingly vowed to keep himself, you can only Marvel at their folly. These folks are human before anything and they find the perfect avenue to deceive those who choose to forever pledge cult support to them. It's a sad situation.

dollyjoy:
What do you expect when those who are supposed to live by example are found wanting? Do you prefer they keep quiet and die in silence

No, they shouldn't keep quiet but we can see the agenda on this "Destroy Christianity in Nigeria by ridiculing the faith" Jesus Christ often chastised the Pharisees and Sadducees himself, he said beware of their yoke, that they preach one thing and do another.

There's nothing new in this, some ministers of God are weak on the flesh, remember the devil does not relent and one must constantly be alert

Making heaven is a personal race, we have all we need for direction in the Bible. As a lady, seek counsel from female spiritual leaders or thoroughly study the life of a male religious leader before seeking counsel.

Themandator:





You guys are very hypocritical, you have made allowances for the priest but would have foaming in the mouth if it was a Pastor....the Catholic Church youths are largely conservatives in their dressing compared to other denominations.


Just accept that celibacy is not gonna work and allow them have partners...... even Peter you guys claim to be the first pope had a wife and Inlaws.

All pastors who have partners don't cheat? Okay, normal men in relationships don't cheat because they have partners already (according to your reasoning)

To be a priest is not by force, they are not allowed to marry, deal with it or mind your business.

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All these girls are liars. Some of them might have had bouts of sex with the pastors. But they are all claiming that they did no succeed. B4 nko u been wan tell us say i nak man of God. Yeye dey smel

Akshow:
Where are the "touch not my annoited" sheep? Abi na El Rufai set up priest too.

Have you heard from the priest? Is hotel the parish house? The catholic priest invited you to a hotel with fake name and you went. What's the name of the priest?
This is era of scandalizing the ministers of God, but one thing is sure- the christian church is built on solid rock. Is unshakable. All this agent of devils cannot prevail against the church.
This is just incomplete essay. Forged stories.

Who among you does not know how to write essay. Cooked stories from mosques to undermine the church .

Have you heard from the priest? Is hotel the parish house? The catholic priest invited you to a hotel with fake name and you went. What's the name of the priest.
This is era of scandalizing the ministers of God, but one thing is sure- the christian church is built on solid rock. Is unshakable. All this agent of devils cannot prevail against the church.
This is just incomplete essay.

But to said the truth the way ladies use to go closer to the reverend fathers are so bad, every time father father, she want to see father with her indecent dressing, seduced them, is not good atall

Nonsense piece of shit from a LovePeddler. Let the girl come out clean by mentioning the name of the priest, so that other girls won't fall in his trap.

Using the few bad once as a perimeter to judge all is ideal. We still have some very good once at that.

ToriBlue:
They have started again na.


What's with this new trend of tarnishing pastors and priest image?

Is that you on your dp? That can make Priest have an attention in front of congregation.

This Christianity self.

Falling angels keep spreading fake news just bring down the kingdom of God. But you have fail and will always fail

Pidgin2:


No, they shouldn't keep quiet but we can see the agenda on this "Destroy Christianity in Nigeria by ridiculing the faith" Jesus Christ often chastised the Pharisees and Sadducees himself, he said beware of their yoke, that they preach one thing and do another.

There's nothing new in this, some ministers of God are weak on the flesh, remember the devil does not relent and one must constantly be alert

Making heaven is a personal race, we have all we need for direction in the Bible. As a lady, seek counsel from female spiritual leaders or thoroughly study the life of a male religious leader before seeking counsel.

are you saying that female spiritual leaders are more righteous?

young girls always buzzing around men of God like flies do round rottten things,what was on your mind when you were travelling with a priest, as a parish concillor,companion,assistant driver or what? when fellow single young men come chasing you tell them you dont have time or too busy.. you women are just devils high grade instrument for registering souls in the hottest part of hell....

