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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by FearFactor1: 10:19pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
U be sr? |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by idbami2(m): 10:19pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
She confided in yyou, yet, here yyou are, broadcastin' it all for us to hear.. Wehdone, sir.. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:20pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
To be honest, I reserved this space so I can something to useful. But after reading, I realized how spiritual you are that any logical argument/advise won't mean a thing, all I can say is good luck and I hope you find the answer that aligns with your believe system. 6 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Ronaldinnioh(m): 10:20pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Ok |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by hotspec(m): 10:23pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Let her go for deliverance so the curse hovering over her can be withdrawn... But posterity will still judge her 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
It's not everything you say, should have kept this to her self. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by blackaxe78: 10:24pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Where is the wedding holding? Please post address of venue. Just make sure there is a lot of food and drinks. I will advice you at the venue 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by paulbets: 10:25pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Hausa marry their cousin... So The incest phenomena is a cultural thing and only of medical signifance because of possible Genetic disorder in resulting offsprings. 10 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 10:26pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
I see no big deal gaan sef, most especially if you're a Christian or Muslim. Afterall according to the claims of all fictional religious holy books, humans multiplied via incest. Cain gonked his unrecorded sister going by the Christian faith. We are the products of Cain gbhensing his sisters.... tosyne2much & Hahn àbí I lie 8 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by timojerry: 10:26pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Acidosis: Bro you killed it. Nice advice. Ogbeni Op, marry your wife 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by FRANKLAD1: 10:26pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
bro, dnt worry abt d past, the important thing is the love u av for eachother 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by rinzylee(m): 10:26pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Majikals: I wish she said it earlier... . Time has a way of helping one forget ills. This is one freaking month to the wedding. I would be visibly shaken 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by metrosexual: 10:26pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
I wouldn't bore you with the usual "she is a nice lady to tell you the truth" bla bla bla and all. True, she is a nice person to tell you but I would tackle this issue from your aspect, 80% of men can't stand remembering being aware of someone who had sexual contact with a woman they truly have feelings for let alone a lady that would be your wife soon. Can you live with remembering this fact? If you are strong enough to delete that from your mind its ok, but if you can't please pause things, because the person she had this illicit affair with is not just a random guy but a cousin, her family member whom you would surely have to cross paths with one time or another. So this boils down on you, if you belong to the few percent of men who delete such from their minds easily then you can go ahead with her, if your natural temperament is not suited for such then have a rethink. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by damola1: 10:27pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Why go to far china. Emir Sanusi's first wife is his first cousin and it's quite common among the hausa tribe. It's really no biggie. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by SmartyPants(m): 10:28pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Richy4: It shall be well with you my son. Let me add: "forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us" 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by fromnigeria(m): 10:29pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:If she has really, sincere and seriously repented, then 2 Corinthians 5: start from 14 till end. I give this on the ground that she is born again. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by t111(m): 10:29pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: You both can go for delivance in a delivance church coupled with fasting because def the spiritual implication still stands,an alter had been built on that regard so it has to be broken. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Lucasbalo(m): 10:29pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid:Good question. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by AntiWailer: 10:29pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: You have a woman with conscience. Don't lose her. Her mates confide in other people not the main man. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by cloudyskygrind(m): 10:31pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
t111:You people and alter. Smh! 9 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Akwaudene87(m): 10:31pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid:in some part of the north cousin marry cousin . Just doesn't happen down east 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by eleko1: 10:31pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
let bygone be gone.We are all a sinner and still have mercy on us..That us ur true wife. Dome girls in her shoes won't dare open up..Forget that spiritual thing.Abeg,let us know una marriage date/post the pinsure here biko |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by kratoss(m): 10:32pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
So dis is even an issue.... Is dis a cultural tin or religious tin cuz m very sure we muslims marry our cousins.... And in my dictionary incest shud be ur blood sister sharing both or either parents.. 7 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Alariwo2: 10:32pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Whaattt! you mean her cousin chooked her shuku shuku This one pass me |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by chloride6: 10:32pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Haoqi24: 10:33pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: Dude Isaac Married his cousin Abraham his sister Get over the fact that they just had sex and it was even before y'all met. Oga gboju and move on. You should even let her know there is no curse involved 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Cire80: 10:33pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
How old was she when she had the relationship? Was it a relationship or they just do it whenever they're left alone at home ? I know many guys that slept with their cousins at adolescent ages but for adults, that sounds more serious. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Jabioro: 10:33pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Old things has been washed away with the blood of lamb ..it happen when she had not realized herself and moreover she has no way offended you.. pains for what? what about the women you have bleep before you met her? She too need to be in pains because of your past.. Go ahead do your marriage, forget all the flimsy excuses.... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by IslamicRebel01: 10:34pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
The brain of black men. 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by repogirl(f): 10:34pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Shebi the relationship ended years ago? So what's the issue now? You people, always making an issue from nothing. SMH! 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by runsguy: 10:34pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Don't be worried, she loves you, you love her and God has forgiven her so who are you not to? Telling you is a sign of remorse so MOVE ON 1 Like |
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