Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by datimogal(f): 7:25am On Mar 30, 2017 |
why are igbo parent like this...it pains me alot i can't speak igbo fluently but when it comes to yoruba. I can make proverb with it , thanks to my ex i speak a little that is the only good thing that came out of our relationship at least i now speak igbo like 70% 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by uzoexcel(m): 7:26am On Mar 30, 2017 |
igbofocus: ignorant parents.............. we are gunning for the rebirth of NSIBIDI and AKAGU .... i remeber showing my chinese lecture those nsibidi characters and how wowed she was!
its igbo or nothing.........................
and we are gonna make it happen! On point 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Monk92(m): 7:27am On Mar 30, 2017 |
sirusX: Rising through challenges...
We need to change our mindset about how we treat our local languages, else it would become history to some families
Even some of those that travel abroad take time to teach their kids a thing or two about home of origin, language, culture and lifestyle N y shd it bother me if dey go extinct... D single most important tyn abt culture is dat it is dynamic. I dont have to stick to a way of life jst cus my forefathers did. The social environment under which they existed is very different from dat of my dispensation . They carved out a way of life that they thought was best for dem based on dis factor and i see no reason why i shdnt do mine as well. If they lived in the age that i am currently they probably wud av done d same. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by jpmoriarti(m): 7:27am On Mar 30, 2017 |
I call this inferiority complex. I can't understand why some parents do this. I see some igbo boys and girls here in lags who can't speak the language at all but can speak yoloba, I smh. |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by uzoexcel(m): 7:28am On Mar 30, 2017 |
TINALETC3: D story di 2 long biko ,me cn nt fit read it Stop embarrassing urself and learn to read 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Monk92(m): 7:32am On Mar 30, 2017 |
cstr151: I actually won't be surprised. I heard one overbleached igbo bimbo talking about how she would forbid her children speaking anything apart from pure correct English. The very depth of human stupidity and the zenith of brilliance and rational thought can be found in the igbo race. It becomes a serious problem when stupid people begin to outnumber rationality. She has every right to decide what language she wants to train her children with and i dont see how that makes her stupid. Languages have come and gone. Culture generally changes with time. |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by meezynetwork(m): 7:32am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Igbo's are the cause of their problems |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by lizzilicious(f): 7:33am On Mar 30, 2017 |
fault of the parents.needs to be checked |
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Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by mmsen: 7:35am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Yuneehk: I can totally relate. I grew up not knowing how to speak just Igbo at home and I'm certain most Igbos in the West were just like me. My church with mainly Igbos probably knew this and started Igbo lessons inside the church premises. They urged parents to release their wards so they could attend too and that was where I first learnt the Igbo Alphabets.
Moving on to Senior secondary school, I stopped offering Yoruba and switched to Igbo language and even wrote it in WAEC(how I passed is something I still can't fathom )
I was sent far away to the east to further my education and that was when I took learning Igbo seriously. I had roommates from Enugu, Nnewi, Owerri and even Ngwa Little by little I started learning though I sounded funny because some spoke their dialects and not central Igbo(Igbo Izugbe) and that was how I learnt.
Now if I'm conversing with any Igbo person, I use Igbo. Makes the whole thing fun and at the same time, I get to master the language since practice brings about perfection. I won't make the same mistake my folks made. My children must learn Igbo. The Yorubas do it so we should too. I'm not ashamed of my place and I'm proudly Igbo There are Yorubas who are the same, especially in Lagos - they speak English to their children so that they will be comfortable with the language at school. I just hope that all you people who proclaim to be so proud of your languages realize that the only way to keep them around is to make them useful. Ensure that real knowledge is transferred in your local languages rather than superstition and taboo. Translate vital books into your languages and they might last a bit longer but ultimately many of them will die off. Language is a medium of exchange that will only last so long as it is useful. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by divinelove(m): 7:36am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Tooo long abeg any concise version |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by LilTyRoNe: 7:41am On Mar 30, 2017 |
cstr151: I actually won't be surprised. I heard one overbleached igbo bimbo talking about how she would forbid her children speaking anything apart from pure correct English. The very depth of human stupidity and the zenith of brilliance and rational thought can be found in the igbo race. It becomes a serious problem when stupid people begin to outnumber rationality. So what exactly is your point sir bigot Just "looket" you,you cant even type without insulting. And you call other tribes stupid while your own is like peak milk "its in you" 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by chubbygal(f): 7:42am On Mar 30, 2017 |
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Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Kakamorufu(m): 7:44am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Monk92:
She has every right to decide what language she wants to train her children with and i dont see how that makes her stupid. Languages have come and gone. Culture generally changes with time. Ha.. see this one oooooooooo. smh |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by kelly72: 7:44am On Mar 30, 2017 |
I just came back from Igboland yesterday. I did not hear any English while there. Those who expect my language to go into extinction will have to die waiting up to their 20th generation, then Igbo will live on. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by 2npe(m): 7:45am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Which kind old story be this |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by castel428: 7:46am On Mar 30, 2017 |
ElsonMorali: I'm sorry to say but the demise of that language is only just a matter of time. I don't hate Igbo or anything but those who know, know that that is just the simple truth.