Nigeriadondie:

Na u suppose park well. I know as a catholic u rarely open your bible. What you know is one empty bulletin which contains adverts and praises for those who contribute much money as well as announcement.
All u need to do is to park well for ur house pick up ur bible to read that is all.
Go and see the dirty history of catholic priest all over d world due to sexual misconduct, child abuse, gays & lesbians among them

Just look at your moniker, it says Nigeria dundie. Hard to join issues with a doofus don't you think? I'll leave you to your ramblings now.

The Catholic Church you so much love to hate has existed for over 2000 years and will definitely outlive you and I, your rantings regardless.

Try and stifle that urge or craving to quote my moniker unnecessarily. Keep hating the Church, but keep it off my mentions please.

The know they don't have self -control and they still choose to become priests?

Nigeriadondie:

Na u suppose park well. I know as a catholic u rarely open your bible. What you know is one empty bulletin which contains adverts and praises for those who contribute much money as well as announcement.
All u need to do is to park well for ur house pick up ur bible to read that is all.
Go and see the dirty history of catholic priest all over d world due to sexual misconduct, child abuse, gays & lesbians among them

Upon all that the church has out lasted most institutions n d world, institutions have come and gone.... Has seen World Wars, has seen great eras, d church itself is older than Islam, d church has seen d Napoleonic era, d Nazi era and a host of other eras, d church is older than ur ancestors, with all these scandals which D church doesn't deny.... It still ever stronger and will still outlive D institution u have today.....it is not by abolishing celibacy that will remove D scandal, how many men hu r married r faithful??, how many women hu r married r faithful??.... So y do u tink a priest who is married won't still go after girls.

Mayb u dnt know, priests were allowed to marry those days, celibacy didn't start at d beginning, it was introduced, when there were so many issues and scandals even among married priest.......

Suleiman is married with kids has that absolved him from scandal, pastor Chris was married, did tht stop him from been accused of infidelity from his wife, Okotie.was or is married did that stop his wife from running away, if only u knew what these pastors wives go tru...

U might just be one who is opposed to d church perpetually, but like I said it has outlived ur ancestors, so y do u tink ur hate will even scratch it.......

On this rock I'll build my church, and the gate of hell shall not prevail over it.........

Ttrrffyyghuuh:
I read that story but i didn't see a case of rape there, he tried to "sweet-talk" you into getting your panties down, rape is "forced" its a strong word, and i believe as an adult she should know how and when to use it. But seeing its a clergyman his actions are still condemn-able

Been a Catholic I would naturally be annoyed and on the defensive when such allegations are put forward .

On one hand, let truth be told, it wouldn't be fair to vilify the victims especially if their allegations are true , rather all our indignation should be directed towards those who would pull the Catholic and Christian faith as a whole .to the mud.

I can only sympathize with the victims..

On the other hand lets not be quick to dispense judgment, yes they are men of God but they are as human as any of us, priests especially .



Most of us cannot do without sex for a month, male or female, some a year, these men go a lifetime, for God's sake not for money..many of these priests are assigned to remote villages to evangelize, turns out it's the villagers who solicit help from them when there's barely enough for them to feed, they have to go and beg from the bigger parishes for their poorer parishioners, (we see them all the time)

Jesuit priests work and earn money
Same with opus dei priests and numeraries..so unlike many others denominations catholic priests aren't after money.. their work and sacrifices over the centuries has spoken for them both the priests and especially the nuns who have taken care of the sick and poor for ages past till present. (foster homes, hospitals and schools for poor and disabled, free catholic attorneys to take up cases for the oppressed (jdpc) and some many others....... her works speak for her)

Their motive is pure, but they falter and we pray for them. It's not easy

My only consolation is the fact that mother church has stood for 2000yrs and would stand for thousands more.

It's older than the ancestors of our ancestors and will see the unborn generations of our unborn generations. Because Its built on Christ directly, the blood of the martyrs and sacrifices of saints. No be today scandal start to rock am, no be tomorrow e go stop but e go still strong.no be roadside Pentecostal church, e old pass Islam sef, 600 years older, no be your mate.

