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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by lovingyouhun: 2:34am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Hmmmmmmm, I smell deceit from the guys end, how old is your sister? Let them keep asking God for help and go for medical examination and intervention especially seminal fluid analysis to determine if he can father a Child. With medical treatment his erection might improve and if he can father a Child and your sister can manage the condition of the ROD without cheating then they can both embark on news measures to have children with the Man's sperm, if she can't be faithful to him she should leave, Infidelity is a no go area for me and great Sin before God almighty. These whole process shouldn't be more than 6 months Max. Abeg if she no fit make so with the husband's POOR SEXUAL performance she SHOULD LEAVE!!! |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by lovingyouhun: 2:38am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sasko:Bros think this thing well ooooooo, if na hour Sis you go dey happy? How are you sure the no sex thing wasn't the guy's idea? I wish you know how Good those with this problem at concealing it and how far they are willing to go to cage the lady of their Choice. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by princejtb4real(m): 2:52am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:contact meon 08088992014 if i may help sms only please |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by lovingyouhun: 2:57am On Mar 19, 2017 |
tolulinks: For how long? It's not only the joystick that matas but what is inside the balls, if those aren't good then there is no point staying. Some women can pretend to manage the poor condition of the Sadstick ( (Rod/pen-s) I wouldn't call it joystick Now, na penis wey make woman happy be Joystick.) if the man can father children with it (e.g with IUI) . guess what, majority of then end up cheating after a few years. Also some will say if the Rod is a Joystick instead of a Sadstick and choose to adopt children or go for IVF(invitro fertilisation) and keep on enjoying their man. But if both conditions are bad will you expect the woman to stay? You dey use battery charger everytime to wake the pen-s one dey e no go respond abi you no know? 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by lovingyouhun: 2:57am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:that is unlikely |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by rafcrown(m): 3:07am On Mar 19, 2017 |
OR RITUALIST?MAY BE HE HAS USED HIS DIGIDIGI to do something from BABA IJEBU. Gmajor: |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by rafcrown(m): 3:09am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Tell her if I can be helping him before he will find a good solution.When he is fit,I STEP ASIDE. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Equal2DeTask(m): 3:23am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Oyind18:aunty ur BF/husband weak also? |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by alen4smith(m): 3:26am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Certitude:don't mind her she is just trying very hard to justify premarital sex! |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 3:28am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Equal2DeTask:Na you weak |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by alen4smith(m): 3:31am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Oyind18:your boyfriend own too no dey work?sorry o |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Equal2DeTask(m): 3:35am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Oyind18:i knw y i ask question cuz i strong wella as substitute |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by RetroBoy: 4:03am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Jman06:You're right. Masturbation and porn can deaden the response of a man to a real woman, and they're not readily aroused when they are with a real woman. Prolonged abstinence should set him right. At 35, he may not be immune from hypertension and diabetes( which may cause erectile dysfunction) and he need to be checked out by a doctor |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by diva90: 4:11am On Mar 19, 2017 |
That's not the definition of impotence. He just has an erectile dysfunction which can be corrected through treatment and medication. Usually men with this problem take viagra. But since the marriage has not been finalized and it's driving ur sis nuts, then she should find her way now before it's too late 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 4:18am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Acidosis:Up you! Mr. Investigator. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Naughtytboy: 4:19am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Oyind18:Eya so u dey experience the same thing
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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by FaroukM(m): 4:46am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Make una carry the man go meet that lady that sells sex enhance herbs for agege..lady porkiriya,ma wo obo nran..thank me Later |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by EmilyShoton(f): 4:48am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Modified Hello sorry I am seeing this late. First your sister didn't marry an impotent man. What your husband has is called "Sexual Exhaustion" which is the cause of his ED. It has to do with his brain on porn. It happens to most men who used porn to masturbate at a very early age so their brain is twisted to porn and not reality. To know nothing is wrong with your husband, when you visit a urologist, he will definitely tell you nothing is wrong after series of test. It is not a permanent problem but a temporary problem and it takes the two of them to work this out. How old is your sister? because maturity in solving this is very essential. 1. If your husband is still masturbating, he should stop that and porn. sit him don and tell him what you discovered. I believe both of you are very close so you can open up to each other, you are husband and wife 2. He should go 30 days pure without any sexual activity and then introduce sex unto it little by little. After 30 days, you will see immense improvement if you true to the 30 days but you wont be totally cured as it takes 90 days to recover from sexual exhaustion. after the first 30 days, introduce sex maybe twice a week which is necessary to re-wire the brain back to reality. He could also take supplements, eat a lot of fruits and drink a lot of water and also with a lot of exercise. This hasten the whole process. Some men have been said to recover within two weeks of sexual exhaustion. 