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My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 5:11pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer. 22 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Cutehector(m): 5:13pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Oya who are those people shouting sex before marriage is bad.. Come leme give you a big slap 320 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Certitude(m): 5:14pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
"However when he is about toYour sister's pvssy is unappealing. The story looks unreal though 184 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 5:14pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
.You see women.. they are one kind of hypocritical being and if it was the other way round...hmm should your popular slogan (for better for worse) jettisoned. .huh She must have said no s*x before marriage thinking she's being clever She want to eat her cake and have it . 212 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Heromaniaa: 5:16pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Yesterday was the day kasala burst for my head. I was on my way to an interview. Since 5 years wey I graduate, bros, I never see real job. But that yesterday, something told me that was the end of my job search. My girlfriend had linked me to a friend that had friend who was the GM in a manufacturing company. When I contacted the so called GM, he picked the phone and answered me like a vampire had given him a Mouth Gig. “Who be rat? He spat out. “It’s me Psalm. A friend of Sarah, who is a friend to Akpan, your good friend. He said you are the GM of Green food Industries.” I could hear him chuckling on the other end. “Werin you wan make I ju for you?” he replied. I was already getting pissed. “I want to submit my CV to your company. I was told you could help me get a job” “Bring am tomorrow, I go help you give the GM” “Are you not the GM? “Bro e be like say you never ready. I be the Gateman, your friend no tell your friend to tell your friend to tell you? My jaw dropped. But I had no choice; I tidied my white shirt and dusted my CV. I must get that job the next day... As early as 8 AM the next day, I set out. My gf had made a delicious afang soup the other night. I quickly heated four wraps of fufu, devoured it and left feeling like a bouncer. It had rained the other night and the bad roads were still muddy. I did my best to avoid reckless drivers from splashing dirty water on me. My best, as usual, was not enough. A man in a black prado Jeep zoomed past, emptying a pot hole of muddy water on me. I did what any other frustrated man would do. I boarded a bike and chased after him. Who knows, he could settle me with something tangible. The okadaman was a skillful rider but the prado guy had no chill. After five minutes, I spotted his car parked right in front of my babe’s apartment. Fear catch me like politician wey receive alert from Dasuki. I paid off the bike man and cautiously peeped into my girlfriend’s one room apartment. What I saw shocked me. Continue reading here http://9jachannel..com.ng/2017/03/diary-of-frustrated-graduate.html 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 5:19pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Watin dey weaken men these days. 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Buharimustgo: 5:33pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
May be he will have an erection when he sees u naked please help your sister in need 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by tolulinks(m): 8:22pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Tell the man to buy a penis pump. He should pump his penis for about 10 mins. He'd be hard as hell and stay erected. Thank me later. 19 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Tyviv(f): 8:23pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Something is definitely wrong ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by sisisioge: 8:41pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
I have been praying for your sis since morning. Now that she has made her family issue an extended family issue and you in turn extended the issue to the whole world...we can only pray. May God give phallus of the dude stability and strength! 78 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 8:42pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
tolulinks: I can't tell him... ![]() 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 8:44pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
sisisioge:AMEN!! Amen!! You don't know how my sis has cried to me. She is such a good person. She doesn't deserve this. May God help her. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Acidosis(m): 9:07pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
your sis is a vir .gin right? Well, I don't believe a man can maintain hardness and lose same hard-on consistently upon pene.tration. Such can happen only on a TV screen. It's either the man is completely impotent (with no hard-on), or he finds it really hard to pe.netrate.. If the latter is the case, your sis must stop crying. It is a joint issue. By the way, you claim they have tried herbal and pastors... Are there no hospitals around? 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Acidosis(m): 9:14pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Your sis and her husband need to provide the exact state of the whole issue to get a good advice. Is it a hard-on issue? Sustained e. rection issue? Thrusting issue? 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 9:18pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
You need to slap yourself if you think 'premarital sex' is the solution to this. When it happens within the marriage, what next? Does she go back to testing other dicks? Let's have it in mind that he could have easily taken PED to impress her while dating_ men have concealed worse defects. ED can happen at any point in life to a (%) of men. Depression, anxiety, diet, lifestyle, stress_ could all cause ED after being TESTED by your partner. Sex before marriage isn't the ready solution. If they went for a test and it showed everything is fine, I guess that means he doesn't fire blank shots. So, the problem is satisfying his spouse. He also has erections but can't sustain it, maybe it's more of psychological. They should stop taking drugs that were not prescribed and see a doctor (urologist )_ who would run test to know the root problem. 48 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 9:18pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Your sister or you? ![]() 8 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 10:01pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Certitude: That's because it is. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Gmajor(m): 10:40pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
