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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 11:08pm On Mar 18, 2017
UncleJudax:

If she go nack outside, she go do am. If you like lock her for house.
No be lie.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by 9nice1x: 11:12pm On Mar 18, 2017
Your situation's bit similar to what i exprcd few months back. I subtly confronted d assailant lover and challenged him dt my wife of 8yrs with two kids has freedom to association but his flirting is not wise. Then showered my wife with more concern and love. Suggests you pay a visit to her in her office and cast a wise and subtle challenge on the boss. Guess you will see a change. Though you didn't state how long you'v bn married with kids or not. Wish you d v. best and much luck.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by KingsleyCEO: 11:19pm On Mar 18, 2017
ipobarecriminals:
Picking her from work/droppin her nor go Work.She even havE the gut to tell her husband that d Whatsapp chat is a mistake.She always deleted her Whatsapp message.She and her Oga will always find way to do their their thing in coded way.FEAR WOMAN

One thing that is common with women is that they fall over silly things for anybody. A little care and concern towards them most times sends a wrong signal.is very possible she has not done anything with the boss but at this stage she is very vulnerable.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Chiebunigom: 11:31pm On Mar 18, 2017
Diplomaticbeing:

One funny thing about petty people is that they are always quick to initiate mind games but they are bad losers - they never embrace sportsmanship after their perpetual loss. Disingenuously allow them to go away with their shenanigans, you see them erroneously believe that truly they're smarter and more wicked than you're. Resist them and see them resort to disparaging and denigrating you. Then, reciprocate/mete out to them their negative attitudes in equal and opposite proportions and see them cry murder/victim. Pettiness sucks.
You are very correct Sir!
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Florblu(f): 11:38pm On Mar 18, 2017
Nma27:
Op its best not to assume, there might b nothing going on between them. Don't allow d devil spoil d beautiful thing u guys have going pls

Did you understand this post at all?

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by OgbeniSamm(m): 11:42pm On Mar 18, 2017
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.

I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.

Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.

I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.

Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".

I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.

Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.

With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.

I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.

Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice

broz leave story. She's cheating on u. Wise up!
#YourMumuDonDo
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by kayzat: 11:43pm On Mar 18, 2017
comshots:
I thought a legally married woman in the east hardly cheat due to nemesis that can befall her children.




Says who That is a lie from the pit of hell. Adultery and corruption is no respecter of any tribe or religion in this country and we are all infected . Travel to the East and see things for yourself.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by OgbeniSamm(m): 11:52pm On Mar 18, 2017
DLondonboiy:
Calm down my brother, I'm sure you are overreacting.

Take your wife out tomorrow, maybe to a fine restaurant, and talk to her..She's your wife, so I believe you can talk to her.

Ask her if the tables were turned and you are the one always calling another woman, chatting with another woman and all whatnot, ask her how she would feel?

Her response would tell you the next line of action to take...

this one na mumu advice o.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by marisdgreat(f): 11:54pm On Mar 18, 2017
Your wife is really cheating on u and u were too soft on her. u saw the first signs but u ignored it by allowing love to overshadow your mind. Try n have a warm discussion with her. check your self n try to live up to her expectations. it seems like care n attention is lacking behind. as for myself if my man is not showing me love, care n attention I will start misbehaving cos that should be the topmost priority in a relationship even with trust n communication.

Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by tolufase: 11:58pm On Mar 18, 2017
Definitely, something is fishing there. But the situation can still be brought under control if only you can apply wisdom. You can wake her up in the middle of the night and talk her.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by olabrad: 12:04am On Mar 19, 2017
Oyind18:
Let her resign

Insecurity is killing u

Insecurity? I've got a feeling that peeps like you will see marital unfaithfulness as an ordinary pass time.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 12:05am On Mar 19, 2017
kimbra:
Lmao, people tend to take others for a ride mostly when you act cool. That's when I unleash the other side of me.
i always appreciate a kind and good woman... I even tend to love them hopelessly, I get lost in such ladies... I like you for ur comment
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Joy1706(f): 12:11am On Mar 19, 2017
tonio2wo:


So buying her a phone is showing love? Fish brain! angry
Toad brain! Did I make reference to him buying her a phone. I was referring to attention, care, respect etc
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Joy1706(f): 12:12am On Mar 19, 2017
Bizibi:
"she meets a man that shows her love"......the op is not showing her love ba?
The op was not the one I quoted abeg
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by vanvick247(m): 12:14am On Mar 19, 2017
Knack her Magu joor!! So that if that foolish boss trespass him ago know say Khaki no be leather.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Longcucumber(m): 12:20am On Mar 19, 2017
ikechkwuegone:
Good day Nairalanders, I will like to be brief and specific.I am happily married with kids and we based in Eastern part of the country.

