am 23, and have been dating my girlfriend 23, for about six years now..we started when we young and loved each other truly,i disflowered her...we even had a bible oath not to leave eachother...am from a very humble background,i jus got a job after months of sitting at home after nysc..during this months i was broke and jobless my girlgriend would always insult me, call me names for not been able to provide..she gave me different attitudes i truly loved her and i forgave her each time....she and her mum asked me to visit her church for prayer to get a job,a white garmenr church..many of you will understand the type of prayers they do there..i refused,,the mum was angry and stopped picking up,,my gf broke up with me..lo and behold after 2weeks of refusing the offer i got a job,,after a month my gf came back begging and i accepted her back..buh she doesnt care,,she gets angry easily,hangs up,hisses when i talk or so..have always talked bou it buh she never listens,,she doesnt respect me in any way and she loves fighting,,shes notthe type that will encourage a bf or offer words of support buh instead fighting..one day she lied to m,e and i caught her in the lie she apologised for a while and later got angry that she has apologised and thats okay that i should stop talking bou it..was like u offended me and still have a right to complain...mosttiimes i do the begging and geting back together..she wont just do it or care..its like i need her more...we had a fall out and a week ago i called her to see she said she was busy..till now i havent heard from u..maybe she wants me to call her and beg her so...v decided to move on...just dont know what to do if she comes and beg and note..i v no other girl

You disflowered her ...

Modified* Get another girl,the love is no longer there.

You do not need any advice. You are not yet matured for a relationship.

Why worry ursef when there are many fishes in the sea?

Move on with ur life...someone is already making her happy ...

The red flags are too much. This one won't give you peace of mind if she eventually becomes your wife.

Why do most of you tolerate disrespectful girls?. And what's up with these oaths here and there, in this era?.

Ballmer:
You do not need any advice. You are not yet matured for a relationship.

The nigga is a graduate o

dacblogger:
You disflowered her ...

Actually, she deflowered him.

Mr OP...you need to go out more and meet other people.

What's with this bible oath for crying out loud?

23years, and you started dating 6years ago.. That means you were just 17years then. Kids stuff I guess.

all this gf wahala

such woman can't give u peace in marriage ,just move on. and do u want to marry ur age mate? 23 and 23? humm and u guys started so early why ? pls move on.

skillfulrapper:
am 23, and have been dating my girlfriend 23, for about six years now..we started when we young and loved each other truly,i disflowered her...we even had a bible oath not to leave eachother...am from a very humble background,i jus got a job after months of sitting at home after nysc..during this months i was broke and jobless my girlgriend would always insult me, call me names for not been able to provide..she gave me different attitudes i truly loved her and i forgave her each time....she and her mum asked me to visit her church for prayer to get a job,a white garmenr church..many of you will understand the type of prayers they do there..i refused,,the mum was angry and stopped picking up,,my gf broke up with me..lo and behold after 2weeks of refusing the offer i got a job,,after a month my gf came back begging and i accepted her back..buh she doesnt care,,she gets angry easily,hangs up,hisses when i talk or so..have always talked bou it buh she never listens,,she doesnt respect me in any way and she loves fighting,,shes notthe type that will encourage a bf or offer words of support buh instead fighting..one day she lied to m,e and i caught her in the lie she apologised for a while and later got angry that she has apologised and thats okay that i should stop talking bou it..was like u offended me and still have a right to complain...mosttiimes i do the begging and geting back together..she wont just do it or care..its like i need her more...we had a fall out and a week ago i called her to see she said she was busy..till now i havent heard from u..maybe she wants me to call her and beg her so...v decided to move on...just dont know what to do if she comes and beg and note..i v no other girl

From what I can deduced it shows you ought to come to this world a woman, you are weak, you are childish and lagging when it comes to relationship matters...even if she cheats on you, she doesn't deserve your apology cause she sees you vulnerable. 2017 is a year of no chills, people like you still don't understand even if you move on to the next lady. Get a life you are a woman

Over to u Nairaland ladies cum n slay dis issue

Both of u are childish
una never mature. u still de do love
Stop disturbing her life, she never enjoy life
na only ogbono she de eat since
egwusi dey oo

Bible oath
Anyways give her a break

Dem swear for una with oath today?


And i don't know what you are still doing with a girl that doesn't respect you. Like my bobo will be talking and you go dey hiss, oya open to the book of respect chapter 1 vs 15.

