Hello nairalanders,

We've been in this relationship for 2 years. But, lately, we seem to quarrel a lot and most time settle our scores before dawn.

Two weeks back, we had a little disagreement on fone cos i wasn't in town, she was at fault but was trying to shift blame so i told her to forget the talk since she's claiming right nd trying to shift the blame. She got annoyed nd hung d fone on me for d first time in two years.

A text followed afterwards, that ''she's tired of her getting hurt, tired of hurting me.. blah blah blah... i shud enjoy my life without her''..

I didn't reply immediately cos i believe she sent it out of anger.. d next day, i replied her thanking her for pouring out her mind,, nd wished her the best in life...

She replied immediately i texted, saying ol kind of things '' dt she knows she no longer has use to me, like oda girls, i just use nd dumb dem so av done to her'' while she was d one who initiated d breakup nd was just trying to make me feel guilty.

I replied her saying ''she has gotten what she wanted, so des no need dragging issues''...

It's two weeks nw, nd we've neither chat nor talk to each other.... but, i stl love her nd i believe she does too.. We had so many plans together..

What do you think i should do?

i need more opinion from you guys..

.

Why do stupid girls actually use dat line "u used me"




It beats my imagination... There was not any form of rape.. Sex was mutual.. Everythn was just mutual.. And then when things go awry..


She begins to use dat stupid line

She was expecting you to be telling her"baby,i am sorry"Since you didn't she got fed up.No be gels?

Make another move bro.



Girls can form.



She may love you as well

professorfal:
if you do love her as you said why did you play along like a moron_? you should have at least give it a fight, argue and see how things could change.

no, you just have to act tough and play along when you knew your heart isn't done with her. Oga shift make better guy locate her.

dis comment pain me sha

LAFO:
Make another move bro.



Girls can form.



She may love you as well

@ bolded, hw do u mean?

Dondave11:
@ bolded, hw do u mean?

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Make a move to see her an talk things over.

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If she doesn't want to be with you....
Let her go.

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To avoid stories that touch your heart

McBrooklyn:

Advise your fellow man

2 years relationship and you let her go like that




Don't be stupid my friend

Be like say na small pikin love dey worry una two.


My humblest opinion, both of you should see physically and talk. Leave pride aside and don't bring the blame game (I'm right you're left) to the table.

Capisce?

All za best.

I am not asking you to beg her but if you still love her, drop your ego, find time to meet her and solve whatever differences btw both of you. This issue is too meagre to discuss online.

Rukkydelta:
Advise your fellow man

And what if I don't??

wristbangle:
I am not asking you to beg her but if you still love her, drop your ego, find time to meet her and solve whatever differences btw both of you. This issue is too meagre to discuss online.

that's just it.

@op, see the issue resolution above.

What are you doing in this section?

Family section needs you

wristbangle:
I am not asking you to beg her but if you still love her, drop your ego, find time to meet her and solve whatever differences btw both of you. This issue is too meagre to discuss online.

Dondave11,

I would go with the advise up-there. The ability to say "I am sorry" even when you know she is clearly at fault would be a start to resolve this. Try it out and see.

Jump off a cliff and die!!! Mo****er!!!!

Dondave11:
Hello nairalanders,

We've been in this relationship for 2 years. But, lately, we seem to quarrel a lot and most time settle our scores before dawn.

Two weeks back, we had a little disagreement on fone cos i wasn't in town, she was at fault but was trying to shift blame so i told her to forget the talk since she's claiming right nd trying to shift the blame. She got annoyed nd hung d fone on me for d first time in two years.

A text followed afterwards, that ''she's tired of her getting hurt, tired of hurting me.. blah blah blah... i shud enjoy my life without her''..

I didn't reply immediately cos i believe she sent it out of anger.. d next day, i replied her thanking her for pouring out her mind,, nd wished her the best in life...

She replied immediately i texted, saying ol kind of things '' dt she knows she no longer has use to me, like oda girls, i just use nd dumb dem so av done to her'' while she was d one who initiated d breakup nd was just trying to make me feel guilty.

I replied her saying ''she has gotten what she wanted, so des no need dragging issues''...

It's two weeks nw, nd we've neither chat nor talk to each other.... but, i stl love her nd i believe she does too.. We had so many plans together..

What do you think i should do?

davide470:
What are you doing in this section?

Family section needs you

Dondave11,

I would go with the advise up-there. The ability to say "I am sorry" even when you know she is clearly at fault would be a start to resolve this. Try it out and see.

Lol egbon I hail oo. Really? I hardly visits that section

McBrooklyn:


And what if I don't??

You will be a shame to the brotherhood

ifex370:
2 years relationship and you let her go like that




Don't be stupid my friend

Dfinex:


that's just it.

@op, see the issue resolution above.

LAFO:

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Make a move to see her an talk things over.

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If she doesn't want to be with you....
Let her go.

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To avoid stories that touch your heart

THANK'S GUYS.. IT WORKED. I CHATTED HER UP AND DID THE NEEDFUL.. SHE ACCEPTED WITHOUT RAISING ANY ISSUE... WE'LL BE MEETING TOMORROW..... YOU GUYS ROCK.....

Rukkydelta:
You will be a shame to the brotherhood

Lol, now that's actually funny... .

Op
How did things go?
Updates please