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Asj by Beosten(m): 10:44am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Asd 1 Like |
Re: Asj by QueenSuccubus(f): 10:46am On Mar 21, 2017 |
What kind of disability u have? ![]() |
Re: Asj by vizkiz: 10:47am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Sounds like a movie though. Back to the topic, just ignore her with time she will get over you and move on. Nigga stop being an object of pity 1 Like |
Re: Asj by Freewoman(f): 10:48am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Love don't look at disability, in short text, she is seeing ability in your disability, let her be and ask God to direct your foot steps, Beosten: 1 Like |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 10:48am On Mar 21, 2017 |
QueenSuccubus: |
Re: Asj by QueenSuccubus(f): 10:50am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 10:51am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Op, since she's hellbent on sticking with you that means she truly love you and there are certain values that she finds in you that goes beyond your disability. What you need in this situation is genuine love and I see that she's ready to give you her love. |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 10:55am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten: Is the both ears affected? 1 Like |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 10:59am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:so sorry about tat....God will heal you |
Re: Asj by cloudyskygrind(m): 11:02am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Most cases of Hearing loss can be managed with the aid of implants or even Hearing Aid. You should work towards that instead of sounding like you're writing a movie script. I know it's not easy but try. |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 11:03am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 11:03am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Dextology: |
Re: Asj by Divay22(f): 11:05am On Mar 21, 2017 |
So sorry about that I know you hate to feel vulnerable or pitied But leave her,let her stay if she wants to,don't try to push her away because even if you see her with another guy today you'll feel jealous.... So since she wants to stay,let her.. She believes so much in you more than you believe in yourself,she seeing way beyond your disability.... But can't you learn a skill? |
Re: Asj by firstking01(m): 11:05am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:Do you believe in the lord jesus christ of nazareth? |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 11:06am On Mar 21, 2017 |
cloudyskygrind: Mmm |
Re: Asj by OhMyG0d: 11:07am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Freewoman:aunty, abeg, go and modify your post, must you quote the whole write-up? |
Re: Asj by OhMyG0d: 11:09am On Mar 21, 2017 |
These are nothing but words of a Defeated/Conquered fellow. Pesin wey get Head, no get Cap, de One wey own Cap, no get Head" You've someone who despite your 'shortcoming' still stick to you, and you're here thinking in your IMAGINATION that you're a burden to her. And, this is someone who isn't complaining ooo. You ran away and she still went on your trail till she tracked you down, you're not only having Hearing Loss, you definitely have "Discerning Loss". She's trying to be an encouragement to you so, you won't have Depression and all its vices yet, you still failed to see what she sees in you. It's disheartening and pathetic, Highly Pathetic. 1 Like |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 11:12am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Divay22: Learning a skill means looking for who will feed you as one leaves for the skill centre everyday. Note that the girl is not working. |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 11:19am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:Locate one of these big churches around and table ur challenge to their pastor, I'm sure one will be of good assistance to you. Keep hope alive. never back down, never let ur situation defeat you. Be strong |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 11:22am On Mar 21, 2017 |
She loves you. This is lady that isn't bothered by your disability. Maybe you deserve her. Maybe you don't. Who fùcking cares! Just stop pitying yourself. Stand up and fight. |
Re: Asj by OhMyG0d: 11:28am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:Does that mean she won't work in the future? You shouldn't see yourself as a liability because she's not seeing you as one. Someone who bluntly told you to desist from "those jobs you took up then", citing it's not dignifying her, won't sit idle while the home goes ahunger. BTW, what's her age range? By "Working", did you mean working in an office or she doesn't have ANY means of income? |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 11:30am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Nma27: I'm tempted to say you're funny. I'm a member of one of such big churches. |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 11:31am On Mar 21, 2017 |
OhMyG0d: S |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 11:32am On Mar 21, 2017 |
to your question op.. how can you help her? the answer is as simple as abc.. its all by helping yourself.. she believe in you so you've got to make it worth it. |
Re: Asj by OhMyG0d: 11:45am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:That's your own angel, don't send her away. There's a saying: "A Friend in Need is a Friend Indeed".... A friend who step in while others fled is someone that must be held dearly. She's not complaining(according to you yourself), and it's not like she doesn't sees 'better' guys in school and her neighbourhood, but, she just find you irresistible, don't resist her. Being a student doesn't connote her being aimless and ambitionless, for her to be in the four walls of an academic settings shows she's trying to be 'someone' in the future. She loves and cares for you, WHAT ELSE?? She isn't working! TELL ME SOMETHING MORE. Anyway, this is my perogative, we can only advice you, the onus lies on you to decide which way you're steering your ship to. #Shalom |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 11:58am On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:Table your case, submit ur CV to your pastor. who knows |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 12:00pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:Table your case, submit ur CV to your pastor. who knows. Better don't abandon that lady cos her type is rare oo. You guys should work together and I believe doors will open. Just have faith. |
Re: Asj by Abortions: 1:57pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
U LET HER GO N U ARE A GONER..MY WORD |
Re: Asj by Beosten(m): 2:27pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Abortions: U got it. I'm actually thinking of giving everything up, including life itself. |
Re: Asj by Jodha(f): 3:30pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
The intelligent fellaz above me have said it all... Follow... Em.. Look on the bright side in life... My dear if yhu give up on life.. You'll have yhurself to blame.. GOD loves yhu.. He sent yhu a helper in form of a soul mate(the lady).. The least yhu can do.. Is love her with all your heart.. Pray to God.. Yhu said yhu attend a big church.. But yhu don't sound like someone who has a personal relationship with Jesus... He's the only one yhu can turn to.. If yhu wanna be stone hearted and ignore the advice we've given.. Then it's yhur problem.. A word is enough for the wise.. 1 Like |
Re: Asj by SmellingAnus(m): 4:42pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Oh.... What a woman... Good to know we still have women like this in this world... Op... It's time for you to accept her as she has accepted you.... Things may work out well for you guys... |
Re: Asj by Nobody: 4:47pm On Mar 21, 2017 |
Beosten:Not too bad |
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