jashar:
How old are you?

You working/have a business?

You still living in your parents house?

Do you have a confident/whiny personality?

Are you the type that will be waiting for a woman to bring you money?

Let's start from these ones 1st.

subtlemee:
Go get a job or handwork to show God and man some seriousness and stop waiting for manna to fall from heaven, you'll wait forever till you become a subject of ridicule

zealblinks:
If you dont have money. U can go to kiriri, kuje or brothel. You will find one....... You better double your huslte give the game what it takes nd 4get about settling down for now

I truly need an understanding lady that we can start a beautiful life together even if it means her supporting me to do something great. I want a woman that will believe in me and see that we can build a family together.

Please don't tell me such ladies are not here, where can I meet just one.

Perfecttouch:
i was at this same cross road 3yrs ago.
And I made that mistake though it's all a blessing now.
I had nothing on me and to make matter worst,I impregnated my girlfriend though unknowingly.
My brother,I suffered!!!
I have to do tipatipa introduction cos my fiancé family will not accept me without an intro.
I borrow tire.the beebee Intro cost me 80k
6months later,she gave birth.
Everyone abandoned me to source for naming ceremony's money myself.
Business was at a stand still. Nobody gree snap photo again.
Again I managed to raise 100k, my friends and some associate na dem suffer am sha.

Now comes that part that have always been hearing about.(pampers).
I use to think it was a fluke or overhyped.
90pieces of pampers, 3800 and it finishes in two weeks.
I almost died.
Wife has no job
Husband, a graduate no job, even handwork I relied on(photography) no gel.
I was living from hand to mouth.
Landlord's wahala,
Siblings pressure
Parents pressure
Child and mother's welfare priority
I have to rethink my life after all these.
Though it's not as worst as before but I thank God there is a bit, atleast 10% changes from before.

So my brother,with these little point of mine,
You should be able to make a decision.
INCASE MY STORY MOVES YOU AND YOU FEEL LIKE HELPING ME (COS I STILL NEED SERIOUS HELP) PLS HELP OOOOO.

Wetin be my own self, this beer again? Are you on auto refil?

shortgun:
Bros a woman by ur side is not what u really need right now....that's just the truth.

Even if you finally get a woman you will regret it later.

Viking007:

Perfecttouch:
i was at this same cross road 3yrs ago.
And I made that mistake though it's all a blessing now.
I had nothing on me and to make matter worst,I impregnated my girlfriend though unknowingly.
My brother,I suffered!!!
I have to do tipatipa introduction cos my fiancé family will not accept me without an intro.
I borrow tire.the beebee Intro cost me 80k
6months later,she gave birth.
Everyone abandoned me to source for naming ceremony's money myself.
Business was at a stand still. Nobody gree snap photo again.
Again I managed to raise 100k, my friends and some associate na dem suffer am sha.

Now comes that part that have always been hearing about.(pampers).
I use to think it was a fluke or overhyped.
90pieces of pampers, 3800 and it finishes in two weeks.
I almost died.
Wife has no job
Husband, a graduate no job, even handwork I relied on(photography) no gel.
I was living from hand to mouth.
Landlord's wahala,
Siblings pressure
Parents pressure
Child and mother's welfare priority
I have to rethink my life after all these.
Though it's not as worst as before but I thank God there is a bit, atleast 10% changes from before.

So my brother,with these little point of mine,
You should be able to make a decision.
INCASE MY STORY MOVES YOU AND YOU FEEL LIKE HELPING ME (COS I STILL NEED SERIOUS HELP) PLS HELP OOOOO.

Wetin be my own self, this beer again? Are you on auto refil?

DaddyNick:
Lol... @perfecttouch Wow your story even inspired me more. I really want to face it all and get made already being inside of it than making it and bringing a woman into it.
I want to grow and be well established with a woman I will respect so much for how much she stood by me and helped me grow to achieve alot

Joavid:
Do you know a lot of women are also in the same position as you and they feel the same way. Life is hard. Everyone is fighting for their own survival.
It wasn't like our parents time were an educated man or woman had high prospects of getting a well paid job.

People are more selfish about their decision of a partner this days cos no one wants a liability. and it's not just women, men look out for ready-made women too.


So, i understand how you feel. cos as social beings, it's normal that you need companionship but don't lose focus on what's important and have your priorities straight and with that I believe you will find your woman along the way.

Ineedinfo:
Op, why do you think a woman who wants to help you control your wealth isn't a helper? Let go of such mind set. A woman can help control your wealth through her business sense, her hard work, knowing how to manage resources available to her. Or are you simply saying you need an "already made" lady?

If the latter is what you are searching for, it could become a turnoff to ladies you meet. You may have found what you need already, yet your eyes are glued far ahead for already made ladies.