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Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by ekevwe(m): 10:04pm On Mar 30, 2017
The girl is confuse. My guy women are easily deceived by men mostly if they are emotionally down. Just let her be. Most rebound relationship crashes on time. if she love you guniuenly she will accept you back.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Taryur3(m): 10:06pm On Mar 30, 2017
FvckShiT:
jûst kéep fûcking her bró..Keep fûçking her
And you think you will make heaven with this advise...continue

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Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by noziz(m): 10:07pm On Mar 30, 2017
JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do

which kind useless post be this undecided

Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by dipznano: 10:07pm On Mar 30, 2017
Bumbae1:
Next time dont be too hasty to dump her when she became your ex the first time
You move right on...
Now ujust dey yama yourself .. why? In 3 weeks she already talking marriage with a guy that calls her constantly when she around you right..

Be smart
Let it go .. as e sweet reach you will find sweeter cheesy

OK... I mistaken checked ur profile, now I just have to follow u grin
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by talk2bity: 10:07pm On Mar 30, 2017
I know,it is easy but just 4get her
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Moj0: 10:07pm On Mar 30, 2017
Op don't keep us in the dark, what are those unreconciled differences​. Are they so gross you can't mention them or perhaps they are actually your shortcomings. When you come up with stories like this pls do give us the privilege of been explicit then we can lobotomize and dissect the issue for you properly.
From the little i gather, you caused it, that lady is looking to settling down, you didn't give her the opportunity hence shez got an alibi to go scouting bro!
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by jbhill(m): 10:08pm On Mar 30, 2017
she is taken.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:08pm On Mar 30, 2017
dipznano:


OK... I mistaken checked ur profile, now I just have to follow u ;d
Lol @ mistake grin
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by TinaAnita(f): 10:10pm On Mar 30, 2017
SNOWCREAM:
Okay it doesn't necessarily has to be a new friend, if he has old female friends... Well. Just an opinion..


Cool but I don't think that's a good idea as it will further push her away. If he really wants to have her all to himself then he should forget about making her jealous or something.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Topmaike007(m): 10:10pm On Mar 30, 2017
Humility017:

you wrote wisdom...God bless u.
everyone is quick to blame the OP...not the partner who upon two weeks of breakup found someone else...it shows she never loved him as he loves her...
OP move on...better days ahead
bro u are full of sense....dat gal never love him,she just use dat as an excuse to dump the guy.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by dipznano: 10:11pm On Mar 30, 2017
Bumbae1:

Lol @ mistake grin


my fingers know what I don't, I just don't know which of 'em to give the credit grin
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by SNOWCREAM(m): 10:12pm On Mar 30, 2017
TinaAnita:




Cool but I don't think that's a good idea as it will further push her away. If he really wants to have her all to himself then he should forget about making her jealous or something.
Yeah if he can do it that way too wink maybe you can help him with some "how-tos"
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by coputa(m): 10:13pm On Mar 30, 2017
JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do
mister man,you dated a girl for four years and she jumped into bed with another dude for just two weeks of disagreements between both of you.The girl is not a wife material,she's very loose,she will do same if she's your wife.Your are a lucky guy,let her go,if she comes back,bang your door on her face.free your mind,and get over it.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:13pm On Mar 30, 2017
dipznano:



my fingers know what I don't, I just don't know which of 'em to give the credit grin

Lol u funny ..
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:14pm On Mar 30, 2017
well, just cut her off and stop every form of communication with her.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Jammiiee(m): 10:15pm On Mar 30, 2017
I know say na dis Kin matter dey sweet una cheesy

She broke up and under 3 weeks, she's got a guy talking marriage. But u people fail to realise dt most times such relationships are dodgy. Within 3 weeks, a guy already discussing marriage, it would take desperation from a lady to jump at that, then at the end if it no longer works out, we know what the topic of such threads would be .

But looks like most ladies are susceptible to that word marriage that they forget every other necessary details. So many guys have used that same word to ' kumba' a lotta ladies angry angry
Bumbae1:
Next time dont be too hasty to dump her when she became your ex the first time
You move right on...
Now ujust dey yama yourself .. why? In 3 weeks she already talking marriage with a guy that calls her constantly when she around you right..

Be smart
Let it go .. as e sweet reach you will find sweeter cheesy
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:17pm On Mar 30, 2017
This is what you get when you put these girls on a pedestal by making them feel like they something special.

Tomorrow, when you wake up in the morning take a good look in a mirror and tell yourself that YOU'RE THE PRIZE NOT HER.
You love her, you love her, so? Just like every other walking vagīna out there, she's replaceable. Leave the bītch alone, way better days and dames ahead.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by dipznano: 10:18pm On Mar 30, 2017
Bumbae1:
Lol u funny ..
grin how are u now?
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by MrSly(m): 10:18pm On Mar 30, 2017
JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do
What is he saying? Someone should tell this guy that no sane person will choose wood over gold. Someone is talking marriage and you re here shouting I need advice while you talking girlfriend bla bla. Your bargaining power in this business has no real value.
You asked for advice? Go wed her before the other guy does so.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by mayorski01(m): 10:20pm On Mar 30, 2017
OP just gotta move on. you would never realize how many amazing girls are out there until you try. I mean correct, fine ones like bumbae1.
lolx. what is yours would come back to you, if it doesnt it was never yours
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by BabaCommander: 10:20pm On Mar 30, 2017
TinaAnita:
This is one reason why it's not cool to let issues linger before resolving them. If the other dude is really cool then there is no way she would let go of him. The fact that they are already discussing marriage poses a big threat to your relationship with her. I don't know whether to ask you to wait or move on.

