My wife want another kid after 3children each time I told her not to think of getting another child,she will turn it to fight....what do I do ....my first born is 8yrs ,second is 4yrs plus and the last born is 2yrs plus..... I will be 40yrs old next year and she is 32yrs old.... Is 3children not enough ni?....Im confused

More than enough for this buhari govt

Kinda funny woman,I have discuss about the situation of country n business instead she will tell me olorun lo wo omo( God can take care of child)....I'm just confused

Go and quietly do vasectomy and come back home and rest...she be suffering to do prayer and fasting for more kids while you enjoy your life quietly and happily

subtlemee:
Go and quietly do vasectomy and come back home and rest...she be suffering to do prayer and fasting for more kids while you enjoy your life quietly and happily

And when she gets to know? What would you advise him to do? Smh, Op, talk to her about it, didn't you guys do all these family planning sef before una marry.

Shossie:
And when she gets to know? What would you advise him to do? Smh, Op, talk to her about it, didn't you guys do all these family planning sef before una marry.

who would tell her pls
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adedejisy:
Kinda funny woman,I have discuss about the situation of country n business instead she will tell me olorun lo wo omo( God can take care of child)....I'm just confused

it seems you married a village girl


that is how their brains are wired

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subtlemee:
Go and quietly do vasectomy and come back home and rest...she be suffering to do prayer and fasting for more kids while you enjoy your life quietly and happily

Walai na d solution be ds...
me wey na 1 I wan born, bae don use 2 beg me taya but still on d mata.

op wait let me ask buhari

Shossie:
And when she gets to know? What would you advise him to do? Smh, Op, talk to her about it, didn't you guys do all these family planning sef before una marry.

lol Genesis 3:16

Seriously, do you have to bring this to NL? Should forum Members tell you what to do in your family?

You are the man in your home ,maybe it's time to remind her. Better still, Let her pay the bills for some months she will definitely understand.

After three children your wife still dey find jara. Op, you sure say she dey this Nigeria ? Omo merin laye change.

You better tell her to find a job and start reducing the pocket money at home that makes her feel so comfortable to be spreading leg and collecting sperm. Nonsense. Your kids are old enough for her to work so she can understand the value of money. You know what you can afford. Don't do it.

You wife is not only jobless, she's out of touch with reality and common sense.


keep her busy during the day, like a job or business. and enrol her in adult education classes during the evening.


Clearly, she needs both.

Op, God forbid what if something happens to you tomorrow? Won't these kids suffer. I wonder how some of you are so comfortable with a jobless and lazy breeder as wife.

Very simple!

Monitor your kini for the time being and leave her to pay more of the bills. Make the money scarce. Don't pay the children's school fees until they send them home twice, be late on the rent...form broke. She's indeed very funny. Let her pay more towards the children financially for now...let her see how it is. Good luck.

Just take her to a counselling unit abeg. If that doesn't work, slash the bills into two and tell her it's a friendly game. Make her pay the 50% for a while, next time you guys are in the other room, act like you're not gonna withdraw and watch her force it out with speed .

Am I reading a different post?
Where did the OP mention that his wife is jobless or not supporting financially? The way everyone is saying slash money.

OP, talk to her, take her for family planning classes or do a vasectomy. Women secretly go on pills when their husbands want more kids than they desire too.

Archaa:


who would tell her pls
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Marriage should be built on honesty, no matter what the situation is.

dingbang:
lol Genesis 3:16

The husband will still rule at last, so the husband's say is final.

My guy, you have to equalize abeg. 2 boys and 2 girls. Then wait for her to want more after that, that's when you sue her at her family court.

Shossie:
The husband will still rule at last, so the husband's say is final.

nope... She has her ways...

Shossie:
Marriage should be built on honesty, no matter what the situation is.

but in a situation like this where the woman is only interested in pumping out babies with out considering the economic implications


what choice would the husband be left with ?


What is your take on the part the woman insinuated that (children are trained by God) it's obvious she has no financial contribution to the family
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Pretend and act like a broke man for at least 2-3 months.

4 kids in this dispensation is tantamount to heartlessness and cruelty.

I hope you're already living in your own apartment? If I become a landlord, I will get you evicted from my house if all you can afford with 4 kids is a bedroom or 2 bedroom bungalow. Stashing 4 kids and guests in such is cruelty. Even Sardine has reduced the number of fish in that container to 2. Be like Sardine, be wise.

adedejisy:
My wife want another kid after 3children each time I told her not to think of getting another child,she will turn it to fight....what do I do ....my first born is 8yrs ,second is 4yrs plus and the last born is 2yrs plus..... I will be 40yrs old next year and she is 32yrs old.... Is 3children not enough ni?....Im confused

I think you have to sit her down. The main problem you have currently is that you did not plan. You have agreed before now how many child you wanna have. You have to keep talking to her. Give her reasons why three is enough.

baby124:
You better tell her to find a job and start reducing the pocket money at home that makes her feel so comfortable to be spreading leg and collecting sperm. Nonsense. Your kids are old enough for her to work so she can understand the value of money. You know what you can afford. Don't do it.

Please advice with respect biko, she is someone's wife. Because the husband brought his family issue out here doesn't mean we should disrespect the wife.

ststyreal:

Please advice with respect biko, she is someone's wife. Because the husband brought his family issue out here doesn't mean we should disrespect the wife.

Why don't you drop your own advice and get the hell off my mention.

Vasectomy to the rescue.

Thanks to you all for the advises and suggestion atleast I have picked out some of ur reply to me and I pray to God to give me wisdom to be able to deliver.God bless you all

baby124:

Why don't you drop your own advice and get the hell off my mention.

Huhhh!!! Lord have mercy!