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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by GAZZUZZ(m): 8:27pm On Mar 18, 2017
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.

I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.

Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.

I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.

Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".

I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.

Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.

With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.

I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.

Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice

you are a weak man. Never be afraid of confrontation. If you want your marriage to succeed, the job, the phone and the man have to go.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by marysyviabrown(f): 8:27pm On Mar 18, 2017
my dear their will soon have sex but for now their are still romancing themselves
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Teel012(m): 8:28pm On Mar 18, 2017
bros do u need a soosthsayer to tell u? Did her boss buy phone for all d ladies in d office? now she's hiding d fone claiming work, chatting constantly with d boss when she's supposed to be home with her family? and the boss is complaining abt his wife not being able to conceive a second child for him? well, I'll suggest u send her to her parents house to rest for a while, so she will understand, cos obviously, she's cheating on u and if u keep quiet, her next baby will not be yours. oh, n if she's materialistic, they're hvn sex already that's why he bought her d phone. Most men Will not sow where they haven't reaped already.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Edipee(m): 8:30pm On Mar 18, 2017
Tenkobos:
She doesn't keep chat history?




You mustn't have sex to cheat, once you see yourself deleting texts, you're there already
No wonder
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by fof1: 8:32pm On Mar 18, 2017
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.

I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.

Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.

I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.

Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".

I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.

Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.

With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.

I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.

Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice

MY DR FRIEND & HUSBAND. UR WIFE IS HAVING AN AFFAIR,PERIOD. DON'T MAKE D MISTAKE TO BELIEVE OTHERWISE. CONFRONT HER AT MIDNIGHT TO TELL U D GOSPEL TRUTH ABT D RELATIONSHP BETWEEN HER & HER BOSS.SHE HAS BN SEEING HIM B4 NOW. SO PREPARE URSELF FOR D WORST. U CAN STILL RECOVER HER IF SHE IS WILLING TO AMEND.THANKS.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Edipee(m): 8:32pm On Mar 18, 2017
kimbra:
It breaks my heart when I read stories like this from married couples.

Why marry someone you would cheat on at the slightest opportunity?. Marriage of convenience I guess!.
This softens my heart.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Adebowale89(m): 8:32pm On Mar 18, 2017
my brother I'm not married but my experienced with married couples

I think u should build more companionship among you, if you're not doing morning devotion before with the family, learn to start it and always remember to put her in a prayer that she should nt be compromised


the truth is all ladies are flexible, no lady is independent of this emotional challenges. so give her maximum attention. she's been distracted or entice with what u are lacking presently

God bless your home

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nickizoe(f): 8:32pm On Mar 18, 2017
I Love you..
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by chidekings(m): 8:33pm On Mar 18, 2017
Maychang:



SHUT THE Bleep UP!!! I wonder why data is cheap....

Nothing is goin on ryt? yet she deletes messages, hides conversations.

I dont usually do this...but you are very stupid for this statement.

U are the immature one with this your post.

As for the Op, matters of the heart is better done when ur mind is relaxed, u never can tell u may be over reacting or u may be right.

Take your time and have concrete proof before you accuse someone of infidelity.

Forgot all this people shouting, most when they are in your shoes will become as clueless as........
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:33pm On Mar 18, 2017
Oh lawd! I feel sorry for u bro...she's cheating on u...wit wat u narrated they might have even sexed.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by donfeluche(m): 8:33pm On Mar 18, 2017
If you are in love with your wife or any body, just realize that you are a slave or dummy to that person, because you will believe everything he or she tell you, even if you are told that black is white, the truth is that your with is Flirting on you or worst having a real sexual affair with her boss, you need no prophet, remain her puppet or act like a wise man doing the following, confront her very had, but don't fight, call her people are extend the warning, treating her job, text the boss to stay clear from your wife or be ready to loose his life, that you will go any length, finally make your wife understand that you are ready to send her packing irrespective of the children at stake
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by deparagon(m): 8:34pm On Mar 18, 2017
eubee01:
O boy u be real mad man.
Just translating o.
Dah Ubegedie Anie udung yak atranslate
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by almarthins(m): 8:34pm On Mar 18, 2017
Nma27:
Op its best not to assume, there might b nothing going on between them. Don't allow d devil spoil d beautiful thing u guys have going pls

That is a gigantic lie. Sm thing is going on
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Gfish: 8:34pm On Mar 18, 2017
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.

I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.

Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.

I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.

Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".

I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.

Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.

With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.

I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.

Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice


Thats your problem right therr.....go out first thing on monday and av a party for the heath of your heart in future.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:35pm On Mar 18, 2017
kimbra:
I dey vex joor!. grin
u have a good heart Kim... kiss
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Boss13: 8:35pm On Mar 18, 2017
hopeforcharles:
Get enough proofs, confront her and give her an option to resign from that work or better follow the man,
And make sure u collect that phone and if possible change that Sim.

You don't need enough proof by then she is already sucked in deep in the affair.

Op I feel you man. I'm married, but I really don't know what to say to you. Each marriage is different because of the personalities involved. I don't know how your wife would take it if you threaten her. She may call your bluff and try to be careful.

However, one thing I know is that your wife doesn't feel complete with you. You can try talking to her and expressing yourself. A man who nurses the feeling that his wife cheats dies quickly. Ask your wife if she wants you dead. Also ask her why does she gives you reason to feel she is cheating by deleting her chat messages and changing conversations on her. Ask her if she has no respect for the marriage and rather than cheat while in marriage, she can as well leave you and do it being single.