I've noticed that Igbos have an inordinate amount of inferiority complex to the white man. Hence they revere more than other Nigerians things associated with the white man.
A case in point. I've hardly met an Igbo person who proudly bore his/her native name.
Almost all of them bear English names as their first name proudly and insist to be identified with that name only.
I've dated an Igbo girl who sniffed at my native Yoruba name that I bear quite proudly and kept reinforcing her English name in the same sentence asking me If it wasn't beautiful and that If we got married we'd name our kids beautiful sounding English names.
I just smiled to myself smh Really hard for her. My broda u said it all. I am Igbo and I know how my fellow Igbo look at me when I mention my native name as my first name. Smh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Kakamorufu(m): 7:47am On Mar 30, 2017 |
mmsen:
There are Yorubas who are the same, especially in Lagos - they speak English to their children so that they will be comfortable with the language at home.
I just hope that all you people who proclaim to be so proud of your languages realize that the only way to keep them around is to make them useless. Ensure that knowledge is transferred in your local languages rather than superstition and taboo. Translate vital books into your languages and they might last a bit longer but ultimately many of them will die off. Language is a medium of exchange that will only last so long as it is useful. that's what I wanna say. as it is with the igbo, it's same with some yoruba parents. I just laugh and look at them like... is that some sort of achievement to you. am happy my parents raised us up speaking yoruba language. and that doesn't make us feel shy when it comes to speaking English language. as a matter of fact I passed well in that language more than those who spoke it 24'7 back then I school. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Adeyeye09(m): 7:49am On Mar 30, 2017 |
So what is the significance of this post in conclusion? ?? |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Adebowale89(m): 7:49am On Mar 30, 2017 |
and you will see people screaming rip English as if, is our mother's tongue
bibire ko shey fi owo ra, kosi ibi ti mo lo, ti ma gbagbe ile, ede mi, ati ASA
omo ogidi Yoruba ni mi, lojo kojo, nigba gbogbo |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by chrisjnr7: 7:50am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Davidflight: I bumped into this article by our own Ada-Igbo, Adaobi Nwaubani, and I just can't restrain the hatred I bear for some of our Igbo parents. That our language is nearing extinction is because Igbo parents in their incenssant quest to westrnise their children, refuse them the ultimate benefit of engaging their language of identity.
Often times, children are scolded or given harsh corrections by their parents whenever they speak their language. Here is a case that justifies this reality which is clearly ravaging our society and battering our identity as a people.
Read here...
"In our series of letters from African journalists, Nigerian novelist and writer Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani recalls how she was banned from speaking her mother tongue
My parents forbade my local language, Igbo, from being spoken in our home when I was a child.
Unlike the majority of their contemporaries in our hometown of Umuahia in south-east Nigeria, my parents chose to speak only English to their children.
They also conversed between themselves in English, even though they had each grown up speaking Igbo with their own parents and siblings.
On the rare occasion my father and mother spoke Igbo with each other, it was a clear sign that they were conducting a conversation in which the children were not expected to participate.
Guests in our home adjusted to the fact that we were an English-speaking household and conformed, with varying degrees of success.
Our live-in domestic staff were equally compelled to speak English.
Many arrived from their villages unable to utter a single word of the foreign tongue, but as the weeks rolled by, they began to string complete sentences together with less contortion of their faces.
Over the years, I endured people teasing my parents, usually behind their backs, for this decision. “They are trying to be like white people,” they said.
Similar accusations were levelled against Lee Kuan Yew, Singapore’s former prime minister, when he replaced Chinese with English as the official medium of instruction in schools.
But, as he explained in his autobiography, From Third World to First, “With English, no race would have an advantage… English as our working language has… given us a competitive advantage because it is the international language of business and diplomacy, of science and technology.”