3. you have to have that connection to be helpful, cuddle him, make him connect with you. You are even lucky he has an erection at all, some don't do so can't know if it is psychological or physiological. I married my husband with PIED and that is when I started making research on this health issue. I couldn't even make him have an erection but when he watches porn of masturbates, it is soooo hard and erect so we went through this process and now I even beg him to stop that I am tired . Once any man has an erection at all during sexual intimacy with a woman, he is not impotent so many factors can contribute to his sexual dysfunction which is very reversible. 4. google on "sexual exhaustion" and both of you should go through this together she will feel better when you discover its not the end of the world or your marriage. This process takes a while so please be patient with him. He will also experience flat lines along this period so don't freak out during this periods Her husband might not even know he had such until he decided to have a penetration with her so don't tag him a devil. PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) is common among many men. Its psychological and very reversible so your sister should not freak out. When having sex, both of them should relax and also see a doctor. Lastly, please keep issues to you both, seek help together if you require but dont start telling friends and relatives. This is not maturity in marriage and be very careful so you dont spoil your marriage because that man will definitely recover if you both work together. cheers 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Funjosh(m): 4:55am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Why are people saying he is gay, do gays don't have erections |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by ElsonMorali: 4:57am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller: sorry about that. She probably doesnt deserve that. Please dont let your sister waste her life praying for the _penis of her husband. It isn't going to rise. It's not a curse. The guy is either impotent or incurably gay. You dont want him tortring your sister's anus, do you? Besides, how will they ever make babies if they always do anal. By law, temporal and spiritual, the marriage is null and void. The man married your sister out of deception. Return the bride price and other gifts and free your sister from that shackle. Get a lawyer to know how to go about nullifying the marriage in court. Most of these handsome guys you see who look dandy are quite effeminate and gay. I, unfortunately, know this because my cousin is gay and he has lots of these guys around him. I'm always like yuck! Anyway, my regards to your sis and i wish her better luck next time. #FornicationStillRemainsSinfulRegardless. 3 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by iSufferFools: 5:14am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Ishilove:So do mine. I believe most marriages that fail are the 21st century one. During the time of our parents, things like cheating and wife battering was very scarce. Now it's something you hear everyday. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by bsbability(m): 5:15am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Acidosis:Bro, it happens oooo. It's no joke. It happened to me when I just got married and my wife was equally complaining. I thought it was spiritual at first becos I usually had erection before then but after all I survived it. Seriously I can't say this is exactly what I used. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 5:20am On Mar 19, 2017 |
diva90:They are one and same thing. Impotency = ED = Inability to have or sustain an erection. Don't mistake it with male infertility. All the people saying impotency isn't ED, biko_ stop spreading falsehood. Impotency is ED! 2 Likes |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by galantjoe(m): 5:21am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Premarital sex is best now since men and women are not truttful to themselves. Test your goods before buying Excessive masturbation can cause erectile dysfunction. Let him take Vega. It will help sustain the erection. Let him stop mastubation and the problem will stop |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by lawbabs: 5:28am On Mar 19, 2017 |
sasko: What an age of moral decadence... You are here celebrating iniquity and every iniquity lover is liking your comment. What a lost age we are in! Who told u that a man that was potently engaging a woman in sex before marriage cannot lose his potency? |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by RELEASEUS: 5:35am On Mar 19, 2017 |
FortuneTeller:Get her black seed oil to give to her husband...let him take 2 spoons morning before breakfast, and two spons before bed...results are instantaneous. Thank you. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by akinszz: 5:42am On Mar 19, 2017 |
MoltenMagma:we all know na she. |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 5:43am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Impotence is very common and most men over 35 has experienced inability to get or sustain erections at least once in their lifetime. Your sisters husband gets erections but cannot sustain, that means he needs to figure out why he cannot maintain it to penetration. It is very impotence very treatable and a few conditions such as obesity, diabetes, heart disease and even certain medication.may cause it. Is he overweight, diabetic, on medication , a smoker or drink alcohol? The best thing your sister can do to immediately get results is to put him on a mainly vegetarian , with very little carbohydrates especially processed ones such as bread or any food made from white flour. Also no smoking or alcohol or any soft drinks. Plenty water , excercise and cutting out dairy and processed foods and anything containing sugar and animal fats should help him see sufficent improvement to at least consummate the marriage within a few days. Tell her to implement my suggestions, let me know after a few days how it went. FortuneTeller: 1 Like |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 5:56am On Mar 19, 2017 |
iSufferFools: This is A BIG FAT LIE. During the time of our parents, our mothers endured several beatings by their husbands. Thats y most women of these days (especially me) has sworn to leave their husbands house anyday he raises his filty hands on them. Marriage is NOT BY FORCE ! |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by soniaogbu(f): 5:56am On Mar 19, 2017 |
[You are wicked. If it were to be your sister that is finding it difficult to conceive, will you come here and say all this to your inlaw? Then start quoting chapters if bible to him. Maybe what the young man is going through might come from your sister or your family. quote author=FortuneTeller post=54625128] I can't tell him... but I will tell my sis. I hope the man is not a gay who has entered our family.[/quote] |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 6:01am On Mar 19, 2017 |
Lol |
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by imma2(m): 6:04am On Mar 19, 2017 |
alexialin:so you had to bring my problems here to NL abi? Iffa must hear this |
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