Two weeks break up and you already seeing someone else...
No time for reflection or trying to see if things can be sorted out.
Forgetrit, that bumbea nobi wife material. She's a disloyal hoe like many of you so I'm no surprise you are siding her already. undecided
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:24pm On Mar 30, 2017
My deepest sympathy bro... As for the gurl,she's confused right now in a sense that she thinks it's time for her to have a serious relationship(marriage in view) but her heart still yearns for you.that doesn't mean you should chill coz you think she'll run bk to you...ladies nowadays no deh trip for love again o... If that dude older than her with 8years promises her marriage and she sees how serious he is,to garnish indomie the guy kom get small cash,mehn you're forgotten.One advice i'll give you is to call her or better still take her on a date,seem extremely serious,ask her to make a choice right there and then so you'll no watsupp. You go deh one day,you go hear seh she dn do traditional wedding.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by menwongo(m): 10:25pm On Mar 30, 2017
Maximus85:


Hard but true. If she can leave you for someone else once, you can do it again and again. You should have let her go. Time would've healed you by now.
And how are you sure they've not kissed or had sex?

My sincere admonition to you: FORGET HER.

One cold bear for you!
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by franby: 10:28pm On Mar 30, 2017
JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do



Nairalanders with there hilarious comments. Anyways, I suggest you move on. No need to turn back.
I can tell that the lady don't love you anymore even before you asked for a 2 weeks break. The unreconciled differences you have been having with her is a result of the fact that she was tired of you and she wanted you to cut the relationship off. Ladies do that most of the time. They frustrate the relationship and make you get tired of it so that you will request for a break. This is usually the channel most of these ladies use to move to the next guy. So don't put blame on your self and don't let others fault you.
Just stay cool, move one, Work on yourself and make the best out from yourself. The best lady for you will show up. There are so many sharks in the oceans bruh. Be courageous
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by 007s(m): 10:29pm On Mar 30, 2017
STEPS TO MOVING ON
step1: take alomo, ogidiga, action bitter and tramador mixture
step2: perform your role as a man
step3: when u are done, ask urself if u really wnt her back
step4: if u still want her back, then always make her feel she is d most important being in ur world, i swear she will forget dis new guy
step5: if u dont want her anymore, take same mixture in step1, then perform ur last rite on her with all might. then forget her
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:31pm On Mar 30, 2017
Sorry bro
click next button pls
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by alid8788(m): 10:32pm On Mar 30, 2017
my brother, quit the relationship, if she is in love with another, she is gone already, she can't love 2 persons. it's obvious her class is too high, please change school.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:32pm On Mar 30, 2017
stop wasting your time and move on. She doesn't value you at all. Move on now while you still have little value.

There are lots of babes out there... waiting for you.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by FvckShiT(m): 10:34pm On Mar 30, 2017
Taryur3:

And you think you will make heaven with this advise...continue

Wake the fúçk up dawg! Ít åint fúçking real
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:34pm On Mar 30, 2017
mayorski01:
OP just gotta move on. you would never realize how many amazing girls are out there until you try. I mean correct, fine ones like bumbae1.
lolx. what is yours would come back to you, if it doesnt it was never yours
Oga mayor grin
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by EzeeYFB(m): 10:35pm On Mar 30, 2017
JOEFY:
Hi. This a true story and I will really appreciate mature advice

I have been dating my gf for a while now (over 4 years). we broke up in September last year due to unreconciled differences among st others. Within 2 weeks of breaking up, she went out with a friend and during going out the friend hooked her up with a friend (who is 8 years older than her). My GF and the guy started talking and where even discussing marriage. After 3 weeks, I started talking with my GF and realized I wanted her back, it was a struggle but she agreed to leave the guy (they had not kissed nor had any sexual encounter in this time). roll forward 6 months later, I still feel she likes the guy coz the guy keeps calling her and asks if she has changed her mind.

I donno what to do and I need help with figuring out what to do. I told her not to hang out with her friend who hooked her up with the guy, but she says she cant, she even went out with him recently, which I got upset about

This issue has affected us and now we are not even in a stable relationship. she is effectively my ex. What should I do
haba guy u said she's effectively ur ex now, so Wat do u want us to do na, u Don conclude d matter na, y u no involve us earlier na now wen u Don finish work u won seek our consent.
Re: I Think My Girlfriend Is In Love With Someone Else.. by Nobody: 10:36pm On Mar 30, 2017
Jammiiee:
I know say na dis Kin matter dey sweet una cheesy

She broke up and under 3 weeks, she's got a guy talking marriage. But u people fail to realise dt most times such relationships are dodgy. Within 3 weeks, a guy already discussing marriage, it would take desperation from a lady to jump at that, then at the end if it no longer works out, we know what the topic of such threads would be .

But looks like most ladies are susceptible to that word marriage that they forget every other necessary details. So many guys have used that same word to ' kumba' a lotta ladies angry angry
true , but society aswell plays a role in the desperation smiley

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