Again I truly sympathize with the victims and pray they get through their trauma and strongly condemn any such lascivious or wanton lifestyle of clergymen, especially in this period of lent

There are tens of thousands of catholic priests and clergy rendering selfless services all over d world,but anytime 1 of these ppl falter and display d 'humanness' in them,it becomes something to gloat about and taunt d whole church wt.
A terrible pity.

I won't be surprised if the same people ready to castigate and criticise the priest and d Catholic Church as a whole are d same people ready to defend Suleiman

Touch not my anointed but slap the anointing outta them

Why all these stories now? Are u guys trying to distract us from randy suleiman's issue cos it won't work

My own take here is that Jessica is never mature and a good Christian, Catholic, which she claims to be. Being a Christian means Christlike, being like Christ. I think Christ would not be happy with you now because He(Christ) would rather want u pray for the priest in question. That's why I love good Christian, they choose the way of love, the way of the cross. They prefer to show love & help to the least person even the worse sinner than condemn. I want to ask u a question Jessica. In this ur post, have u succeeded in giving help or love to this " weak priest "(nobody is perfect, he is a priest, he is also a man like me. **I know how hard it's to abstain from sex.** He would have become a politician but Christ called him knowing this weakness. Christ may have called u Jessica to become a Rev sis but He didn't.) Even though u said u want to alert & help other girls who might fall victims. Who told u that they are not aware that a priest can fall. Remember Christ never condemned Mary Magdalene, criminals beside him on the Calvary but showed love & help. He didn't alert other girls or men to take cover. Jessica, I pray that Christ forgives u on ths.***If that story is real & not fabricated. ***

The topic is misleading

Celibacy is not by force. They should quit the priesthood and get married. Why rape a girl when puna is almost free if you are bold and have the lyrics in your mouth. Bae (OP) you are a very sharp and smart bae. I salute your courage.

JustinSlayer69:
Touch not my anointed!

For the first time am taking my time to look at this pics n it's clearly photoshop. Can u please take a closer look at d space between his head n his hand resting on his head, try to do dat position n see

The ladies that fall prey to this are those that have the zeal to work in God's vineyard but always met a disappointed fate when meeting those men of God for counseling

Boy am I not surprised but hey, they are humans too. We all make mistakes, fall into temptation and stuff.

I wanted to comment on this but I said no. I just decided to write something to show that I passed here sometimes in the past. Nigerians are too gullibe and suscestible to deception both economic, political, religious and social deception right from time. When shall we know the truth in this country? Who is fooling who? Religious 'leaders' or the religious 'leadees'?
Oh! Sorry, I now remember what said earlier that I didn't want to comment. Make una forgive me abeg.

FlirtyKaren:
More Nigerian women have continued speaking against rape and all form of sexual assaults, and in this exclusive report, the lady who gave a heart-wrenching experience she had with a Catholic Priest, who took advantage of her helpless position to almost rape her in a hotel in Owerri, disclosed that she needs no pity as she has gone through counselling and has gotten over it.

Jessica Chinwe Uba in her Facebook post, alleged that a Catholic Priest who her
EX reported her to for a better relationship, used his position as a counsellor to get closer to her. She also alleged that the Priest who reportedly deceived her with a meeting with a friend, checked into the hotel instead with a fake name on the supposed day of rape which got her suspicious, leaving her with few seconds to plan her escape from the hotel room.

Read her 'rape' story;


"BLACK WEDNESDAY
AN EXPERIENCE WITH A MINISTER OF GOD
I don't need any pity either to ridicule the victim.
MEN are MEN!!! Despite their profession, as long as they pocess Testetorone and not castrated. They are bound to have Emotional feelings and sexual urge.
Nevertheless, I believe that ones' profession determines and affects "who's" social and personal life. You need to carefully choose a profession for career life in other to avoid embarrassment and judgment.