My parents seemed to share these convictions.
Each time it was my turn to stand and read to my primary school class from our recommended Igbo textbook, the pupils burst into a giggling session at my placement of the wrong tones on the wrong syllables.
Again and again, the teacher made me repeat the words. Each time, the class’ laughter was louder. My off-key pronunciations tickled them no end.
But while the other pupils were busy giggling away, I went on to get the highest scores in Igbo tests. Always.
Because the tests were written – they did not require the ability to pronounce words accurately.
The rest of the class may have been relaxed in their knowledge of the language and so treated it casually, probably the same way a reckless Briton might treat his or her study of English.
I, on the other hand, considered Igbo foreign and so approached the subject studiously.
I also read Igbo literature and watched Igbo programmes on TV. My favourite was a comedy titled Mmadu O Bu Ewu?, which featured a live goat dressed in human clothing.
Speaking Igbo was also banned in the boarding school I attended.
The Federal Government Girls’ College, Owerri, was one of the country’s “Unity Schools” founded after the Nigerian civil war to promote integration among ethnic groups and to discourage divisions and tribalism.
Local languages were part of the curriculum, but speaking them beyond the classroom was a punishable offence.
And so, under the tutelage of some of the country’s best teachers, I continued my ardent study of Igbo, despite not having the opportunity to practise how to speak.
By the conclusion of secondary school, I was confident enough in my knowledge of Igbo to register it as one of my subjects of choice for the university entrance exam.
Everyone thought I was insane. Taking a major local language exam as a prerequisite for university admission was not child’s play.
I was treading where expert speakers themselves feared to tread. I still meet many Igbos who have been speaking the language all their lives, but are unable to read and write it fluently.
On the appointed day, presided over by supervisors in premises outside my school, less than six of us sat in the large hall, never mind that the exams were taking place in an Igbo town.
When the results were eventually released, my score turned out to be good enough, when combined with my scores in the two other subjects I chose, to land me a place to study psychology at Nigeria’s prestigious University of Ibadan.
In Ibadan, south-west Nigeria, home to the Yoruba ethnic group, I was free to speak Igbo at last.
Far away from home, from the giggling voices, and from those who did not allow me to speak Igbo, I was finally free to express the words that had been bottled up inside my head for so many years – the words I had heard people in the market speak, read in books and heard on TV.
Speaking Igbo in university was particularly essential if I was to socialise comfortably with the Igbo community there, as most of the “foreigners” in the Yoruba-dominated school considered it essential to be seen talking their language. “Suo n’asusu anyi! Speak in our language!” they often admonished when I launched a conversation with them in English.
“Don’t you hear the Yorubas speaking their own language?” Thus, in a strange land, I finally became fluent in a mother tongue that I had hardly uttered my entire life.
Today, few people can tell from my pronunciations that I grew up not speaking Igbo.
“Your wit is even sharper in Igbo than in English,” my mother insists.
These days, she enjoys it when I gossip with her in Igbo, although I still can’t get myself to speak the local tongue with my father who, despite being a typical Igbo man in many ways and a titled chief, has never regretted choosing English over Igbo.
Complete Reading: http://igbobia.com/?q=how-my-parents-banned-me-from-speaking-igbo-by-adaobi-tricia-nwabuchi.html #So pathetic.. i wish many igbos would come back and embrace their culture Davidflight: I bumped into this article by our own Ada-Igbo, Adaobi Nwaubani, and I just can't restrain the hatred I bear for some of our Igbo parents. That our language is nearing extinction is because Igbo parents in their incenssant quest to westrnise their children, refuse them the ultimate benefit of engaging their language of identity.
Often times, children are scolded or given harsh corrections by their parents whenever they speak their language. Here is a case that justifies this reality which is clearly ravaging our society and battering our identity as a people.
Read here...
"In our series of letters from African journalists, Nigerian novelist and writer Adaobi Tricia Nwaubani recalls how she was banned from speaking her mother tongue
My parents forbade my local language, Igbo, from being spoken in our home when I was a child.
Unlike the majority of their contemporaries in our hometown of Umuahia in south-east Nigeria, my parents chose to speak only English to their children.
They also conversed between themselves in English, even though they had each grown up speaking Igbo with their own parents and siblings.
On the rare occasion my father and mother spoke Igbo with each other, it was a clear sign that they were conducting a conversation in which the children were not expected to participate.
