Some of us are of the opinion that church wedding especially in Nigeria is like a waste of money because you get to do traditional wedding which is actually were the main bride price is being paid. Then the most recognized legal marriage is the court marriage.

Please I might be very wrong because I have never really thought of having a church wedding so I just want to know why some people take it to be a must.

Coughs**clears throat# u are right....as crazy as it sounds

Am with you brother. On Friday is my traditional wedding,Am planing of skipping the church wedding but am under pressure by my wife to be parents.

Tekzyflex:
Am with you brother. On Friday is my traditional wedding,Am planing of skipping the church wedding but am under pressure by my wife to be parents.

Wow congrats man. Am down for the traditional and court marriage but the church is a no no for me. First of all I don't even like the way some churches this days give their procedures before they can allow you get married in the church. And secondly I believe the certificate you are given is still same as the one issued by the court or so. Probably they just be the one to collect it from court or so, am not too sure but am really not cut out for that church ceremony.

Bros no do any of them manage get wife just no say Ur leg no go cross Ur village entrance even Ur neighbor go keep beef wit u till u park

Do what you think is best for you. No be by force!.

Buh on a more serious note, the main wedding highlighted in d bible involves paying of dowry and that is what happens in d trad marriage. The white wedding we do is just d white man's traditional wedding and we copied it into our system. It is absolutely unnecessary after u hv done ur trad and are legally married in a court of law.

Do wateva helps u sleep Berra...

Church weddings are not biblical. It's a sin.

Since you are not a Christian you don't have to bother yourself.

I would prefer the traditional and court. Those ones are necessary. If I have a way of by passing them sef I would like it but not possible. I don't like crowd Jare, lol

udysweet:
I would prefer the traditional and court. Those ones are necessary. If I have a way of by passing them sef I would like it but not possible. I don't like crowd Jare, lol

my kind of woman

Lemme call pastor kimbra to wed us sharperly

No time for makeups and co

udysweet:
I would prefer the traditional and court. Those ones are necessary. If I have a way of by passing them sef I would like it but not possible. I don't like crowd Jare, lol

you wud prefer trad n court and neglect the blessings of the originator of the institution?

shortgun:
Church weddings are not biblical. It's a sin.

mbok say wot u knw, how can u say church wedding is a sin. Who perforemed d 1st marriage ceremony?

jabojafa:
mbok say wot u knw, how can u say church wedding is a sin. Who perforemed d 1st marriage ceremony?

Was the wedding ceremony performed in a Church/synagogue?

jabojafa:
you wud prefer trad n court and neglect the blessings of the originator of the institution?

Even the originator made it clear thru the bible that wedding is done in the girl's parent house and the 1 Jesus christ attended was a traditional wedding done i d girl's house.

GentleNick:
Some of us are of the opinion that church wedding especially in Nigeria is like a waste of money because you get to do traditional wedding which is actually were the main bride price is being paid. Then the most recognized legal marriage is the court marriage.

Please I might be very wrong because I have never really thought of having a church wedding so I just want to know why some people take it to be a must.

I don't like church weddings,maybe the stress and all..Just going to registry,engagement with reception the next day..that's all

Alslong as the wedding is blessed . You can pick venue and invite Pastor seen it done

Don't worry I'll make u m official wedding sponsor,jus sponsor my white wedding,o tan! Lol
On a serios note,traditional wedding doesn't honor God you mean,knowing full well its our own culture in Africa?

jabojafa:
you wud prefer trad n court and neglect the blessings of the originator of the institution?

jabojafa:
you wud prefer trad n court and neglect the blessings of the originator of the institution?

Can't the blessings be given during traditional or Court wedding? Or can't we invite a pastor to bless the couple in Court or TM venue?

gentlegenius:

Can't the blessings be given during traditional or Court wedding? Or can't we invite a pastor to bless the couple in Court or TM venue?

the blessing can be given even in d church office. The main thing let ur pastor bless the union on behalf of God

udysweet:

Don't worry I'll make u m official wedding sponsor,jus sponsor my white wedding,o tan! Lol
On a serios note,traditional wedding doesn't honor God you mean,knowing full well its our own culture in Africa?

my dear sis, any marriage rite dt is against God's law is unacceptable. And u mustnt do a large church wedding. U fit share coke n biscuit if u nor get moni or go meet pastor for him office to bless u n ur hubby as man n wife according to the law of God. Wich LG are u frm in AKS?

After posting raunchy and provocative porn pictures on the internet in the name of prewedding pics and your are organizing church wedding abi?
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Becareful!

a patriarch told me he wants to trap a woman in his cage with marriage..a matriarch also told me she wants to tie the man down in her nest with marriage...

so let x tie y down in places c,t,j...three weddings for one marriage? hmmm...

trad is as valid as white wedding: but africa has suffered deafricanization on many fronts...erosion of traditional values

white wedding is an import..ndi ocha a na-eme kwa igba nkwu?

court marriage?

but all na the same nau...mtchw
this kain question
no follow for existential questions abeeg...going and sleeping

jabojafa:
the blessing can be given even in d church office. The main thing let ur pastor bless the union on behalf of God

Yea... I think we are saying the same thing.