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I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by sam121(m): 1:06pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
We started dating since April 2016, she loves me and cares so much about my future and career but she has this habit of hurling abuse and insulting me, whenever she is upset or angry. She will always remind me of everything she is doing for me. Until she must have caused havoc and disaster with her mouth she will never rest. Now our relationship is threatened by this ugly act of her's. She keeps telling me she loves me so much, yet I wonder why she keeps raining heart breaking abuse on me at a slight provocation. The love I have for her has really depreciated, am so confused right now because am planning quitting the relationship any time from now. My wise brothers, please what do I do now? I have already introduced her to my family and she has done the same to her own family. |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:07pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
You need Jesus to appear physically to you before you know what to do bah? Continue, I won't advice you 5 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by vizkiz: 1:08pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Maybe when you die of frustration you will have sense. 8 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by FvckShiT(m): 1:10pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
movë the fück on |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by QueenSuccubus(f): 1:10pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Uuummm..... This remind me of that ugly toad But thank goodness I dodged the bullet... 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:11pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
vizkiz:and depression... That one can kill a man! 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by deathstroke(m): 1:11pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Break up! Is that so hard? |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Intrepid01(m): 1:12pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Hmmm...if she's this bad now...imagine when she don collect ring.....remember youre not JESUS, don't just think you can change anyone. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by TheRealestGuy(m): 1:12pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
sam121:Bro you need to let her know how much it hurts you and breaks your heart. Then tell her that if she continues you'll have no option than to quit the relationship... If she doesn't change, my brother dump her sorry ass, she's not ready for a committed relationship. Hope this helps... 9 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by vizkiz: 1:12pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
SorftWerk: I think the Nigga is suffering from low self esteem. Hanging with a girl who insults you is bullshìt 5 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:15pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
vizkiz:dude must have fallen yakataly in love lol, first love things |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by ojun50(m): 1:17pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Where did u pick that girl frm 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by sam121(m): 1:19pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
SorftWerk:How do you mean...? |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:20pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
sam121:Quit if u can't bear it, that's one hell of a redflag in relationship. 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by sam121(m): 1:21pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
SorftWerk:Seriously, am really depressed right now... |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by McMoly(m): 1:21pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
The love I have for her has really depreciated, am so confused right now because am planning quitting the relationship any time from now. And so have d value of d NAIRA, depreciated.. |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by sam121(m): 1:23pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
TheRealestGuy:Thanks alot bro, at least am bit relieved... |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:26pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
sam121:ofcourse I know you are! I've been there before, you'd better come outta it before it takes your head (you know what I mean) |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by biz2get(m): 1:40pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Don't Break Up, Do this... Delete Her Number, Her Photos, Her Everything From your Life And Move on... One day she will miss you and call you and you did be like who is this.? Nobody has time for this kinds of girls... Imagine this in your marriage? How frustrated would you bee then.? Guy... 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by prela(f): 1:41pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
we all have different ways of showing our anger, even if you leave her you need to let her know why you are ending it, so her attitude doesnt ruin her next relationship 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by dikeigbo2(m): 1:42pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
SorftWerk: Guy,you never cease to amaze us |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
OK, but does she realize that she has a problem? Is she willing to change? There's a saying that goes like, we're more hurtful to the ones we love. I guess because there are emotions involved. Every small thing strikes an emotional chord, causing one to lash because they're also hurting inside. Someone like that is usually in need of supportive people, even though they make it hard for people to wanna stick around. Many have given up, so in her mind she's probably waiting for you to do the same & when you don't, she'll keep pushing until you do, so that she can say "I knew it". It's not healthy & you don't have to put up with it- she's just a troubled person that is having a hard time dealing with her own emotions. Perhaps you should sit her down & come up with ways to handle her outbursts. Like taking some time away from each other to cool off when things get heated, etc. Validation also works. Own up to your part of the problem instead of making excuses & getting defensive. It escalates because maybe she feels unheard, ignored or like you're doing things on purpose to hurt her. Why she gets that way is where your answer lies. Nobody gets angry over nothing. Is it something you've had issues with before but keeps happening or is it a new issue every single time? Personally, I become like your GF when I feel unheard. Like if I say, without fighting, that I don't like when you do xyz, it makes me feel 123 & you keep doing it even after I have explained it to you nicely...then you must be looking for a fight in my eyes. I always regret it afterwards though but in that moment I don't care, I only care about what you've done & I will go on a verbal attack to get the frustration out. I'm working on it though. That's the most important part- being self-aware. 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:53pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
dikeigbo2:my teeth shine pass
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Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:54pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
ZarZar:omg! Did u write all these in a thread or u opening a thread IN a thread 3 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:55pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
SorftWerk: Because it hits closer to home, hence I have more to say on the subject |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by sam121(m): 1:57pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
[i][/i] biz2get:A friend just told me same thing now... 1 Like |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 1:58pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
ZarZar:you always pour out your heart on every matter, I hope you're not different outside nairaland cos I'd like to meet you someday.. Who knows |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by sam121(m): 1:59pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
prela: Okay... I will... |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by sam121(m): 2:00pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
prela:Okay... I will... |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 2:02pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
SorftWerk: That is the point of forums, isn't it? To exchange thoughts & experiences. At least for me, there's a time to joke & a time to get serious. Thanks for getting where most of my comments come from You're the 1st to get it You're cool too, so it wouldn't suck to meet you too |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Nobody: 2:11pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
The last babe I dated was just like this o.. I swear ooo.. No be person say make I get sense run for my life ooo.. Edo Esan gal.. She's good ooo but her mouth can render u useless... Lol.. Bye bye 2 Likes |
Re: I Love Her So Much And She Loves Me Too But She Can't Stop Causing Me Pains. by Sharingan: 2:11pm On Mar 27, 2017 |
Abuse in any or all forms (physical, emotional, verbal) should not be tolerated. it's about time you guys had a real conversation..... |
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