Guests in our home adjusted to the fact that we were an English-speaking household and conformed, with varying degrees of success.
Our live-in domestic staff were equally compelled to speak English.
Many arrived from their villages unable to utter a single word of the foreign tongue, but as the weeks rolled by, they began to string complete sentences together with less contortion of their faces.
Over the years, I endured people teasing my parents, usually behind their backs, for this decision. “They are trying to be like white people,” they said.
Similar accusations were levelled against Lee Kuan Yew, Singapore’s former prime minister, when he replaced Chinese with English as the official medium of instruction in schools.
But, as he explained in his autobiography, From Third World to First, “With English, no race would have an advantage… English as our working language has… given us a competitive advantage because it is the international language of business and diplomacy, of science and technology.”
My parents seemed to share these convictions.
Each time it was my turn to stand and read to my primary school class from our recommended Igbo textbook, the pupils burst into a giggling session at my placement of the wrong tones on the wrong syllables.
Again and again, the teacher made me repeat the words. Each time, the class’ laughter was louder. My off-key pronunciations tickled them no end.
But while the other pupils were busy giggling away, I went on to get the highest scores in Igbo tests. Always.
Because the tests were written – they did not require the ability to pronounce words accurately.
The rest of the class may have been relaxed in their knowledge of the language and so treated it casually, probably the same way a reckless Briton might treat his or her study of English.
I, on the other hand, considered Igbo foreign and so approached the subject studiously.
I also read Igbo literature and watched Igbo programmes on TV. My favourite was a comedy titled Mmadu O Bu Ewu?, which featured a live goat dressed in human clothing.
Speaking Igbo was also banned in the boarding school I attended.
The Federal Government Girls’ College, Owerri, was one of the country’s “Unity Schools” founded after the Nigerian civil war to promote integration among ethnic groups and to discourage divisions and tribalism.
Local languages were part of the curriculum, but speaking them beyond the classroom was a punishable offence.
And so, under the tutelage of some of the country’s best teachers, I continued my ardent study of Igbo, despite not having the opportunity to practise how to speak.
By the conclusion of secondary school, I was confident enough in my knowledge of Igbo to register it as one of my subjects of choice for the university entrance exam.
Everyone thought I was insane. Taking a major local language exam as a prerequisite for university admission was not child’s play.
I was treading where expert speakers themselves feared to tread. I still meet many Igbos who have been speaking the language all their lives, but are unable to read and write it fluently.
On the appointed day, presided over by supervisors in premises outside my school, less than six of us sat in the large hall, never mind that the exams were taking place in an Igbo town.
When the results were eventually released, my score turned out to be good enough, when combined with my scores in the two other subjects I chose, to land me a place to study psychology at Nigeria’s prestigious University of Ibadan.
In Ibadan, south-west Nigeria, home to the Yoruba ethnic group, I was free to speak Igbo at last.
Far away from home, from the giggling voices, and from those who did not allow me to speak Igbo, I was finally free to express the words that had been bottled up inside my head for so many years – the words I had heard people in the market speak, read in books and heard on TV.
Speaking Igbo in university was particularly essential if I was to socialise comfortably with the Igbo community there, as most of the “foreigners” in the Yoruba-dominated school considered it essential to be seen talking their language. “Suo n’asusu anyi! Speak in our language!” they often admonished when I launched a conversation with them in English.
“Don’t you hear the Yorubas speaking their own language?” Thus, in a strange land, I finally became fluent in a mother tongue that I had hardly uttered my entire life.
Today, few people can tell from my pronunciations that I grew up not speaking Igbo.
“Your wit is even sharper in Igbo than in English,” my mother insists.
These days, she enjoys it when I gossip with her in Igbo, although I still can’t get myself to speak the local tongue with my father who, despite being a typical Igbo man in many ways and a titled chief, has never regretted choosing English over Igbo.
Complete Reading: http://igbobia.com/?q=how-my-parents-banned-me-from-speaking-igbo-by-adaobi-tricia-nwabuchi.html #So pathetic.. i wish many igbos would come back and embrace their culture |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Nobody: 8:00am On Mar 30, 2017 |
We never appreciate what we have here, I don't just understand |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by repogirl(f): 8:06am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Why are some parents running from their native languages? It's sad.