I am from the Eastern Part of Nigeria, where catholic dominates, 70% of people are born into the catholic family which I'm happily and proudly one of them.
We respect catholic priests, and see them as perfect guardians and counselors. Moreover get close to them and get closer to God.
Though young and naïve i was in a relationship which started before I graduated from one of the recognized university in Nigeria.
My "ex" reported me to our parish priest in other

to have a better relationship.
I was expecting a counsel, Rather the Rev Fr used the medium to draw me close to him, being a very advanced man, I never had anything negative in Mind.
He started drawing me closer by inviting me to help in arrangement and calculation of offering cash which I happily and gladly do, after which he offer me well prepared Sunday Rice (better food oh)
He also promised to assist me get Job since I have graduated from the university, because we have well connected and billionaires in our community who worships in our parish.

I was really happy with the promise. But anytime I reminds him, he'll respond " I will do something" without doing anything.
One faithful Sunday, after the normal church service. He called and informed me that he'll like us to visit is friend and colleague at Enugu, who just arrived from the state. I concurred and inform my family and partner about the development as I normally do, which I was advised to be careful.
On this "BLACK WEDNESDAY" he called and reminded me about the journey which was meant to be by 12.30pm same day. I got prepared and left for the parish House. He spent of his Days in abroad so he don't do African Time.

We left for our destination by 1.00pm. He diplomatically asked me if my Mother is aware of the journey, I replied him " My family is fully aware.


On reaching at a Junction, he took the route to Owerri instead of the supposed Enugu Road. I was curious but don't want to be too fast with actions because I might be wrong.
I gently asked him why the change of route to Owerri instead of Enugu as planned. He calmly said he just need to relax in Owerri before he proceeds to Enugu, I fumed but don't want to put on an argument which may lead to distraction and cause accident.
As a graduate of one of the Universities in Owerri, Imo state, I kept calm because the town is neither strange nor new to me. Just watching as he'll unleash his plans. Approaching Owerri, The priest knowing fully well that I schooled in Owerri asked me where he can get drugs, I replied " I don't know, maybe you get to ask somebody when you get to your destination. At this moment I became very nervous and took something from him ( stole his 3K) may God forgive me.

He drove to a Hotel close to Imo State University Junction, walked to the receptionist and booked a room, filled the register, why he asked me to go get money from his Car, I smartly glanced at the register and saw that he registered his name as "MR EMEKA" at this Junction I don't need a soothsayer to tell me I'm doomed. I have to start crafting for an escape route. The Receptionist ( a woman) took us to to the exclusive room which is very Marvelous ( I never lodge for that kind room before) The Look on the receptionist face is weird but I don't want to start imagining what's going on her mind because on my mind was focused on how to escape.

Immediately we entered the room, the priest became unclad without wasting time, he looked at me and say "Relax you're a Big Girl" As I was sitting on the bed, he came close to me, in attempt to caress me, he asked if I want to go into modeling so he will sponsor me ( I know all this is to get to his destination) he further say I should change to something free so i can be comfortable ( I can't remember telling him I'm uncomfortable with what my wears)

I told him that i need to make use of the Rest Room which he obliged, I rushed in and Chat my Best Friend ( I avoided phone call so the priest won't hear my voice) He "my Best Friend" told me to find a way and leave the hotel, he'll come and pick me. I went ahead to beg him talk to his parents about my impromptu visit which he did.
I came out of the Rest room, I told the priest that I'm experiencing a stomach upset, so I need to get a drug. He agreed and told me to be fast because is late and moreover its raining though not heavily.
I ran out and thanked my stars. I boarded the next available Keke. He called me countless times, I never picked. Till date we have never seen or meet again. (Updated post)


Jessica also disclosed that her sister, who is a Reverend Sister knows about this, including her family members, she also warned girls not to make silly mistakes of sleeping around.

"I have gone for several counsellings just to let ladies to know when they're crossing the boundary
My immediate elder sis is a New Evangelical Sisters of Catholic Church, she is aware of this and like other members of my family
Secondly, this post is to let girls not to make any silly mistakes of sleeping with them. Yes they're human but never tried to sleep with them. Reject it" she wrote.


Her 'rape experience' post on Facebook also got the reactions of some of her followers, who also testified that they've had similar experiences in the past.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/03/more-nigerian-women-testify-against.html

Eyan Suleiman