If I'm the one and because of my personality, I'd scream like there is fire already. I would threaten her with family meeting and divorce. Please don't do this, some women may not be scared.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by yatty4emmanuel(m): 8:35pm On Mar 18, 2017
Bo,its Abit Sad,i Got A Wife,but I Have Some Principle Going. I Don't Pip Sms' Nor Do I Take Her Calls Or Open Her Wats App.Bt De God Tin Is My Laws Are Simple,if U Love Me Den De Fear Of Me Wil Mak U Resist All Others,bt Were By U Get Stupid To Exposing Ur Secrete Deal & I Detect It & By Luck U Skip It,if It Occurd Again & I Find Out I Wont Give U De Chance To Molest Me,i Wil Liv U 1st By Putin An End 2D Mariage.Reason Is Simple,i Had A Very Serios Htbrk Yrs Ago & I Tank God because It Builds Me & Make Me Wat I Am 2 Day Doe I Ve A Wondaful Wife,bt I Am Always Ready 4 Any Nonsense.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:36pm On Mar 18, 2017
Lol. Question. What do you want to hear?. She's cheating on you, o no, she's not cheating o Your guess is as good as mine, dude.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by chiefolododo(m): 8:36pm On Mar 18, 2017
If you ask me , na who I go ask?
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by dapsonlou(m): 8:36pm On Mar 18, 2017
My guy yes she's cheating, but make sure you have proof before you start accuse.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by UncleJudax(m): 8:36pm On Mar 18, 2017
comshots:
Even with all the evidence he found on her phone?I cant allow my wife work in any organisation.I will establish for her.
If she go nack outside, she go do am. If you like lock her for house.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by fof1: 8:36pm On Mar 18, 2017
kimbra:
It breaks my heart when I read stories like this from married couples.

Why marry someone you would cheat on at the slightest opportunity?. Marriage of convenience I guess!.

TRASH. WHAT A RESPONSE?
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by obataokenwa(m): 8:38pm On Mar 18, 2017
Bro, your wife is in for it as far as is the boss. I've done so many things in this life and I've come to know that any slight suspicion of your wife is the sign God is giving you. Bro I'm sorry, your family is already scattered. Confront the matter seriously and of possible threaten her with your people and her people so the truth will come out. stop her that work

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by nezebabe55(f): 8:38pm On Mar 18, 2017
Don't conclude yet...... Just watch and pray!!
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by olumohkz(m): 8:38pm On Mar 18, 2017
The only basis for divorce is if a wife is caught cheating. Do your investigation properly and once you catch her in the act. Please let her go because she will have reason to be unfaithful to you again and again. Act like a man.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by emerged01(m): 8:38pm On Mar 18, 2017
LePrezident:


Just wow really? You think the wife is his kid? You have tendencies of domestic violence. See, if the wife will go wayward there's nothing he can do about it. He needs to step up his game and make the marriage more fun... life happens, you can commit murder because of a woman.
This is not about being violent . In a marriage,one needs to possess two characters. One a sheep-like character and the other,a lion-like character. Bible the described Jesus as a sheep and a lion of Judah. Being a lion of Judah doesn't mean he is violent. He is lion of Judah because he will rise against those are against the church. So as Jesus is to the church,so is a man to his home. A sheep can't protect a home,but a lion will surely do. He must be a lion in this case to protect is home not a fun stuff. Get the boss phone number and tell him to back off.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 8:39pm On Mar 18, 2017
OP, Why dont we talk about what your wife lacks, which she is getting outside, ofcourse she is cheating, and the worst that will happen now is divorce. If you do not fix what made her cheat, then even if you get married to another woman, the same thing will happen again.


You see, I was able to take you away from that victim mentality, cos you are stupidly in love right now. Wake your ass up and start setting up traps here and there. Get us the pictures here, lets see the man's dicck, and terminate that marriage and take custody of your kids and ofcourse start a new life with another woman, but learn the lesson on first paragraph, if not, the cycle will repeat again.

Now, I know you are weak, so this last option is for people like you. Forgive your wife, or get yourself a girl friend or both. And warn the bossman to steer clear of your wife or stop her from working there or both. Then henceforth, watch your wife's every move and if she goes ahead to cheat again Activate Paragraph One and good luck.

Thats the matrix of life.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by omolorlarh: 8:40pm On Mar 18, 2017
Cutehector:
Your wife doesn't have regard for you..

First she is cheating on u which is obvious and second , she lied to your face... How can a boss call all the female staff my baby . what sort of childish lie is that.. Pls you have to take this matter up seriously cuz d way u acting soft is dangerous..

Pls show some attitude..
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Chommieblaq(f): 8:40pm On Mar 18, 2017
Nma27:
Op its best not to assume, there might b nothing going on between them. Don't allow d devil spoil d beautiful thing u guys have going pls



Mehnnn haba, why we like to dey paint talk?
What other sign does he need?
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by smogup: 8:41pm On Mar 18, 2017
smogup:
it pains me to tell you that she is cheating on you. The only way to save the marriage is for her to quit the job and even change her number
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by jarkbauer: 8:41pm On Mar 18, 2017
Wake her up one night(make sure no work the following day Easter Friday will be good)tell her you think she has a thing for her boss. She will act angry but don't bulge. In the morning exchange phones for 48hrs answer all her calls and let her answer yours. You will know if shes cheating or not.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by hedonistic: 8:42pm On Mar 18, 2017
Lol. Women are more likely to cheat on faithful 'good' men than serially promiscuous guy men. That's the ugly fact of the world.

Believe these fake Nairaland 'feminists' at your own peril.

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