I will try to explain this as precisely as i can

I introduced this chick- lets call her Gift, to my boss- Edward, at work.

This my boss na quarter-cast, fine hands-down, wealthy, good family, has everything going for him. He is 34. Never been married and no kid.

Gift, 28, Banker. pretty girl too, curvy and sexy.

Gift and Edward have been "dating" for 12 months now, however it appears she has pushed him into friend zone. But she is still very fond of him. and still hangs out with him, sleep over in his house , cook etc. though she said they nolonger have sex.

Gift has gotten herself a new boyfriend, who she loves. The boy friend is a fellow banker on same level as she is. in fact she might be higher than him.

Gift and Edward had a big row this weekend, friday exactly.

Edward is not happy he cant have her, he is hurting badly, and has now given Gift an ultimatum,

He is not happy to be in Gift's Friend zone anylonger.

Either she choose to be with him OR she should let go of him and will then become his enemy.



What would you advise Gifty?

SOURCE :

http://codedruns.com/forum/main-forum/friend-zone-or-let-go/


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It would appear Edward is in quite a bind as I am right now. Our stories are dissimilar in one or two areas; I, once, was sure of where I stood in "her" life. It appears Eddie boy never got that clarity.

It's simple. No more lagging on a decision. He's got to walk away with his head held high... It's not her decision to make.

I hope to walk my talk, too, OP

At my age, I no longer watch Nollywood dramas. Sorry.

I don't gerrit, how can a girl pass the night in your house and you still term it friendzone??.

Eddie no b man

cant advice such pple cos dey still no go follow ur advise

Ha. Edward sef..

Edward will like to marry Gift. He geniunely loves her.

Gifty likes Edward, but doesnt love him.

She says all her friends shake when they see Edward, and beg to take them along to his house or his parties.

But for some reason she doesnt see him that way, appreciates him no doubt but dont love him.

She said she will be heart broken to stop speaking to Edward. As she is so fond of him.

In fact she is currently in his house as i type this; cooking his weekly meals for him. which will be big pots of stew, and several soups.

head word is weak and doesn't know what he wants

obviously uncle eddie cant fvck.

daryoor:
obviously uncle eddie cant fvck.

Na Bleep dey determine relationship nowadays ?

macjive01:

Na Bleep dey determine relationship nowadays ?

thats the easiest way to dominate, control and own a woman.

He should let her go na.

ToriBlue:
He should let her go na.

He loves her, doesnt want to let go. he wants her to marry him. but she doesnt feel same way