You never know what you have until you don't have it. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Ugosample(m): 8:09am On Mar 30, 2017 |
This thread again Well, the sad truth is that MOST African languages will die off in the next 50-70 years, this is inevitable. Half of the languages that existed in the century before is what is existing today, and another half is about to go obsolete. And it is happening everywhere, not just in Africa Europe lost many many languages in the 19th century, (Gaelic, several dialects of French, the language of the Celts, even Welsh is quarter to die away) In Africa, many Languages in northern Nigeria are on the brink; because Hausa is taking over, and in the SS, pidgin is taking over. As for SE and SW; *sighs* Well whatever will be will be sha 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Ugosample(m): 8:14am On Mar 30, 2017 |
The only way to save our languages is that we should make an educational policy that will teach the students in the native languages of that state at primary school level at least, then have a good English teacher teach them English as a subject in primary school...
Then After that, secondary school should now be done in English, !then the native languages taught as a subject's in both public and private schools across that state.
That way, we will be grounded in many languages, like what the Ghanaians are doing. |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Ngokafor(f): 8:16am On Mar 30, 2017 |
cstr151: I actually won't be surprised. I heard one overbleached igbo bimbo talking about how she would forbid her children speaking anything apart from pure correct English. The very depth of human stupidity and the zenith of brilliance and rational thought can be found in the igbo race. It becomes a serious problem when stupid people begin to outnumber rationality. ....You just cant pass your message without being so angry and abusive....Being abusive all the time does not make you intelligent at all. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Ugosample(m): 8:20am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Ngokafor:
....You just cant pass your message without being so angry and abusive....Being abusive all the time does not make you intelligent at all. Don't mind him |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by enigma2007(m): 8:24am On Mar 30, 2017 |
mccoy47:
THOSE ARE NOT IGBOS THAT U MET! if I have met 100 igbos in my life, 95% bear igbo names! Even me as an igbo guy, I DON'T HAVE AN ENGLISH NAME! So go get ur stats right!
Some dont! But i always insist that i want to know the native name. It makes more sense to me when they tell me the meaning of the names and i wondered why some are hiding it. I love our native names especially the Yoruba & Igbo names (They are like prayers & blessings).. As for me, i use my full Yoruba name except you are murdering it too much then i will give you the short form. |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by Ngokafor(f): 8:26am On Mar 30, 2017 |
ElsonMorali: I'm sorry to say but the demise of that language is only just a matter of time. I don't hate Igbo or anything but those who know, know that that is just the simple truth.
I've noticed that Igbos have an inordinate amount of inferiority complex to the white man. Hence they revere more than other Nigerians things associated with the white man.
A case in point. I've hardly met an Igbo person who proudly bore his/her native name.
Almost all of them bear English names as their first name proudly and insist to be identified with that name only.
I've dated an Igbo girl who sniffed at my native Yoruba name that I bear quite proudly and kept reinforcing her English name in the same sentence asking me If it wasn't beautiful and that If we got married we'd name our kids beautiful sounding English names.
I just smiled to myself smh Really hard for her. ...Black people have an inate inferiority complex to the White-man and yorubas are not exempted..,Stop making it an Igbo thing only..If i had time,i would have given you countless evidences to proove my assertions... ...Igbos bear first names as English names,while Yorubas bear last names as English names e.g..Mobolaji Johnson,Tunji Braithwaithe,Yemi Black,Gani Adams,Funsho Willians e.t.c. ...Black people Worldwide have to emancipate themselves from mental shackles to the White-man....Its a herculean task,but achievable. 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by enigma2007(m): 8:26am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Ugosample: The only way to save our languages is that we should make an educational policy that will teach the students in the native languages of that state at primary school level at least, then have a good English teacher teach them English as a subject in primary school...
Then After that, secondary school should now be done in English, !then the native languages taught as a subject's in both public and private schools across that state.
That way, we will be grounded in many languages, like what the Ghanaians are doing. This could work if people are willing.. I remembered that i was beating or punished severally for speaking my native (Yoruba) language in a govt secondary sch! Infact the quickest way for your name to be written down as a noise maker is to speak your native language.. |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by discusant: 8:33am On Mar 30, 2017 |
Only very poor Igbos suffering inferiority complex could ban their children from speaking Igbo language.
I often laugh at Igbo parents speak English language to their kids in private and in public. Inferiority complex. |
Re: My Parents Banned Me From Speaking Igbo.. I Learnt From Yorubas ---T.N. Adaobi by oglalasioux(m): 8:36am On Mar 30, 2017 |
I'll prefer my children speak languages that will put food on their table. If the mother tongue can do that, good. If it can't, to hell with it. 6 Likes |