I always here about this alot but didn't expect to face it myself. Not like am trying to brag here sha, at least I know am a humble, gentle and down to earth guy.
I meet alot of ladies and I know how much I had put in to resist all manner of temptation just because I have this girl I wanted to dedicate my whole life to.

Things always looked good until now, when I traveled for a while and we kept in touch regularly as usual. The day I came back to town I just wanted to surprise her by not telling her I had returned from my trip. I called her sha and we spoke. She told me she was at home and how much she was really missing me and all that. I had no reason to doubt her, all I had in mind was that I will just be at her gate the next day to surprise her.
Not up to 5mins I finished speaking with her I decided to just go to one nice lounge where I love taking wine with chicken and chips. I was with my younger brother and immediately we entered the lounge, lo and behold my supposed girlfriend who claimed she was at home missing me was having a table for two with a guy.

Immediately she sighted us we could practically see that she wanted the ground to open and swallow her but then I didn't say anything or even do anything, I just left the lounge quietly and went somewhere else.

Since that day I have chosen not to set eyes on her, I changed my number and ensured there is no means for her to talk to me at all.

I feel bad sometimes and it feels am being mean to her but I think it's best I move on because I really don't want to know.

Why is it so hard for ladies to believe that a guy can really be true to them? Why must they want to have different alternatives because of insecurity?

variety is the spice of life...so they say

God why? OP, you wan die of heart attack?!

Dem nor de follow girls play "Bae, Surprise!" again ooo.

If you do, you chi chomtin. You chi chomtin, you die.

Shit happens. Better luck next time.

Nawa oo.. Let me not type sha!!

Op.. I feel for you...

Don't mind those girls... Cheating is in their DNA! But we they tell us how faithful they are, we will just smile and nod our heads like we believe them!!

Be wise next time!

For most of them, its in their DNA, they can't help it.

The kind of ladies we have these days are not to be trusted. Its very unfortunate that dis sets of gals claim to be loyal the most by their stupid actions. Dont be decieved!

lol.. me, trust a girl? Laye. Ko possible

GentleNick:
I always here about this alot but didn't expect to face it myself. Not like am trying to brag here sha, at least I know am a humble, gentle and down to earth guy.
I meet alot of ladies and I know how much I had put in to resist all manner of temptation just because I have this girl I wanted to dedicate my whole life to.

Things always looked good until now, when I traveled for a while and we kept in touch regularly as usual. The day I came back to town I just wanted to surprise her by not telling her I had returned from my trip. I called her sha and we spoke. She told me she was at home and how much she was really missing me and all that. I had no reason to doubt her, all I had in mind was that I will just be at her gate the next day to surprise her.
Not up to 5mins I finished speaking with her I decided to just go to one nice lounge where I love taking wine with chicken and chips. I was with my younger brother and immediately we entered the lounge, lo and behold my supposed girlfriend who claimed she was at home missing me was having a table for two with a guy.

Immediately she sighted us we could practically see that she wanted the ground to open and swallow her but then I didn't say anything or even do anything, I just left the lounge quietly and went somewhere else.

Since that day I have chosen not to set eyes on her, I changed my number and ensured there is no means for her to talk to me at all.

I feel bad sometimes and it feels am being mean to her but I think it's best I move on because I really don't want to know.

Why is it so hard for ladies to believe that a guy can really be true to them? Why must they want to have different alternatives because of insecurity?

same thing happened to me,a girl I really loved and believed she loves me,cheated on me,I was so shocked to read the love texts she sent to some guy,I got so angry I did not talk to her for a month,but after some time my anger cooled down and I called her,we talked liked nothing happened and I invited her to come over,when she came I just took her to a restaurant we sat down ate then had a few drinks and talked,then after that I took her to the house and bleeped her brains out,so far am still searching for a replacement for her because marrying her is totally out of the equation, she had proven to be disloyal as a girlfriend despite all I did for her,so I cannot trust her as a wife,I have turned her into my intimacy gadget while searching for another girl,as soon as I see another good girl,I will dump her fast fast.am even happy because she has already given me an excuse for dumping her.

Well, not all ladies cheat

Balanced diet

That is why I believe these days women cheat more than men. Why? I believe women are constantly bombarded with toasting so this gives them the avenue to keep as many as they like to have. Men on the otherhand,may not ask a lady out if he doesn't have money some are even too shy to approach a lady.

So most likely, if you have a pretty or not to pretty lady as a gf with a considerable good fashion sense then expect her to get lots of offers daily as this increases her chance of cheating.

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Queenserah26:
Well, not all ladies cheat

Madam i'm tempted to shut you up but i won't.

I don't see anything wrong in what she did. She was on a date probably exploring her options but the fact that she lied is what i have a problem with.

Like sey men no dey cheat too look at them... Double standards how myopic.

SafeDavid:


Madam i'm tempted to shut you up but i won't.

I don't see anything wrong in what she did. She was on a date probably exploring her options but the fact that she lied is what i have a problem with.

Why would you tell her to shut up? That you've been kinda unfortunate to roll with two timing bitches does mean we all cheat. I don't cheat too, oya comman beat me in my house.

Aderola15:


Why would you tell her to shut up? That you've been kinda unfortunate to roll with two timing bitches does mean we all cheat. I don't cheat too, oya comman beat me in my house.

But I didn't shut up na.

It's just unfortunate that some girls bring shame to womanhood.

Oya chop kiss.

SafeDavid:


But I didn't shut up na.

It's just unfortunate that some girls bring shame to womanhood.

Oya chop kiss.

Lol

Yh, same misfortune that shameless guys have brought upon the few good guys out there.

Goodmorning Dave and how was your night?

Aderola15:


Lol

Yh, same misfortune that shameless guys have brought upon the few good guys out there.

Goodmorning Dave and how was your night?

Misfortune everywhere on a Monday morning abet lets talk about something else Jare!

Good morning.

I think most ladies cheat because they are not contented with what dey have,and dey feel that dey can get something better out there,alas,more often than not they end up leaving the precious stones in their hands to pick coloured stones on the floor...its a part of them,only afew of them can resist that temptation

We do it because it aren't good to put all your eggs in one basket .

It's better to have alternatives... A lady get old easily.. She doesn't have time...

Instead of forming faithful with one guy.. It's better to have others in line.. In case one eff up.. Yhu try d next..

No time to waste time..