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How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 2:43pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Sometimes I see people attacking each other on Nland I'd wonder why on earth would some spend good time online firing shots at a person you don't even know?When a negative comment pops up or an attacker fires at you on Nland.There is always an instantaneous urge to fire back but the right thing to do is to hold yourself andnot sink to the attackers level.I can remember the first time I was attacked here. I gave my opinion on a question one lady asked and the first mention I got was "YOU ARE FOOLI wanted to fire back immediately but then I remembered that somepeople are really going through hard times these days. Yea......They come online full of frustration, anger, and disappointment, etc. As all these pile up, they'd need a place to dump them, so I told myself that Iam not and cannot be their dump site. Maybe he would have said more if I had replied.Here Are Few Things You Should Do To Keep Your Cool When Attacked.1: Don't react immediately.Take amoment to gather your thoughts before saying or doing anything, no matter how much the comment may have stung. If you know you have a bad temper, or are prone to angry outburst then close the tab immediately and think about what was said.2: Ask a question rather than making a statement.This is really important. Try and find out why he/she is attacking you Instead offiring back. It could be a result of misconception of your standpoint. Remember not everyone here is an adult.3: Be gentle. No matter what the response is from that person who's going off on you, you must maintain your cool. In the end, if you are kindly and gentle in your response to that person, s/he is the one who will end up looking bad to others. A lady once fired a shot at me. She said"You are an ediot"I told her that I know cause some already told me.No matter what kind of person you're dealing with, the only thing you need to worry about is what kind of person you are. Remember youhave followers that see you as a responsible person.4: Don’t freak out. Suspend judgment. Don’t take what has been said personally. Resist the urge to react right awayInstead, take a deep breath, scrollup and read the Op and your comment once again. Maybe you made a mistake somewhere and the person(due to lack of manners) is correcting you in a terrible way. If the comment is ok then let it slide. If there is an error then correct it and move onSometimes the best thing one can say is to say Nothing at all.These are the few things that help me.If you know of any that isn't listedhere please add it let's learn. 4 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by RoyalBlak007: 2:44pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
♤Too clumsy ♤But still you've got a point 4 Likes |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by ReneeNuttall(f): 2:52pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Well said,working on my temperaments though,sometimes the tantrums displayed here hurts so bad dat u would want to fight back,esp wen d person does not understand the situation from ur own point of view. |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 2:52pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 2:54pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:dat tru baby wen u matured learn to ignore sometin cos post say tins to make u mad. |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 2:57pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
RoyalBlak007:I dont get |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by ReneeNuttall(f): 2:57pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
jakandeola: sure |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by obiorathesubtle: 2:59pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
You have a point though.... But I can't let a nigga bite my ass without crushing his balls.. That's weakness.. |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:00pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
[quote author=jakandeola post=54870185]Sometimes I see people attacking each other on Nland I'd wonder why on earth would some spend good time online firing shots at a person you don't even know?When a negative comment pops up or an attacker fires at you on Nland.There is always an instantaneous urge to fire back but the right thing to do is to hold yourself andnot sink to the attackers level.I can remember the first time I was attacked here. I gave my opinion on a question one lady asked and the first mention I got was "YOU ARE FOOLI wanted to fire back immediately but then I remembered that somepeople are really going through hard times these days. Yea......They come online full of frustration, anger, and disappointment, etc. As all these pile up, they'd need a place to dump them, so I told myself that Iam not and cannot be their dump site. Maybe he would have said more if I had replied.Here Are Few Things You Should Do To Keep Your Cool When Attacked.1: Don't react immediately.Take amoment to gather your thoughts before saying or doing anything, no matter how much the comment may have stung. If you know you have a bad temper, or are prone to angry outburst then close the tab immediately and think about what was said.2: Ask a question rather than making a statement.This is really important. Try and find out why he/she is attacking you Instead offiring back. It could be a result of misconception of your standpoint. Remember not everyone here is an adult.3: Be gentle. No matter what the response is from that person who's going off on you, you must maintain your cool. In the end, if you are kindly and gentle in your response to that person, s/he is the one who will end up looking bad to others. A lady once fired a shot at me. She said"You are an ediot"I told her that I know cause some already told me.No matter what kind of person you're dealing with, the only thing you need to worry about is what kind of person you are. Remember youhave followers that see you as a responsible person.4: Don’t freak out. Suspend judgment. Don’t take what has been said personally. Resist the urge to react right awayInstead, take a deep breath, scrollup and read the Op and your comment once again. Maybe you made a mistake somewhere and the person(due to lack of manners) is correcting you in a terrible way. If the comment is ok then let it slide. If there is an error then correct it and move onSometimes the best thing one can say is to say Nothing at all.These are the few things that help me.If you know of any that isn't listedhere please add it let's learn.[/quote ] When you are done lamenting face your front or I help u do that |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 3:01pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:neva come down to dia level cos in real life some are useless dat cant stand u if u see dem u spit on dem. I ignore dem. God bless u dear |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 3:03pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
obiorathesubtle:is not d best wat de proof u mature pass dem if u act like dem |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by ReneeNuttall(f): 3:03pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
jakandeola: yeah u are right, amen ,same here. |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by obiorathesubtle: 3:04pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
jakandeola: There are different sides to it. |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by professorfal: 3:05pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
you don't keep your cool, you fight! people here mistake humility for vulnerability. I don't attack people I've never done that but if anyone cross my path, I will rip him/her to shred! 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:08pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
At least your English is getting better... 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:09pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
u ignore but if u cant ignore then baff the person cold water |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 3:10pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
[quote author=Doxie69 post=54870747][/quote] oga get sence |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:10pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
kini itumo gbogbo eleyi bayi |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 3:20pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
HateU2:hahaj omo yooba |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Alesandese:d day i will tell u word u will cry to sleep |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Penisman: 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
And you expect people to read this nonsense without paragraph? I'm just asking question ooooo...... 3 Likes |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:21pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
jakandeola:its Yoruba |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:22pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Nice blog 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 3:22pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by jakandeola(m): 3:24pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
HateU2:it yooba go learn histry |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by wordbank(m): 3:24pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:Piss off |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Juliet11111(f): 3:24pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
jakandeola:you forgot cocainaddict. The guy is always angry |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by wordbank(m): 3:25pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by cocaineaddict(m): 3:27pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Juliet11111:and you're always stoopid |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:27pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
wordbank:ode ni e 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Nobody: 3:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
jakandeola:Since you have been typing in signs and symbols, I will await the day. Condemned cretin 1 Like |
Re: How To Keep Your Cool When Someone Attacks You On Nland by Juliet11111(f): 3:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
cocaineaddict:Bye |
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