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Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by SmartchoicesNG: 7:49am On Mar 29, 2017 |
coolsegun2002: 1 Like
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Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by curvilicious: 7:51am On Mar 29, 2017 |
SmartchoicesNG: You've read so much o That's nice Thumbs up for you |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by eduevolutionnow(m): 7:51am On Mar 29, 2017 |
SmartchoicesNG:You are entitled to your own opinion and she is entitled to her own opinion. She has the talent and she is using it to suit her agenda, you can also get a pen and write what you feel is right. It as simple as that. 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Nofuckgiven: 7:58am On Mar 29, 2017 |
The white man already said it before. If you want to hide something from a Blackman put it in a book. The ones that are criticizing her do not even know the real truth and facts behind feminism! The worse part is they would never understand because they have chosen already not to. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by SmartchoicesNG: 7:58am On Mar 29, 2017 |
eduevolutionnow:You are right to an extent. |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Honesty007(m): 8:00am On Mar 29, 2017 |
She looks accursed because she is trying to upturn what GOD has laid down since the foundation of the world. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by willibounce1(m): 8:01am On Mar 29, 2017 |
all these noise won't change the fact that all over the world, women are not and will never be equal to men. You can be a feminist all you want, that's your problem. Sensible women can reach whatever height they desire if they work hard. A lot of women are doing way better than some men and men are not complaining . I think these feminist are just bunch of jealous people. 4 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by eduevolutionnow(m): 8:04am On Mar 29, 2017 |
SmartchoicesNG:Its all business my brother. How many people from Nigeria buy her books to read? She knows what her people want and she is giving it them. Personally, I think her books are pretencious and self serving. It won't stand the test of time. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Nobody: 8:09am On Mar 29, 2017 |
uncleabbey: lol..the proponents of feminism have changed her ideology of moral African,cultural and religious values of the naturality of Man and woman during creation. This opinion you talked about was acquired over there where is presently lives. I think she had been found to be a good human tool that can drive neo-feminist a gender in the black world. 4 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by comrChris(m): 8:10am On Mar 29, 2017 |
ElSherriff:both toiling is not suppose to be the excuse for this feminism wahala, was there any condition in scripture before women will submit to men? how many of these todays women are better than those wonderful women in scripture that understood where they belong and treated their husbands with all loyalty. ask any lady what she would love her husband do for her she will give you an unending list but will not know one thing is suppose to do for her husband. Hope she is not trying to be hypocritical? causing problem in many families and treat her husband with all loyalty..l respect all female but do much more better to the few wise ones among them 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by africandictator(m): 8:12am On Mar 29, 2017 |
so far a certain percentage of African women are still dependent on the men folk for finacial security, feminism will not thrive... honey! I need to make my hair! honey! I need to fuel! my car( car bought for you by your husband) I smh for african women!!! |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Nobody: 8:21am On Mar 29, 2017 |
ElSherriff: Gbam |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by elfico(m): 8:35am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Sciencs:More like a billion likes! |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by holyfather(m): 8:35am On Mar 29, 2017 |
eduevolutionnow:I bet her audience also enjoy being lied to. |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Ugosample(m): 8:39am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Nofuckgiven: Kai! I can't believe that I agree whole heartedly with you A lot of men talking here don't know what feminism is all about (equal rights and opportunities for both genders) Beneath all that noise they are making is fear, fear that they will lose their hold/power that the cultural inclinations here has made them believe that they have, and it's their God given right . But sorry guys, the cultural attitudes are changing real quick, and in 20-25 years time, things will not be the same as they are now, with women having greater control over themselves, and their choices. Unfortunately for you all, your noise cannot change it. 2 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Ugosample(m): 8:42am On Mar 29, 2017 |
willibounce1: What you said does not make sense at all. There is a difference between feminism itself, and Family relations between husband and wife, even tho the lines get blurred a bit when the husband starts bullying the wives 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by SmartchoicesNG: 8:43am On Mar 29, 2017 |
eduevolutionnow:Exactly. It pains me to see such talent go to waste 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by 0kp0nku: 8:44am On Mar 29, 2017 |
I have always sensed this hidden feminist theme in her books from the beginning which made me quite uncomfortable seeing young African women with them. Her themes are largely anti-family. 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by 0kp0nku: 8:46am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Ugosample: And the divinely-ordained family structure will finally be in complete shambles 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Nobody: 8:46am On Mar 29, 2017 |
I support chimamanda 1000% #WeShoulAllBeFeminist |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by willibounce1(m): 8:55am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Ugosample: So where is the sense in your quote. It's not a must you quote people especially if you don't know what to type. 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by 0kp0nku: 8:58am On Mar 29, 2017 |
All self-acclained feminists should please ponder on this. 1 Like
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Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Ugosample(m): 9:03am On Mar 29, 2017 |
