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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by zubinike(m): 11:04pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: Guy respect yourself oh...if she confided in you in private, while seek an open consel? please sponsor me to marry her |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by 4C2215131: 11:06pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: That you're asking this question points to one thing; your marriage is doomed already. Yes, you love her (so you think anyway) but "this" changes everything. The mind is a formidable thing; mess with it at your own peril. You know already and no amount of wishing away or psychoanalysis can help you now. Do both of you a favour- let her go. why? from your statement that I quoted, you're trying too hard to forget her deed and I'll tell you this for free, it won't go away. As for some comments advising him to just let go, such hypocrisy doesn't surprise me in the least. It's the hallmark of NL. 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by eROCK247(m): 11:06pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Evaberry: |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by proffc: 11:06pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: If I were you, I'll marry her. But don't if you know you can't forget (it's really not your ish to forgive). Walk away or stall the wedding until you can emotionally deal with her. But I beg you don't marry her and make her suffer for what she told you. Let your love prevail, time heals everything and please don't revisit the topic with her in the future either, except she brings it up herself. Don't be vindictive too, you'll hurt yourself and your relationship with her. Love her for who she is, there's a beautiful future ahead of you. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by sorextee(m): 11:07pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
This thing is very common in d north... And there's nothing there (to them).... They even marry one another... One other tribe like dat are doing it too... But secretely... We all know about the case of how the son of an ex president caught his wife, sleeping with her father ND father inlaw.. I wont call names... Evrn if they said it was a rumor, I bliv theres an element of truth in it.... Op, continue with d wedding... Forget about the whole thing... E better say u know now, pass make u know later... 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by 4C2215131: 11:07pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Acidosis: Hear ye! Hear ye!! |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by CoolVoice(m): 11:08pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Candid advise. Be sure what you want to get yourself into bro. Well it's sad but the reality is there are a lot of cousins that have done same act but of cause who would come out to say it. Well i admire her bravery but then be very sure you're ready to get into the spiritual battle on her behalf and on yourself. I don't think she would want such thing to happen again with her cousin but be sure it's what you really want to do. Hence you might put yourself in unnecessary danger. It's Marriage; only if you love her beyond all that kindly go for it. But if your mind tell you otherwise.. please pull out. I don't know your age but you don't have to start your life with problems. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by lastmaster(m): 11:08pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:Are you for real? all ladies self, nawa for u guys.
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by chuksjuve(m): 11:08pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Alariwo2: Am sorry I made mistake responding... I should have checked your name.... I just did now, goodnight God help us |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 11:09pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
linearity:Of everything you typed, I disagree 101% at the boldened text. It's the society(collective of culture and to some extent religious beliefs) that frowns at it and not science. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by 4C2215131: 11:09pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Acidosis: Hehehehe...you crack me up...hehehehe 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by 4C2215131: 11:10pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Nelgenius4me: Will YOU do it? Simple question. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Keenysbojan(m): 11:12pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
0p are u stupid? Ooh you must be stewpid how on earth wud come to nairaland to seek for advise wether to go on or not, don't you know that nairaland is filled with low reasoning human being? Den go just poison ur mind and destroy ur life, mtshw |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Alariwo2: 11:12pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
chuksjuve: "christians" and oversabi.. it's better you run along if you don't have any meaningful contribution to make instead of telling someone in need to discard others with meaningful ideas. Just go to bed it's late already |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by braine(m): 11:13pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Majikals: I'd love such an honest woman. People like that are rare. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by 4C2215131: 11:13pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
FRANKLAD1: Liar! 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by chronique(m): 11:18pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
She is the type of woman I want. A woman who would tell me everything and not give me reasons to be suspicious. Such a woman, I'd defend with everything I have got. Nothing beats a person being honest and truthful with you. I think you should worry less, but join her in prayers. Everything would be fine. MIB1: 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by ahamonyeka(m): 11:18pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Evaberry:lolll I hail o |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by osayuwamwen(m): 11:19pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
no lady will ordinarily tell you this except it's an open secret, marriage is not sometin u just do only because you love someone, it's a forever stuff.. if I may ask for how long did you guys dated ?? y didn't she tell you this long b4 the marriage clock abi she never love you well that time.. she only told you now because it an open secret not just because she love u.. it's your happiness bro, I will advice u get someone better |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by kunlesufyan(m): 11:20pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Acidosis:Matured advice! You deserve one crate of origin. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by lastmaster(m): 11:21pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Keenysbojan:haba now, that insult too much now |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by fof1: 11:21pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: WHY WONT U HV ANY GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HER COUSIN,IF THEY HV ALL MOVED ON. ITS ALWAYS GOOD TO BE TRUTHFUL,SHE HAS DEMONSTRATED THAT. PLS GO AHEAD AND DO D NEEDFUL. FORGIVE HER FORGIVE D COUSIN AND FREE URSELF IN ALL TERMS. REM. ONLY GOD FORGIVES SINS AND DO CLEANSES ALL OUR PAST ERRORS. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Turbocharged: 11:23pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1: I will tell u mind. Althought u will not like it, but I will still say it. You are not matured enough for such relationship. A relationship where a partner can honestly confide in her spouse and expect him to stand by her NO MATTER WHAT. You have not gone in6o the marriage proper, you have started asking for opinion from strangers. What will happen if both of face challenges in future: like if she delay in taking in or she travel to her hometown and did not come back when she was supposed to. Your mind will bever be at peace. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by whizqueen(f): 11:23pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Omoluabi16:Baba le okan |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by 4C2215131: 11:24pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
osayuwamwen: You raised some very salient questions! If the disclosure was made cos of the marriage, then those lauding her honesty and whatnot have been duped! True honesty would see her coming clean way before now (assuming she didn't). |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by FreeSpirited: 11:24pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Joavid:I'm suspecting you....you might have done it before ,with this your holier than thou poo 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by luminouz(m): 11:25pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:U move past by forgetting it noni...bury it deep DAT u can't find it even if u want to!!!!! U have no idea how many worse shiiit her fellow gehs would conceal! |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by FreeSpirited: 11:28pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
Acidosis:Whats to be ashamed of? That your culture tagged it a taboo... does not make it that bad. What of countries that approve of such relation? What of the bible where people married their cousin, what of in Asian countries... What of our immediate northern brothers here and Fulani who marry their cousins....Abeg..everything is not spiritual, everything called taboo is not necessarily a taboo....sometimes, its just an unnecessary boundage |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by mazizitonene(m): 11:29pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
MIB1:don't marry her Bro....you will regret it in future trust me........forget this wayward children and kids with no real experience. marriage is not a tea party....besides I am sure she told u so u won't find out yourself.....or for her not to be blackmailed.......quit it...for your own good, for your good health, long life and peace of mind...... 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by rahdadaruyahoocom(m): 11:30pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
how is it an incest? its her cousin for goodness sake. not her blood brother. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Absoj(m): 11:34pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Davijunson: 11:36pm On Mar 28, 2017 |
LeView1: Thank you.. I personally don't see it as incest. incest in between two direct siblings. Culturally, it is wrong in this Part of the World... Spiritually, the Bible never kicked against marriage to Cousins... Isaac got Married to his Cousin Rebecca.... even when God gave Moses the Levitical laws in the Book of Leviticus, A lot of do(s) and don't(s) were given by God but nothing was said abt sexual relations with Cousins... I believe since our Culture frowns at it, that's why everyone views it as a Sacrosanct. |
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