cruzclinton1:
if is me, I most gun the gal down by all means

spiritual things you mean

thats what we calll beleja yan.

EgunMogaji:


It has to be the person that filed.

The girl didn't do it right.

What they do is get married quickly within days then promptly run into a wall, call 911 and claim domestic violence.

She'll then be qualified to remove conditions on her own due to domestic violence and then she'll be free to marry the other guy after an annulment.

This is a common immigration scam.

But he should contact department of homeland security office in Indianapolis immediately to notify them. http://www.in.gov/dhs/

linearity:
He should do three things:

1. File a petition with USCIS to withdraw his affidavit of support.
2. File another petition with USCIS Alleging fraud.
3. File a motion to annul the marriage.

The lady's status in the US will turn to undocumented illegal.

If he truly want to pay her, don't file the annulment and and don't file for divorce. She will still become undocumented but now also unable to remarry legally again.

There is no marriage to annul.

Also here is not like Nigeria, you don't need permission to divorce.

EgunMogaji:


Noooo don't murder them.

My prayer is for my enemies to be alive and well. That way they can see my success and cry tears for eternity

If you're an advocate of such saying Baami then I pray you don't die young bro...


Cry?? Na after they witness na e job wan start...They ain't keep the "Village People" tag for nothing

Funkybabee:




sister!!we are not a wicked person as you said, why would they fear us.[b]Is this not the type of oloriburuku useless girl who stained our white cloth with palm oi[/b]l and now another woman will fall hand wth that guy revenge, she also we think to revenge. that is how it will keep going rampant.

My advice for that guy is that,he should please forget and forgive her acts and move on with is life.One day I know karma will come back to her, and is olden days God they slow to repay, this our century na grab ur copy nowww!!!


vengeance is for our God

This is rather common these days. Including married women sleeping about and all her kids will belong to other men outside.
The man who travels frequently for work to provide her comfort and economic security will be blamed for not being around. I have seen these things happen.
It is not just an exception anymore.

And women are always quick to say "but men do worse". Nobody should pay for what others did. We are all unique individual beings.

alobright17:
I don't fear women,I do Deal with them squarely .I love women because they have one particular thing under there legs which I can't do without,so for that I need them but with wisdom not with asslicking heart.

Thank you bro

ifyain:
Never give a woman what you can not afford to lose. Only fools import women from Nigeria, it always never have a happy ending because Nigerians are dishonest and materialistic.

That makes it twice that I've been called a fool today. Some twerp in properties section called his father an old fool

another scam romance that a mor0n fell for.

Lekan1o1:
Somebody will just open twitter in insta account just be blowig lies

I rarely comment on Nairaland. But dude, If you think this is a figment of someone's imagination, then you're ''sitting on a looong tin". The heart of man is deceitful and desperately wicked, so says the Bible.

dacovajnr:
If you're an advocate of such saying Baami then I pray you don't die young bro...


Cry?? Na after they witness na e job wan start...They ain't keep the "Village People" tag for nothing

There's no death in my eyes and my successes have been coming in early in leaps and bounds.

EgunMogaji:


There's no death in my eyes and my successes have been coming in early in leaps and bounds.

Baami me no dey wish u death Oooo!

Love scam among naija ladies took a nosedive with the advent of Internet and mobile telecommunications. If I were the victim dude I will do two things to calm my nerves. 1. I will arrange for the kidnapping n beheading of the lady's dad for his ungrateful utterance. 2 I will resort to African justice and delete her with an egg in the most bizzare manner. Cant wait for karma cos its windmill of justice grind exceedingly slow. Ogun Oba will serve that lady justice.

omoplaycool:

Kai... Well said if to sey my mama never marry my papa ehhhhn. I got just dash you
But seriously.. You spoke my mind

Hahaha

AndyCole16:

Wowww. Creme la hot.
Whats up
You are from Cameroun?

Am cool.

Yeah am from there.
How re u doing?

thorpido:
Poor guy but him na mugu.
In this generation you have to be street smart.

oloshi everywere

that serve him right he is a fool, he even bought a car for the girl father as a what ? boyfriend right. the girl see the guy as not man enough

Mimzyy:
These are the kind of women that makes men say nasty things about women in general. She will soon get served what she deserves.