0kp0nku: How does it destroy the family structure again The family structure in Nigeria for centuries has always been a scam, and the thing did not collapse because women bore the brunt, and we're supposed to keep mum, while The man does whatever dumb shit that comes to his mind Across Nigeria, there has been millions of women thrown out of their homes that they laboured to build with their husband for stupid reasons, such as inability to bear a male child (which the man determines Anyways Mother in law wahala Baseless accusation etc Men beating the hell out of their wives was also widespread, and cheating the woman out of inheritance that is due to her was also common, as the husbands family will deal a deadly blow to her in that respect, and its double tragedy because she is not entitled to anything from her father's place, so she is left to suffer with her kids, I see all these scenarios play out all the time over the course of my existence. What about the man sleeping around, putting the wife at risk of disease because the foolish man is doing all that unprotected? Go to some federal hospitals and see how some pregnant women faint on finding out that they are hiv positive courtesy of a Randy he goat they call husband Does this look like a proper family structure to you? And you cannot lie that these rubbish things are not happening on a large scale in Nigeria I'm a man, but I'm not scared of feminism because of I see it for what it truly is (equal rights for BOTH men and women) not subjugation of men, or annihilation. On a parting note, if you are a good husband to your wife, you will not be scared of anything, because the woman will know, and you have a loyal and faithful wife who will fight for you till her dying breath. No smart woman throws a good man away (how many dey market sef ) That's it 2 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Ngokafor(f): 9:07am On Mar 29, 2017 |
....Its funny how the average Nigerians who do not read books are the ones making noise...Her books are clearly for civilised humans in saner climes.... ...Deal with your numerous self-inficted problems as a nation dear Nigerians and leave Chimamanda alone.. ...Shallow and empty noise-makers everywhere. 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Ademoore07(m): 9:09am On Mar 29, 2017 |
"Feminism and Gender equality" I just hate those 2 topics. Btw, any future wifey who wanna claim gender equality In my own house must be ready to pay 50percent of our children's tuition and 50 percent of our house rent. Lemme come and be going 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by 0kp0nku: 9:10am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Ugosample: ^^^ You have just failed to draw the line between basic human rights and feminism. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by ElSherriff: 9:10am On Mar 29, 2017 |
In the scripture you talk about, the demand on women is to submit themselves unto their husbands as to the Lord...reading further down that scripture passage, the bible says the man must love his wife as Christ loves his church...implication is that the man must love the wife to the extent of dying for her because that is the extent of Christ's love for his church. So as a man, in addition to toiling, you must love your wife to even dying for her...remember, the scripture did not place this exact demand on the woman (Eph. 5 22-33), as earlier mentioned, whether the woman toils or not, you are responsible for her, you must love her to the death-according to the scriptures and because God is a master creator, he has wired the normal woman to become loyal and a appreciative of this. When you get a woman who equally toils as much as you do, the least of your worries should be 'feminism', 'equality' or unending demand for 'loyalty'. Barack Obama (who is one of the greatest men of recent history) is quoted as saying he does'nt even consider his wife equal, he considers her superior and my world, do you doubt Michelle's submissiveness and loyalty With a display of a woman's 'superiority' you earn a godlike figure in her eyes, whereas when you make her sub par, bro, she will keep striving to outgun you because she has superior convincing power. And that my friend is where the world has coined 'feminism' from. comrChris: |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Ugosample(m): 9:13am On Mar 29, 2017 |
willibounce1: Oga you are typing rubbish; but you are you proud in foolishness to admit it. Is it a coincidence that most countries that supress women are backward countries? Angela Merkel is a feminist, used to be a hippie, is the most powerful woman in the world today, yet is happily married. What that shows you is that indeed, feminism and Family relations between husband and wife, even tho they are not completely mutually exclusive, are on different lanes 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by Ugosample(m): 9:24am On Mar 29, 2017 |
0kp0nku: You see, you are the one missing it. I have been saying it that feminists have been fighting for equal rights for men and women, and you told me that I failed to draw the line between feminism and the same rights they are fighting for.... It's all about the rights It is feminist movements world wide that gave rights such as voting, reproductive rights, owning property and many more to women,, a feat that was unthinkable a century ago. But many of you men don't have an idea about feminism, all you erroneously see is a bunch of women wanting to usurp the "God given rights" of men to be at the top and things like that 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by iPopAlomo(m): 9:32am On Mar 29, 2017 |
ElSherriff: Another woman wrapper spotted... let me make it easy for you since you want to be so much a sisi... quit your job and let her toil alone since she's more superior to you... you be the stay at home father with the children... if she's still with you within a year... not fooling around... you're the real mvp... A man has his role... A woman her role... the day you make her take over your role... you cease being a man... you've lost your purpose... and you are useless... 2 Likes |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by MNDY(m): 9:36am On Mar 29, 2017 |
FEMINISM is what a female who thinks she knows so much vehemently holds on to upon discovery that she is in her own opinion "unfortunately" born a female into a world dominated by man. 1 Like |
Re: Your Book, Dear Ijeawele Is Dead On Arrival. Fan Tells Chimamanda On Facebook. by balladin: 9:40am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Women are created to do what a man cannot do. Some women stupidly forget this. |
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