The guy in question is probably gay. 5 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:03pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
MoltenMagma: My dear, my husband is long and strong. There is never a dull moment in my house. ![]() 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:06pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Gmajor: I've been thinking this as well. He doesn't behave feminine but how can one know? I find it strange he never wanted sex before marriage. My sis says he kissed her but never tried anything beyond that. He is very religious but it may be a cover. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 15, 2017 |
Acidosis: I can only tell you what she has said. She says he is hard but when he begins to enter, he loses the erection and becomes soft. She said he has never released anything from himself in her presence. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Jman06(m): 3:30am On Mar 16, 2017 |
Your sis should find out if the dude is in the habit of regular masturbation. If so, then he has to stop as fast as possible. Some guys can masturbate several times daily and exhaust their genital muscles such that when it is time for the real action, the organ doesn't respond. The good news is that abstinence for some weeks with no sexual activities will help the organ come alive. He should also avoid consumption of much sugar and exercise often. 35yrs is too early to have that issue. 78 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 4:47am On Mar 16, 2017 |
They met last year and they got married last year. Why the rush? It doesn't seem like your sister really took the time to know the man. No wonder someone said "he is known to visit many prostitutes", which your sister wasn't aware of, I'm sure. I don't know what to advice here. Married folks, over to you. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Rukkydelta(f): 9:15am On Mar 16, 2017 |
Divorce is always an option 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 9:44am On Mar 16, 2017 |
The man has a problem. Have seen this scenario happen before but I didn't go far getting married to the guy. During courtship, i realise he's everything the op just mentioned about her younger sis husband. And the funny part of it.. He's not eager for us to look for solutions especially spiritually to it. Cause he claimed he has taken all kind of herbs and drugs.. So I said then it's spiritual.lets go for prayers... that's when he then said he's not doing again.. He wants out.. I said ok good. See person wey I want help assist to restore his manhood.. He doesn't even want help. And he's so handsome, tall and comfortable financially .. That's how we breakup. Recently I heard from his friend that he does not want to date babes anymore.. And wants to be celibate.. I just shook my head and I told his friend.. That's his problem jare.. I have my own am thinking, money things on my mind.. he can do whatever he likes with his life..Better sef, so he won't raise babe hopes anymore.. I don't care. It's his choice. One can take a horse to the river but u can't force it to drink water. Op let your sister insist on taking him for medical checkup.. If nothing is revealed.. Then they should both go spiritual and find the cause.. Maybe he has donated his manhood for higher powers who knows. 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 9:57am On Mar 16, 2017 |
It's a small thing. If they are both ready to visit a Cele Church for Solution. When they finish the matter... He will be hotter tha a He-Goat! ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 9:58am On Mar 16, 2017 |
maybe he is gay? FortuneTeller: 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Shossie(f): 10:30am On Mar 16, 2017 |
Now, you will come and say pre marital sex is not good, why don't you guys go local? Maybe the man has done something or probably your sister. Say Yes to Premarital Sex ![]() 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by jaszplus12(m): 10:33am On Mar 16, 2017 |
Here we go again! Everything that happens to us we say its spiritual! All this hullabaloo will make sense if we trace the poor guy's sexual history and follow medical procedure and counselling.... Why was he interested in olosho all the while? What psychological reasons had he for patronizing them? Does he have a history of sexual offence? Was he affected by some sexual perversion etc? Even if your sister consented to no sex before marriage did she make any attempt to find out physically the quality of his erection? What's her own sexusl orientation? Na jus lie down make my oga fvck? Does she wear clothes to attract his desire or just looks like "mama chiboy"? Does she cuddle him in bed or feels that's for "adulterers"? Does she entwine his hands in hers or feels that's for teenagers? So many questions she needs to answer... Bring this couple together and gently coax them into generating sexual pleasure between themselves and see what happens.... The guy may just have burned out feelings about sex and needs encouragement. There are counselling offices in hospitals I guess, they should go there first. Of course prayers help but if no desire burning to make love is lit in them then faith without work is dead!! 26 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:30am On Mar 16, 2017 |
She should leave that marriage ASAP, he knew his problem and tricked her into such marriage. 3months of being married yet no sex, thank God she's still intact, she should just leave that marriage before that man ruins her life. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by teemy(m): 1:25pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:i recommend a cock ring. deflation happens when the blood rushes back. the ring stops that. 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by teemy(m): 1:27pm On Mar 16, 2017 |
cockring, nairaland censoring |
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