Honestly speaking, I can't convince myself what this is, love or stubbornness, I simply can't find the right word. I mean, I can't relate at all.

I met Sophia(not real name) not quite a long time ago. Nothing so exceptional about the meeting just that I find in her an unusual friendliness that continually assure trust and sincerity, and this reliance I can't describe. Sophia quite has been supportive and understanding except for this one case which is constantly giving me concern. Sophia wants something I can give, my love and attention.

I am a schizoid. I and emotions are certainly not on the same level. It's not like I don't have emotions, just that I can't call it to the surface, can't get in touch with it. Even our friendship has been characterised with this lack of care and affection. I have told her we can't possibly be more than friends due to the SPD but she doesn't seem to understand and it is getting me worried.

I sincerely don't know how to explain this further to her. She can't view things from my perspective. Any idea on how to make her understand things will be helpful.

Cc: Lalasticlala

Why u name her Sophia? It's Not even real?

Why not Oluwadarasimi or Chikaomasilinogagozim?

HonestPen:
Honestly speaking, I can't convince myself what this is, love or stubbornness, I simply can't find the right word. I mean, I can't relate at all.

I met Sophia(not real name) not quite a long time ago. Nothing so exceptional about the meeting just that I find in her an unusual friendliness that continually assure trust and sincerity, and this reliance I can't describe. Sophia quite has been supportive and understanding except for this one case which is constantly giving me concern. Sophia wants something I can give, my love and attention.

I am a schizoid. I and emotions are certainly not on the same level. It's not like I don't have emotions, just that I can't call it to the surface, can't get in touch with it. Even our friendship has been characterised with this lack of care and affection. I have told her we can't possibly be more than friends due to the SPD but she doesn't seem to understand and it is getting me worried.

I sincerely don't know how to explain this further to her. She can't view things from my perspective. Any idea on how to make her understand things will be helpful.

Cc: Lalasticlala

Keep talking to her, find an expert to explain things if you can. And can schizoid disorder be treated?, if yes work on that.

Do you have sex with her? If yes, then you are either a sadist or mentally unbalanced. Either way, you need help.

Although, you have not told us if you are ugly but your pocket is as beautiful as a model. That will help nairaland investigators and shrinks to do a perfect job on/for you. Good luck.

Even our friendship has been characterised with this lack of care and affection. I have told her we can't possibly be more than friends due to the SPD but she doesn't seem to understand and it is getting me worried.

There seems to be a contradiction there @Emboldened



You care but you like that James Bond feeling

JacksonD7:


Keep talking to her, find an expert to explain things if you can. And can schizoid disorder be treated?, if yes work on that.

All treatments are psychologically bounded to that inner will to break those rigid wall of limitation which is basically lacking, so far there has been no cure. As per the expert, I will try that out.

NaWetinDey:
Do you have sex with her? If yes, then you are either a sadist or mentally unbalanced. Either way, you need help.

Although, you have not told us if you are ugly but your pocket is as beautiful as a model. That will help nairaland investigators and shrinks to do a perfect job on/for you. Good luck.

Sex and schizoids are not on the same page. It's one of the reasons I do not want beyond the friendship level. Sex irritates me most in life.

Your second paragraph? I don't think I am ugly.

Kondomatic:
There seems to be a contradiction there @Emboldened



You care but you like that James Bond feeling

Probably true. The care is I don't care given the norms expected from friends outing the gender. I am worried because I am making somebody worried.

HonestPen:
All treatments are psychologically bounded to that inner will to break those rigid wall of limitation which is basically lacking, so far there has been no cure. As per the expert, I will try that out.

Good luck with that.

Mr. Schizoid...Just dance naked with ur dick in ur hand and a female nude pix in d other wen next she visits u while speaking in tongues... She will delete herslelf frm ur immediate vicinity for all eternity

Just keep talking to her....
But on a second thought I think she feels she can change you that's why she doesn't wanna leave...........

Do you really like yourself the way you are

EricBloodAxe:
Mr. Schizoid...Just dance naked with ur dick in ur hand and a female nude pix in d other wen next she visits u while speaking in tongues... She will delete herslelf frm ur immediate vicinity for all eternity

Emmm op, if Sopha has fyn bones, n she's endowed, pm me her number let me explain ur stands in clear terms to her.

Btw, ive been in ur position b4 so u can trust she wud leave u 4 gud

HonestPen:
Sex and schizoids are not on the same page. It's one of the reasons I do not want beyond the friendship level. Sex irritates me most in life.

Your second paragraph? I don't think I am ugly.

Well, there are several unknown sicknesses. If you say the friendship is true, then do not send her away yet. Explain to her and ask her of her opinion on how you can get help. If she's strong enough in her commitment and you like as enough as a true friend, she call help you through finding a remedy. Good luck.

Show us a medical report showing you've been diagnosed with schizo... Or else, get lost you faagg

Or better still get a hypnotist to help put you off that state of mind... Dont call me o! Cos I go use slap scatter your teeth