I and my wife work and contribute to the well being of the family.Some months ago I started noticing my wife's body language when ever she is on phone with her boss by been blushing like a single girl talking to her boyfriend.

Secondly the same Boss bought her a phone, which I did not take serious, thinking it will make the official communication between them more easier.

I also noticed that my wife always chat with this same boss and hardly leave her phone carelessly which prompt me to check her chat conversation with the same boss.She doesn't leave their chat history on the phone.

Last week I accidentally checked her chat with the man , I was very surprised when I saw Her boss referred to my Wife as "My Baaby" at d beginning of their conversation and some other words like "Dear ao re u".

I confronted my wife, it was very difficult for me to confront her because I don't want the trust between us spoil.When confronted she gave me two answers, that Her calls every female staffs My Baaby, secondly that the message was mistake frm Her boss that it wasn't meant for Her that was why she didn't reply.I believed Her and we move on.

Two days ago I came back frm work and I met my wife lying down on the bed with phone conversation, instantly my wife change what they were discussing.I asked my wife what they were discussing but she stammering.
The same man do tell my wife about his wife inability to conceive the second child for him.

With all these instances I am totally confused and devastated. I love my wife so much , I can't wait for d worst to happen between her and d man, she is making keep suspecting her.

I am a very loyal to her, I bnever cheat on her, she is everything to me, I don't see her wife but a friend and confidential.

Married nairalanders I really need your advice on how to handle this before my happy home will be ruin, Almighty Lord will bless your home as u give me ur candid advice
oga like play like play your property don day belong to another niggur.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by teemy(m): 12:51am On Mar 19, 2017
@ikechkwuegone, she is your friend. talk to her as one. no fights, no insults. just talk
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by ifex370(m): 12:55am On Mar 19, 2017
tuscani:
sharrap, advice from hell

Bros eh.. No vex oo
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Nobody: 1:03am On Mar 19, 2017
If your wife is working in a Nigerian start-up company (one-man company in Nigerian parlance), the chances of her getting wooed, intimidated or coerced into relationship by her boss just went up by 50%. This is my personal observation over some period of time. Besides the fact that their salary sucks, bosses in Nigerian start-ups feel they have a right to 'tap the ass' of female employees, especially the married ones, so aint worth the trouble. Try to get her into government, multinational or blue chip company where there fewer ethically challenged bosses or colleagues. You can set her up in business if you have the means.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by vislabraye(m): 1:24am On Mar 19, 2017
Franzinni:
Sir as a married man myself it is hard to not come accross issues like this, the first thing is it is obvious your marriage is boring... Secondly you seem to have let let go of a lot of things that makes her happy in the first place.... Everyone cheats it could be physical or just a fantasy... You need to lay the cards on the table and let her know how you are hurt... Ask what is wrong and how it can be fixed let her know a fling is always just that but the effect ripples for generation lastly give her the benefit of a doubt but if she doesn't change....



DUMP HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Life is too short for none sense.... Unless you can endure and in that case garri done pass water....

I was wondering if that was the advice you are giving him. Dumping her is not a bad idea since she's still bent on cheating.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by BLoomfrancs(m): 1:25am On Mar 19, 2017
Franzinni:
Sir as a married man myself it is hard to not come accross issues like this, the first thing is it is obvious your marriage is boring... Secondly you seem to have let let go of a lot of things that makes her happy in the first place.... Everyone cheats it could be physical or just a fantasy... You need to lay the cards on the table and let her know how much you are hurt... Ask what is wrong and how it can be fixed let her know a fling is always just that but the effect ripples for generation lastly give her the benefit of a doubt but if she doesn't change....



DUMP HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Life is too short for none sense.... Unless you can endure and in that case garri done pass water....


What nonsense are you saying?
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Franzinni: 1:26am On Mar 19, 2017
BLoomfrancs:



What nonsense are you saying?
Well... Read! And if you don't understand.... Get someone to help you.

