When you read the title of the post, weren't you like - what the... Yes, you read the title well. In any normal relationship, cheating is devastating. It leads to chaos. But in today's world, whether one likes it or not, shouldn't one anticipate cheating. Don't get me wrong. That you anticipate cheating does not mean you abet it. I'm only saying if it is not anticipated and it happens, the devastation is huge. But if it's anticipated and it happens, the devastation is exiguous.So, cheating should be anticipated because if it happens the devastation will not be huge. To the next issue in the title: nothing can be done to prevent cheating. There are different factors that contribute to cheating but the worst of them all is SPENDING THE REST OF YOUR LIFE WITH THE SAME PERSON. Sex and everything become routine, dull, boring, bland, insipid, vapid, trite, commonplace, hackneyed, clichéd. Even if you exhibit novel styles in the bedroom, the fact that it's still with the same person makes it uninteresting. If people cheat because of this, how then can you prevent cheating? You must have seen or heard of a scenario in which the wife of a respectable man bleeps a dirty mechanic. It is not that the husband is not good in bed. It is only that "the touch of someone new and forbidden is orgasmic, the best." Of recent, today I think, a man whose wife is more likely than not cheating on him posts on Nairaland about his wife's supposed affair with her boss and someone advises him to make his wife quit the job. What a fine move. But I have a question: how do you correct the factor leading her to PROBABLY have an affair with her boss. The institution of marriage should be revisited. This issue is making me despondent.

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pattybf:
I see

What do you see, if I may ask?

Try to add paragraphs to you post.
Almost can't read it the way it is now.

Thanks.

I managed to read it and your views are interesting.

DLGUY:
Try to add paragraphs to you post.
Almost can't read it the way it is now.

Thanks.

I managed to read it and your views are interesting.

Thanks for telling me about the paragraph. Thanks for saying my views are interesting. Perhaps, if we admit this factor in relationships, relationships will be better.

Story. ...I don tell my bae, if she cheat dts d end.

No need to beg.

solasolasola:
Thanks for telling me about the paragraph. Thanks for saying my views are interesting. Perhaps, if we admit this factor in relationships, relationships will be better.

It's not about admitting because the risk that cheating entails far outweighs it's pleasure.

If not for STD's, I wouldn't give a boot but I won't stand and let a cheating partner put my health at risk.

You may wanna probably lay more emphasut on spicing the relationship up. Like going in adventures, having dinner dates with other couples, doing sports or any other activities that interests you together. Those things would enhance the bond between the couple even more than sex.


I'm sure you saw the news about Omotola and her hubby travelling to Morocco.
Things like that.

yomi007k:


Story. ...I don tell my bae, if she cheat dts d end.

No need to beg.

Lol. Who says it's not the end. Who says this post is a plea? Lol.

DLGUY:


It's not about admitting because the risk that cheating entails far outweighs it's pleasure.

If not for STD's, I wouldn't give a boot but I won't stand and let a cheating partner put my health at risk.

You may wanna probably lay more emphasut on spicing the relationship up. Like going in adventures, having dinner dates with other couples, doing sports or any other activities that interests you together. Those things would enhance the bond between the couple even more than sex.


I'm sure you saw the news about Omotola and her hubby travelling to Morocco.
Things like that.

When you admit, it is to find a solution that could prevent cheating. The admission I'm talking about is not the one after cheating. It is the one before cheating with a view to preventing cheating. Yet, as I've noted in the post, we can only try and we SHOULD.

solasolasola:
What do you see, if I may ask?

give me d name of dat ur gal dat fvcked and sucked anoda guy so bad dat u made dis write up. She deserves to be punished...

solasolasola:
When you admit, it is to find a solution that could prevent cheating. The admission I'm talking about is not the one after cheating. It is the one before cheating with a view to preventing cheating. Yet, as I've noted in the post, we can only try and we SHOULD.

its nt easy to forgive cheatin but let me give u a solution.

Make sure u forgive her and continue ur relationship with her, then start dating another gal, bring d gal home and fvck her good so ur girlfriend walks in on u both. If ur gal tries attacking d gal beat her then send d side chick home. Now u can apologize to ur galfriend, u will be satisfied

Smallville10:
give me d name of dat ur gal dat fvcked and sucked anoda guy so bad dat u made dis write up. She deserves to be punished...

Do not be a dick!

Smallville10:
its nt easy to forgive cheatin but let me give u a solution.

Make sure u forgive her and continue ur relationship with her, then start dating another gal, bring d gal home and fvck her good so ur girlfriend walks in on u both. If ur gal tries attacking d gal beat her then send d side chick home. Now u can apologize to ur galfriend, u will be satisfied

Her? Who? Are you sane?

Honestly, I have had some awful experience with a cheating girlfriend some time ago. I installed a keylogger from https://www.refog.com on her phone and discovered that she was chatting with some guy all the time. We talked, and split up. I have been lonely since that time...

kevindd:
Honestly, I have had some awful experience with a cheating girlfriend some time ago. I installed a keylogger on her phone and discovered that she was chatting with some guy all the time. We talked, and split up. I have been lonely since that time...

So sorry to hear this.

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