FortuneTeller:


My sis is a virgin. How would she suspect someone would play such a cruel trick??

alexialin:
The man has a problem. Have seen this scenario happen before but I didn't go far getting married to the guy. During courtship, i realise he's everything the op just mentioned about her younger sis husband. And the funny part of it.. He's not eager for us to look for solutions especially spiritually to it. Cause he claimed he has taken all kind of herbs and drugs.. So I said then it's spiritual.lets go for prayers... that's when he then said he's not doing again.. He wants out.. I said ok good. See person wey I want help assist to restore his manhood.. He doesn't even want help. And he's so handsome, tall and comfortable financially .. That's how we breakup. Recently I heard from his friend that he does not want to date babes anymore.. And wants to be celibate.. I just shook my head and I told his friend.. That's his problem jare.. I have my own am thinking, money things on my mind.. he can do whatever he likes with his life..Better sef, so he won't raise babe hopes anymore.. I don't care. It's his choice.
One can take a horse to the river but u can't force it to drink water.

Op let your sister insist on taking him for medical checkup.. If nothing is revealed.. Then they should both go spiritual and find the cause.. Maybe he has donated his manhood for higher powers who knows.

celeboi:
It's a small thing. If they are both ready to visit a Cele Church for Solution. When they finish the matter... He will be hotter tha a He-Goat!

Heromaniaa:
Yesterday was the day kasala burst for my head. I was on my way to an interview. Since 5 years wey I graduate, bros, I never see real job. But that yesterday, something told me that was the end of my job search. My girlfriend had linked me to a friend that had friend who was the GM in a manufacturing company. When I contacted the so called GM, he picked the phone and answered me like a vampire had given him a Mouth Gig.

“Who be rat? He spat out.

“It’s me Psalm. A friend of Sarah, who is a friend to Akpan, your good friend. He said you are the GM of Green food Industries.”

I could hear him chuckling on the other end.

“Werin you wan make I ju for you?” he replied. I was already getting pissed.

“I want to submit my CV to your company. I was told you could help me get a job”

“Bring am tomorrow, I go help you give the GM”

“Are you not the GM?

“Bro e be like say you never ready. I be the Gateman, your friend no tell your friend to tell your friend to tell you?

My jaw dropped. But I had no choice; I tidied my white shirt and dusted my CV. I must get that job the next day...

As early as 8 AM the next day, I set out. My gf had made a delicious afang soup the other night. I quickly heated four wraps of fufu, devoured it and left feeling like a bouncer. It had rained the other night and the bad roads were still muddy. I did my best to avoid reckless drivers from splashing dirty water on me. My best, as usual, was not enough.

A man in a black prado Jeep zoomed past, emptying a pot hole of muddy water on me. I did what any other frustrated man would do.


I boarded a bike and chased after him. Who knows, he could settle me with something tangible. The okadaman was a skillful rider but the prado guy had no chill. After five minutes, I spotted his car parked right in front of my babe’s apartment. Fear catch me like politician wey receive alert from Dasuki. I paid off the bike man and cautiously peeped into my girlfriend’s one room apartment. What I saw shocked me.

Continue reading here
http://9jachannel..com.ng/2017/03/diary-of-frustrated-graduate.html

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

Toks2008:


Hmmmm! It's apparent you really love the guy...

Reading this thread makes me thank GOD a billion times that despite my sacral nerve damage,I still fit make woman squirt.

he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business.

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

tabithababy:
. Same thing happening to me now. How can I be dating guy and refuses to have seex with me he will say he is a virgin and he will wait till wedding night. I always tell him.that what if he is impotent . He will say at least he has an erection. Does having an erection means he is sexually active. Infact, he doesn't want me to see his peeniis sef claiming we will end up having sex if I see it. I don't want to end up with an impotent man, sex is very important in marriage

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

WriteBoy:



I love the guy even more for wanting to become celibate. Do you know the amount of self-discipline needed to make that happen.

I cannot imagine it mehn. The dude is a strong man.

metallisc:



the problem is a psychological one... maybe he doesn't find your sister sexually appealing enough. it happens all the time in relationships, especially forced ones. Most guys already have a fixed mental picture of what they certify as sexually appealing, anything below that image won't get them turned on and excited.

He has been going to prostitutes abi? ask yourself, has he been going to them to watch football?
If you know any of the pros he has been hanging out with, talk to them and find out what he does with them to clear any doubts.


just get him in a room with a girl that looks like the one below and watch him spring to life like a volcano!

tabithababy:
. Same thing happening to me now. How can I be dating guy and refuses to have seex with me he will say he is a virgin and he will wait till wedding night. I always tell him.that what if he is impotent . He will say at least he has an erection. Does having an erection means he is sexually active. Infact, he doesn't want me to see his peeniis sef claiming we will end up having sex if I see it. I don't want to end up with an impotent man, sex is very important in marriage

blkmum700:



Childless,Single Parents,Divorced or anything has noting to do with Spiritual Husband or Wife except you want to say to the contrary ,these are natural things and they have been happening for centuries.

Cutehector:
Oya who are those people shouting sex before marriage is bad.. Come leme give you a big slap

Toks2008:


Celibacy for a young man is hell on earth...and you can't call him a strong man because it was a decision made out of compulsion.

Toks2008:


Celibacy for a young man is hell on earth...and you can't call him a strong man because it was a decision made out of compulsion.

metallisc:



the problem is a psychological one... maybe he doesn't find your sister sexually appealing enough. it happens all the time in relationships, especially forced ones. Most guys already have a fixed mental picture of what they certify as sexually appealing, anything below that image won't get them turned on and excited.

He has been going to prostitutes abi? ask yourself, has he been going to them to watch football?
If you know any of the pros he has been hanging out with, talk to them and find out what he does with them to clear any doubts.


just get him in a room with a girl that looks like the one below and watch him spring to life like a volcano!

Heromaniaa:
the link to the complete story is underneath the 1st story in the blog. Here it is... Make you no terminate my life.
http://9jachannel..com.ng/2017/03/diary-of-frustrated-graduate-2.html?m=1

WriteBoy:


I agree that there were compelling factors that led to that decision. What I admire is his calm approach to it. Go back and read the op's post, the guy is handsome, financially okay and living a good life -- If he does not get to engage in sex, do you think that will scale back the quality of his life?

What do you mean by "hell on earth?"

Instead of running around hospitals seeking for an elusive cure -- that is: assuming that the cause of his sexual health issues are incurable -- wouldn't it be a better tradeoff for him to maximise enjoyment in other areas of his life instead of becoming flustered, despondent and restless at something he doesn't have control over?

You also have to realise that the things that make your world tick are different from another individual's and as such you should refrain from judging a person's decisions using your frame as the only yardstick

Toks2008:


Like seriously! which life fit sweet without enjoying the succulence of a woman's body and hearing the sweet ring tones...oloun maje

March1117:


Since he gets erection, it then means he isn't impotent; that could be termed weak erection or so. But my candid advice is that you seek advice from FlexHerbal via 08066194562. Fortunately, he is also a nairalander.

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