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Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by YourImaginaryBF: 11:42pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:Like Renee said, you never know which would be better until you're in it ReneeNuttall: It all depends on you to make it work 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by ElsonMorali: 11:44pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Yorubas have a saying Death is different from sleep o. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:46pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
YourImaginaryBF: On us buddy |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by ReneeNuttall(f): 11:46pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
YourImaginaryBF: U mean both parties involve right? |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by YourImaginaryBF: 11:50pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall: Tajbol4splend:In a case where one of the duo are no longer interested. Someone has to do something to calm the situation |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:52pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
YourImaginaryBF: Of course but in case of having a rebellious partner |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:54pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall: It works better |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by YourImaginaryBF: 11:56pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:then you try to change them. you don't just call it quits because you don't like somethings about your partner. there's no such thing as a perfect relationship |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by ReneeNuttall(f): 11:57pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:ok |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 11:59pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
YourImaginaryBF: I will not marry a girl that does not want my family 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by YourImaginaryBF: 12:04am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:there's got to be a reason to why she does not want your family, what if your family's attitude towards her is not pleasing but you both love each other? Would you leave her? |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 12:11am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend:Bros, don't let your babe see this comment oooo ![]() ![]() |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by mikolo80: 1:23am On Mar 26, 2017 |
tosyne2much:na dem no wan see |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by mikolo80: 1:24am On Mar 26, 2017 |
YourImaginaryBF:not by quantity quality time spent together |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by mikolo80: 1:25am On Mar 26, 2017 |
ReneeNuttall:na you no wan find out or you close your eyes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 1:26am On Mar 26, 2017 |
YourImaginaryBF: I trust the kind of family I come from, that's why I said it 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 1:27am On Mar 26, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Haha, lol |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 4:45am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend: I think people rush into marriage with the wrong perspective. Ladies always have that fantasy of a happy-ever-after marriage (too much of hollywood I pressume). Another factor is that people rush into marriage for the wrong reasons and when these reasons do not suffice, things may take an ugly turn. Above all,I would say that when a couple waste the entire period of their dating and courtship on copulation,pizza and shawarma,that marriage may likely develope some faults. My admonition is this: Marry your best friend cos at some point in a marriage,love might be lost,but friendship will get things going. Do not expect too much of your spouse. I am not saying you should downgrade him or think less of him,but appreciate his efforts though little...Appreciate his/her flaws cos there is no such thing as a perfect man/woman... Lastly,no third parties. 20 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Cusan: 4:54am On Mar 26, 2017 |
After marriage things are taken for granted 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 6:10am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Cusan: That's it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Abidx22(m): 6:36am On Mar 26, 2017 |
All but one major issue is left untouched which to me is the most important reason why a marriage might crumble without it seeing the light of the day. This hotcake for a successful marriage is PRAYER. We seem blindfolded by love and an atmospheric expectation that we fail to commit our affairs unto the hand of our LORD before forging ahead believing that things will automatically play out. My people marriage is not a movie or some Hollywood stunt but rather a reality show hanging around our neck. 7 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 6:45am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Juliearth: Almost looks like you mean love between two people fades but friendship they may have built lasts 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by AbdulKaybee: 7:00am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Well, some relationships are based on lust and not love.... After they're tired of the lust, the relationship ends. There are some questions they should have discussed before marriage. You can click on it to check out the questions. |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by jericco1(m): 7:12am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Marriage is an institution, thus very dynamic. Love is only a part of it. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Juliearth(f): 7:51am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend: Absolutely! |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by tosyne2much(m): 8:09am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Juliearth:Oooooh this is brilliant |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by dhardline(m): 8:13am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Abidx22: Prayer does go a long way especially if the foundation is built properly. Most relationships that start with sex can make both parties not to see each other's faults or rather think they can manage the faults. Marriage is really hard work and for me my major desire is to marry a lady who sincerely loves God cause when you really love God then you can be reasoned with no matter the situation. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:30am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Juliearth: I think I can afford your point |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Tajbol4splend(m): 8:35am On Mar 26, 2017 |
dhardline: Remember we have people who love God but who don't understand God's take on romantic relationships 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by dhardline(m): 9:23am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Tajbol4splend: Then that person is a hypocrite who only claims with the mouth to love God but with the heart despises His ways. Think about it, if you really love someone you will do everything possible to please him. You want to know more about him and will do whatever the person asks you to do. Now place God in that context. ![]() Hence the person will want and seek to know everything concerning relationships according to God's way. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by ReneeNuttall(f): 10:02am On Mar 26, 2017 |
mikolo80:Are you now saying u are a mind reader or a monitoring spirit?....I am not understanding |
Re: Why Do Things Change After Marriage? by Nobody: 11:08am On Mar 26, 2017 |
There's a popular saying - love is blind, marriage will open your eyes. I've always believed love isn't enough for marriage. Friendship for me is number one. Marry someone that compliments you. someone who balances out were you're inadequate. 2 Likes |
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