She will definitely! People are saying this is a fake Twitter story, I've seen and experienced something similar if not worse.


Most women are very dangerous!

This is what I call savage

Most ladies are deadlier than bokoharam!....so heartless!

Although I don't believe in Karma, but she would surely reap what she sows. She currently has a fiance visa, which expires after 90days of her entry into the States. This means she would be considered illegal if her so-called new boyfriend fails to get married to her.

The funny thing is that the oza bloke could be one broke illegal chap. Love with your brain abeg!

austinosita:


Pray make woman no show you!

You go wise up na.If i dey abroad,before i go fit file for woman,she don carry belle for me.

But wetin him wan make d girl papa do
All becaus3 of car

Ashleydolls:
There's no big deal in it, there are men that goes extra mile for ladies they're just dating and they still end up together

If u know the process of filing and all of that...u won't say this rubbish. The guy can have her deported if only he can find out where exactly she is.
She definitely as a 1 entry visa and must get married within 90 days or so upon entry to the States to who filed for her....
All the guy needs to do is to inform homeland and ICE.

The lady will definitely meet her water loo with the other guy.. It's karma.
And this one that feels hurt, should just thank God for revealing her true nature.
He should be calm and pray God gives him a good woman as a wife. And God will. Later in life, all these misfortune he got from this lady will be forgotten because he will be very happy and settled with his own lovely wife and kids.
It's just life

enemmo:


As in eh.

I don taya sef.

Things happen. My good friend afer taking his baby mama to US, the baby mama confessed the baby he did an elaborate naming and 1 year birthday for is actually not his. The guy just moved his things and left her in the house. Don't be quick to say stories are fake...many things happen. If u listen to radio wel, there is also a present case of a guy who lied to his fiancee...he lost his mum.and wanted to travel to stay with his family abroad....not knowing he was going else where to get married to another lady.

rill:
all this mumu twitter stories

Things happen. My good friend afer taking his baby mama to US, the baby mama confessed the baby he did an elaborate naming and 1 year birthday for is actually not his. The guy just moved his things and left her in the house.
Many nonsense happens that u can't believe. .

EgunMogaji:


There is no marriage to annul.

Also here is not like Nigeria, you don't need permission to divorce.

I didn't see the part where she is a fiancee.

That even make it easier...he just file petitions 1 & 2 and she is done...or do nothing during the 90 days window mandated by USCIS to get marry in the US and no marriage takes place, she is done.

I never asked that he seek permission to divorce, I said, he should file a petition.

A little side note, in some US state you kind of need the permission of your sponsor to divorce as their 'no cause' divorce law is so strict and sometimes your circumstances might not meet the 'no cause' divorce criteria....if you have an uncorporating sponsor in a divorce case in the US, expect it to drag on for years, it is always better for both of to agree and work things out ahead.

He would have been better off finding a wife in a strip club in America.

Ashleydolls:
There's no big deal in it, there are men that goes extra mile for ladies they're just dating and they still end up together

Don't mind the poster you quoted . I and my wife have been dating since when she was in primary school. Its almost 9 years now that i brought her over from Nigeria too. Infarct after her visa was approved i got UK visa for her because i want her to visit some of my family members in London, she spent almost a month with them until i told her that ''time is up because almost a month is ok there'', she came over to join me here, we're happily married with brilliant children now. As a matter of fact i went to Nigeria to bring her myself and i was even busy then in Nigeria so i told her to head straight to the UK and she will come and meet me in Ireland after few spedning weeks with my family members in UK, and i did not even step my foot at the airport as i was working and she took the cab home, that was her first time in the country. So i don't think its right to blame that guy just like that. It is not a crime to bring your girlfriend to come and join you in abroad. It is not crime. After all we don't know exactly what has happened between them. Some Nigerian Girls/ladies/women are still good.

In another way, some women are very dangerous seriously, but at the same time it could be a blessings to the guy because living with such a lady is deadly. I understand.