Michelle55:
wow! Such cruelty bt he has to 4give nd let God take over d wheel. When 1 kips remembering d evil tinx meted out 2 him/her,trust me u wnt av d urge 2 4give bt wen u allow God take control of ur hrt,evrytin arnd nd concerning u wil leap up wit profound nd inexplicable peace of mind nd joy. Dnt dwell on d wrngs done 2 u,rather c dm as a stepn stones to a greater height.. 4GIVE and LET GO OF THE HURTS AND PAINS U R FEELING,ONLY THEN WILL U EXPERIENCE PEACE ALL AROUND. Drop ur heavy heart at HIS feet Dear!!

Yes.

The story sounds like something from zeeworld

Op won't advise you to forgive cos I don't pray to be in your shoes but if I was 2lives=mother 2lives=brother
The girl and her must pay according to that
Karma is already performing it's job
I wonder how the girl's mum can face you and said her daughter needs to see you for forgiveness
Heartless humans they will surely roast in hell. Everyone involved in the death of your mother and brother death shall pay in 100 folds
Amen

Michelle55:
wow! Such cruelty bt he has to 4give nd let God take over d wheel. When 1 kips remembering d evil tinx meted out 2 him/her,trust me u wnt av d urge 2 4give bt wen u allow God take control of ur hrt,evrytin arnd nd concerning u wil leap up wit profound nd inexplicable peace of mind nd joy. Dnt dwell on d wrngs done 2 u,rather c dm as a stepn stones to a greater height.. 4GIVE and LET GO OF THE HURTS AND PAINS U R FEELING,ONLY THEN WILL U EXPERIENCE PEACE ALL AROUND. Drop ur heavy heart at HIS feet Dear!!

hmmmm

Hatred is necessary at times, sometimes it can be a source of pure energy only negative aide is that it leaves you drained and empty. OP embrace your hatred, follow it till the end remember the price and walk in the shadow. If not anything your hatred is permitted and allowed to be. The sad part would be for the girl to die because it would mean she got off easy

The day I lost my only brother this life became meaningless to me,I became very bitter to people around me,I find it hard to forgive,little thing pisses me off you no why?because nobody agreed to help us save my brother not even church,church said they want to check if he is a member while me am a member and worker.why am I telling you this,bitterness is very bad,I am always bitter,before a week runs out I must sure cry,I want to forgive those that wronged me then but I can't.I see friends,lovers,colleagues as trait to me so please let go don't just allow bitterness take the best of your sweet soul because I am still battling on my own.

ahnie:


I trust you dyty gyal...chop knuckle

The story is too touching not to be moved

greatgod2012:




I doubt if I can ever believe any story in this section again! One of the major reasons I no longer frequent this section like before!

Na dem den full everywhere

VeniJu:


Not all stories are ours. Some, people gives permission to share it.

What you do not know, is bigger than you.

Isssok

I've taken out time to study the OP.





I do not believe this story.


You posted this Jan. 10

VeniJu:
Hello Nairalanders. Please, your advices are needed. To cut the story short, let me just summarise it.
He neglected us when we needed him most which led to the death of my mum, me and my sister being dropped from school and our being thrown away from the house because of rent.. After the whole storm and agonies, which has led to me having a heart of stone, he popped out from no where and is now seeking forgiveness.
Inside of me, i find it hard to forgive him. I told him i'll only forgive him if he can bring back my mum.. I'm not God, and God do forgive us. But my experiences totally changed my heart.
each time i remember the painful circumstances that led to the death of my mum, my hatred for him grows.
What do i do?

Why the use of him on that thread?

Still on the same thread, you ignored your brother, why? The circumstance didn't lead to your brother's death?

Someone said nobody owes you anything, and here is your response:

VeniJu:

It's true, once you're in this world, you stand alone. But also know that there are people who make sacrifices for the sake of others. And that was the case.

Who is making the sacrifice? The woman you referred to here?

Hmm l am short of words,it's heart breaking and I know d pains of loosing a mother cos l ve lost mine especially when your mum is innocent of all d troubles. Hmm forgiveness will be by God's grace. So ask the giver of Grace to give u grace.

Acidosis:
I've taken out time to study the OP.





I do not believe this story.


You posted this Jan. 10



Why the use of him on that thread?

Still on the same thread, you ignored your brother, why? The circumstance didn't lead to your brother's death?

Someone said nobody owes you anything, and here is your response:



Who is making the sacrifice? The woman you referred to here?

The story is not true. OP is known to create and cook up threads like this, telling the biggest lies. Idk what he gains from it. All you need to do is take a look at the topics he has created. And yes, I've also looked at the responses he gives when people actually reply (he creates emotional threads, fooling some people to thinking it's true and replying), they're always very weird. Idk what he gains from what he's doing.

Acidosis:
I've taken out time to study the OP.





I do not believe this story.


You posted this Jan. 10



Why the use of him on that thread?

Still on the same thread, you ignored your brother, why? The circumstance didn't lead to your brother's death?

Someone said nobody owes you anything, and here is your response:



Who is making the sacrifice? The woman you referred to here?

You need to learn that not all stories are personal. Some, people authorise it been posted on net.
I believe you know about people, helping others to share their stories.

What u do not know, is bigger than you.

This story would have been a bit believable, but for the part where the OP's brother fainted and later died at the hospital upon hearing his mother was dead. Anyways, real or not, its quite a touching story and anyone in his shoes will find it hard to forgive too.

Godmother:
This story would have been a bit believable, but for the part where the OP's brother fainted and later died at the hospital upon hearing his mother was dead. Anyways, real or not, its quite a touching story and anyone in his shoes will find it hard to forgive too.

Not just only about the news of her death. But also due to lack of medical attention to his injuries while still in cell.

I dont knw wat to say its hard 2 4gv

VeniJu:


You need to learn that not all stories are personal. Some, people authorise it been posted on net.
I believe you know about people, helping others to share their stories.

What u do not know, is bigger than you.

Which of the stories is authorized?


You think everybody on Nairaland is d.u.m.b?

I just hate it when people abuse power. Especially these fools in police uniform. Someone just tells u a story, u don't even conduct investigation... U just start beating someone..even an elderly woman to death. If na me I for locate that police station and plant a bomb there. Some people are so useless...