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How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by BENZENE123(m): 7:25pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Hello everyone, I am in deep trouble...I met a girl while I was in the WORLD of sin, I fell in love with her and promised her everything, I plan to marry her but that time is still far....Alot of chemistry happened between us and she lost her virginity to me and mine to her....I still love her diee and she loves me even more, she can even die for me Now the problem is that I have given my Life to Christ and I want to live for God. Please tell me how do i go about this and explain it to her that I can't continue in that life of sin without devastating her? I am a graduate of pharmacy frm a federal university and she is a year one student of nursing. |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Cutehector(m): 7:27pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Bia u must finish what you started o.. 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by dikeigbo2(m): 7:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Unvirgin her period.... ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Jabioro: 7:30pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
BENZENE123:You a wicked soul.. |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Kondomatic(m): 7:32pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
BENZENE123:
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Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by ikbnice(m): 7:38pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Your life belongs to Christ-agreed, but your konji belongs to her |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Nancypret: 7:44pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
BENZENE123:Now that you have given your life to Christ,you guys have to stay platonic since you claim to love her. That is if you want to marry her in the future. I know it's hard but you have to try. Maybe you can meet each other at public places to avoid temptation. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Boydehot: 7:44pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
I once had such experience. never do i wanted to end the relationship with her, just that i told her that we should take a break from having sex. but she thought am no longer in love with her. Fast forward after 6months of breakup she become pregnant for another dude. But still single. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by nursennenny(f): 7:45pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Cutehector(m): 7:46pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
nursennenny:so its a bad thing to advise him to marry her? Ok op pls dump her and move on with ur life.. Happy now? |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by sirusX(m): 7:47pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
You opened the floodgates of konji...and want to pullout At year one for that matter, what if she no fit hold body nko? Guy, you don add extra course for her this semester...how to create an olosho 101 ![]() She can like to carryover...as heartbreak dey come cz you wan leave am 3 Likes |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by ikp120(m): 7:48pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Very easy. 50k Naira for my professional advice or you bounce ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ***Bones face*** ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
[quote author=BENZENE123 post=54879125]Hello everyone, I am in deep trouble...I met a girl while I was in the WORLD of sin, I fell in love with her and promised her everything, I plan to marry her but that time is still far....Alot of chemistry happened between us and she lost her virginity to me and mine to her....I still love her diee and she loves me even more, she can even die for me Now the problem is that I have given my Life to Christ and I want to live for God. Please tell me how do i go about this and explain it to her that I can't continue in that life of sin without devastating her? I am a graduate of pharmacy frm a federal university and she is a year one student of nursing.[/quote How can u be fooling yourself by yourself alone? Wake up from your dream nobody is ready to die for anybody. If u can't continue servicing her buy her intimacy gadgets to help herself. If u want to run mad just break up with her and see |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by deparagon(m): 7:49pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Lead her to salvation too, u both make a decision nt to involve urselves sexually again, tell her u still luv n wnt to marry her,(dat's if u still wnt to marry her) but dat u'll really appreciate sex wen u both r married, and tel her ur plans on marriage. But most importantly lead her to Christ Talking Frm Xperience 5 Likes |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Splinz(m): 7:50pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
BENZENE123: Firstly, that you now consider yourself a Christian doesn't mean your old friends are now demons that must be deserted, except of course, if such friends want to revert you to the ways of the world. Secondly, going by the teachings of 1 Corinthians 7:13-14, it is absolutely okay to keep your relationship if your partner is willing to accept your new way of life, though it talks of marriage, but it is also applicable in this case. Henceforth, you both can refrain from fornication until the proper thing is done. Good you said you both are in love, then someday, you guys can get married. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Nobody: 8:34pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Lol @ in the world of sin .. which world are u in now ![]() If you love each other and she can die for you waiting should be easy then |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Divay22(f): 8:39pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Lemme look for Wi-Fi
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Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by BENZENE123(m): 9:02pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Nancypret:Thank you for that candid advise, I will inculcate that into my plan of action. Thanks again |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by BENZENE123(m): 9:03pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Boydehot: JESUS!!!!....How did u feel abt it afterwards​ |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by BENZENE123(m): 9:06pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
[quote author=Doxie69 post=54879822][/quote] Na wa o... |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Jodha(f): 9:10pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
How hard is it to have a "no sex relationship" with a lass ![]() |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Boydehot: 9:13pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Some part of me keep blaming myself, while the other says she is not faithful and trustworthy. BENZENE123: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by jejemanito: 9:22pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
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Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Ranchhoddas: 9:24pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
BENZENE123:Before I answer this your question... From what pharmacy school did you graduate? |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by BENZENE123(m): 9:29pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Boydehot:If that happens to my girl....I won't be able to forgive my sef at allll |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by BENZENE123(m): 9:30pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Ranchhoddas:Not important |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Nobody: 9:31pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Your post is childish just say you found another girl ... Did God say you shouldn't have a fiance aint you gonna marry some day..... Please search Google abeg.... If at all we are in those days with Israelite by now God would have deal with you cause God won't pity such.... Den if you dis Virgin a girl you must marry or God will cut you off his children Dont get me wrong me 2", i have dis Virgin a girl but i don't use excuses to run or cover my self 2 Likes |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by McBrooklyn(m): 9:41pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Ranchhoddas: 9:43pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
BENZENE123:I go keep my answer. Go and ask Jesus. |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Boydehot: 10:13pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
Although her mum told me she was too young then. but when i visited, she lamented to my hearing ''quote'' (how i wish u were the one that impregnated my daughter rather than that stupid guy). BENZENE123: 1 Like |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Omogbenusola(m): 10:21pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
[quote author=BENZENE123 post=54879125]Hello everyone, I am in deep trouble...I met a girl while I was in the WORLD of sin, I fell in love with her and promised her everything, I plan to marry her but that time is still far....Alot of chemistry happened between us and she lost her virginity to me and mine to her....I still love her diee and she loves me even more, she can even die for me Now the problem is that I have given my Life to Christ and I want to live for God. Please tell me how do i go about this and explain it to her that I can't continue in that life of sin without devastating her? I am a graduate of pharmacy frm a federal university and she is a year one student of nursing.[/bro you don't hve to leave d gurl oo , it was you guy's mutual decision to both lose your virginity, wrong? yes...but now that you're saved ,u should get her saved too , breaking up with her is not saving her , u may be unleashing her to d world of unexplainable sexual atrocities... so ur top priority nw should be how she would b saved jux like you ] |
Re: How Do I Break Up With I Girl I Disvirgin'ed And Live For Chirst by Marioplus(m): 10:51pm On Mar 23, 2017 |
INVITE THE HOLY SPIRIT INTO YOUR LIFE NOW IN A SPECIAL WAY TO HELP YOU ON THIS ISSUE. ONCE YOU CALL ON HIM, HE WILL REVEAL TO YOU HOW YOU WILL LEAD THIS GIRL TO JESUS CHRIST ALSO THUS "CALL TO ME, I WILL ANSWER YOU AND I WILL TEACH YOU, GREAT AND MIGHTY SECRETS YOU DO NOT KNOW ABOUT" {JEREMIAH 33:3}. I PRAY FOR YOU THAT THE HOLY SPIRIT MAY ENLIGHTEN THE EYES OF YOUR MIND SO THAT YOU MAY UNDERSTAND THE INSURMOUNTABLE GREAT POWER OF GOD AT WORK INSIDE YOUR LIFE AS A NEW BELIEVER IN JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN. GRACE GRACE TO YOU... 1 Like |
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