Lol how people be sweating abt relationships makes me sick

skillfulrapper:
am 23, and have been dating my girlfriend 23, for about six years now..we started when we young and loved each other truly,i disflowered her...we even had a bible oath not to leave eachother...am from a very humble background,i jus got a job after months of sitting at home after nysc..during this months i was broke and jobless my girlgriend would always insult me, call me names for not been able to provide..she gave me different attitudes i truly loved her and i forgave her each time....she and her mum asked me to visit her church for prayer to get a job,a white garmenr church..many of you will understand the type of prayers they do there..i refused,,the mum was angry and stopped picking up,,my gf broke up with me..lo and behold after 2weeks of refusing the offer i got a job,,after a month my gf came back begging and i accepted her back..buh she doesnt care,,she gets angry easily,hangs up,hisses when i talk or so..have always talked bou it buh she never listens,,she doesnt respect me in any way and she loves fighting,,shes notthe type that will encourage a bf or offer words of support buh instead fighting..one day she lied to m,e and i caught her in the lie she apologised for a while and later got angry that she has apologised and thats okay that i should stop talking bou it..was like u offended me and still have a right to complain...mosttiimes i do the begging and geting back together..she wont just do it or care..its like i need her more...we had a fall out and a week ago i called her to see she said she was busy..till now i havent heard from u..maybe she wants me to call her and beg her so...v decided to move on...just dont know what to do if she comes and beg and note..i v no other girl

ARE YOU OKAY AT ALL?

She prolly felt u owed her coz u deflowered her or something! There was dis chick in ma school who expected me to be impressed when she said she be V....I was like..n so? She got angry n said I don't appreciate her.....had to tell her say being V is not impressive to me.....ur manners...intellect...n virtue are better valued than ur V status......she stormed out! She is also a troublemaker..... Never apologises n lacks manners...y d hell would I even date a geh like DAT coz she be V!

skillfulrapper:
am 23, and have been dating my girlfriend 23, for about six years now..we started when we young and loved each other truly,i disflowered her...we even had a bible oath not to leave eachother...am from a very humble background,i jus got a job after months of sitting at home after nysc..during this months i was broke and jobless my girlgriend would always insult me, call me names for not been able to provide..she gave me different attitudes i truly loved her and i forgave her each time....she and her mum asked me to visit her church for prayer to get a job,a white garmenr church..many of you will understand the type of prayers they do there..i refused,,the mum was angry and stopped picking up,,my gf broke up with me..lo and behold after 2weeks of refusing the offer i got a job,,after a month my gf came back begging and i accepted her back..buh she doesnt care,,she gets angry easily,hangs up,hisses when i talk or so..have always talked bou it buh she never listens,,she doesnt respect me in any way and she loves fighting,,shes notthe type that will encourage a bf or offer words of support buh instead fighting..one day she lied to m,e and i caught her in the lie she apologised for a while and later got angry that she has apologised and thats okay that i should stop talking bou it..was like u offended me and still have a right to complain...mosttiimes i do the begging and geting back together..she wont just do it or care..its like i need her more...we had a fall out and a week ago i called her to see she said she was busy..till now i havent heard from u..maybe she wants me to call her and beg her so...v decided to move on...just dont know what to do if she comes and beg and note..i v no other girl

OP get another geh.... Dah geh don't love you no more..... I had the same experience in skul . Mine started giving me attitude ryt after she realized she couldn't get me to do her bidding and stuffs

Aderola15:
Dem swear for una with oath today?


And i don't know what you are still doing with a girl that doesn't respect you. Like my bobo will be talking and you go dey hiss, oya open to the book of respect chapter 1 vs 15.

ur boo? lies

are u so dumb to be asking wat u will do. for a girl who came back afta realising dat tinx has turn out positive for u nd u asking dumbass questns. go hug her now

You started too early. You are both yet to really understand the dynamics of a relationship.

Move on. Bad attitude and character isn't tolorable at any level.

Benita27:
The red flags are too much. This one won't give you peace of mind if she eventually becomes your wife.

Why do most of you tolerate disrespectful girls?. And what's up with these oaths here and there, in this era?.

Lol... no mind them..
#Quaker oaths generation

Dude this is your time to run away. Don't look back, I know how this story might end if you accept her back. She will finally get pregnant and you will be forced to marry her, that will be the beginning of HELL: The Movie, she is just "premiering" the movie to you as a girlfriend, wonder what she can do as a wife! FLEE NOW!!!!!

Just walk out of the relationship, it's not worth it.

From your write up its obvious you can't move on with your life without this girl cos she's in full control of your life.

Bro. ..did u just say she attends a white garment church and you also had a oath with her ...? believe me or not ..Some candles are burning on your picture that's why you can't stop loving her . You are boxed man ...better run for your life bro

CuteJude:
ur boo? lies

You know him, don't you?

Your gf is in control of the relationship and you too weak. I wud hv adviced you to dump her behind, but u don't hv d balls

Benita27:
The red flags are too much. This one won't give you peace of mind if she eventually becomes your wife.

Why do most of you tolerate disrespectful girls?. And what's up with these oaths here and there, in this era?.

You get sense.. your signature speaks a whole lotta truth. nice one hun

You need to learn how to go hard on girls. btw, knock her ass outta ur lyf and move on. Plus u shuld neva allow pple to be too intimate with u to d point u start feeling you can't live without them. Live a happy life of caring less bro. #peace