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Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Franzinni: 1:30am On Mar 19, 2017
vislabraye:


I was wondering if that was the advice you are giving him. Dumping her is not a bad idea since she's still bent on cheating.
in my life I give people the benefit of doubt but I draw the line at some point.... The advice was so he knows deep inside that he tried all else but it fail before the DUMP happens.... The worst thing that can happen to a man is to know someone is sleeping with the woman you married and the mother of your kids and there is nothing you can do about it.... It is worst than death.... The male ego is the greatest possession he has....
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by BLoomfrancs(m): 1:39am On Mar 19, 2017
Franzinni:

Well... Read! And if you don't understand.... Get someone to help you.

You mean the rubbish you wrote. illiteracy has got hold of you and you don't even know.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Franzinni: 1:46am On Mar 19, 2017
BLoomfrancs:


You mean the rubbish you wrote. illiteracy has got hold of you and you don't even know.
I was praying to God you said something interesting.... Disappointed though sad but I guess you don't have what it takes to make a sensible argument so.... You resort to pretty insult and by the way.... You suck at it.... Now the none sense you couldn't comprehend was not for you so if you didn't understand it.... Not a problem, KEEP SCROLLING!!!!
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by metallisc(m): 1:49am On Mar 19, 2017
Tenkobos:
She doesn't keep chat history?




You mustn't have sex to cheat, once you see yourself deleting texts, you're there already

Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by BLoomfrancs(m): 1:56am On Mar 19, 2017
Franzinni:
I was praying to God you said something interesting.... Disappointed though sad but I guess you don't have what it takes to make a sensible argument so.... You resort to pretty insult and by the way.... You suck at it.... Now the none sense you couldn't comprehend was not for you so if you didn't understand it.... Not a problem, KEEP SCROLLING!!!!

See the aboki that I am even talking wif. Check the rubbish you wrote there very well and while you are at it try asking yourself why other people are quoting you.
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by abiambo(m): 2:02am On Mar 19, 2017
ifex370:
Make your wife feel more loved.. There's sth she's missing
Make him kill himself ... He emphasized that he loves n care for her
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by Franzinni: 2:05am On Mar 19, 2017
BLoomfrancs:


See the aboki that I am even talking wif. Check the rubbish you wrote there very well and while you are at it try asking yourself why other people are quoting you.
well class monitor for your information only one reasonable person quoted me and his point are valid but you sir... Non aboki, are an absolute waste of my precious time and money so.... I cast and bind you! In Jesus name.... Ps... You still can't make a reasonable point.... If you have read my previous comment what exactly is in there that is making you not sleep tonight?
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by rilla64: 2:12am On Mar 19, 2017
bsonenterprise:
Bros, buy your wife expensive things now and then. I have a secretary who uses all this extremely cheap china phone, I bought her a blackberry b5 for her last birthday, the lady almost killed me with calls. If I was an opportunist, I'd have showered her more gifts, tipped her often, and increased her salary and start smashing her. There is a million and one ways to catch a bored, broke, cash-hungry wife. but I am thankful im a loyal husband, and I dont even imagine myself sleeping with someone who works for me.
I recently took my madam to a three star hotel for one night, come and see the skills she displayed for me...and the day I bought her iphone 6, the cooking wey she cook, as in. This little romantic gesture chase away the predators...
Sit your wife down, tell her that job is a NO NO. It's either the job and the boss or the marriage. And please, make your standing firm...women hate a man who isnt resolute. You need to be the man, and stop tolerating this trash.
I am praying for every husband out there, may God bless you with money to spice your relationship.
true
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by rilla64: 2:44am On Mar 19, 2017
Maski87:
In hard economic times women cheat , but if you love her and your kids just hang in there she will be back to you,when the break up

Cold
Re: Is My Wife Cheating On Me?? by soniaogbu(f): 3:06am On Mar 19, 2017
Perfect and responsible advice.

Calm down my brother, I'm sure you are overreacting.

Take your wife out tomorrow, maybe to a fine restaurant, and talk to her..She's your wife, so I believe you can talk to her.

Ask her if the tables were turned and you are the one always calling another woman, chatting with another woman and all whatnot, ask her how she would feel?

Her response would tell you the next line of action to take...[/quote]

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