OK, to cut long story shot, I got my Igbo girlfriend pregnant. we were in a secret relationship. Now her people knew she's pregnant n have told her to bring me.
I'm travelling to their village, she said I should buy 501 n a non alcoholic and also add some cash to present.
I asked what's the implications, she said nothing but some folks are saying that's marriage. And I already told her we may not marry ooo n she said no problem.

Actually, I'm not ready for marriage but since the child wants to come to this world by force, let him/her come.

Please, should I present the wine or not and please how do I handle this situation as I don't want to involve my family ??

urgent suggestions please

You're very irresponsible. The audacity to post such poo online is what weakens me the more. You are not ready for marriage but you were ready to Bleep without condom? You're nothing but an irresponsible upcoming bastard. Better go and marry that girl..

Smh.... Ever heard of the word "common sense"?

as u don't opt for abortion, God bless u.We all know that those folks from that side like awoof/ogogoro, please, give them.U can marry her later

sexaddict08:
OK, to cut long story shot, I got my Igbo girlfriend pregnant. we were in a secret relationship. Now her people knew she's pregnant n have told her to bring me.
I'm travelling to their village, she said I should buy 501 n a non alcoholic and also add some cash to present.
I asked what's the implications, she said nothing but some folks are saying that's marriage. And I already told her we may not marry ooo n she said no problem.

Actually, I'm not ready for marriage but since the child wants to come to this world by force, let him/her come.

Please, should I present the wine or not and please how do I handle this situation as I don't want to involve my family ??

You enjoyed doing it raw with her abi?I wish the govt can pass a punishable law that will lead to jail sentence for this kind of act.

You don't seem to be committed to the relationship, at least be committed to the he child. Pls start planning for it.

What if your sister came home with this kind of story you just told now, wouldn't you be angry.

OP use your 'kidney'

You no serious atall... You didn't know you weren't ready for marriage before you got her pregnant.

Hmmmm...orisirisi!

What you are about to do is not marriage. It's just you meeting your future in-laws. If you were going to do a first knocking, you need to go with a family member at least. Now, you are just presenting yourself as the man interested in their daughter.

Dude, wake up to your responsibility. When you get there, the family will ask you exactly what you want to do with their daughter especially now that you have put her in the family way. If them born you well, go speak shasha. Na then you go know say aye o pe meji.

sisioge shut up

op if you are not ready
You are not ready PERIOD!!!

Take the drinks and give them go with friends also to your girl place

if the baby comes you can contribute for the upkeep.
but has it passed d stage of aborting it??

Then later inform ur peeps of the development and make sure u don't take time to inform ur peeps

Chai! What an insult to the lady and her people you partake in unprotected sex and you open your mouth to say you're not ready and you also have the guts to say you may not marry her, if the child wants to come her/she is welcome? Just picture any of your sisters/female cousins/nieces coming to say all this from a boyfriend or bedmas sperm donor, how would you feel?

How irresponsible can you be? You must graduate from sperm donor to husband. If you were ready to do ding dong without the cheapest of condoms, you must marry. Time to Live up to your responsibility. No other man will do your job of being a father or husband.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...orisirisi!

What you are about to do is not marriage. It's just you meeting your future in-laws. If you were going to do a first knocking, you need to go with a family member at least. Now, you are just presenting yourself as the man interested in their daughter.

Dude, wake up to your responsibility. When you get there, the family will ask you exactly what you want to do with their daughter especially now that you have put her in the family way. If them born you well, go speak shasha. Na then you go know say aye o pe meji.

Hagahaha@ aye o pe meji

George22016:
sisioge shut up

op if you are not ready
You are not ready PERIOD!!!

Take the drinks and give them go with friends also to your girl place

if the baby comes you can contribute for the upkeep.
but has it passed d stage of aborting it??

Then later inform ur peeps of the development and make sure u don't take time to inform ur peeps

You had to shush her because you disagree with her opinion,you need lessons on emotional intelligence. Anyways one can deduce you and op are in the same boat,birds of a feather.

sexaddict08:
OK, to cut long story shot, I got my Igbo girlfriend pregnant. we were in a secret relationship. Now her people knew she's pregnant n have told her to bring me.
I'm travelling to their village, she said I should buy 501 n a non alcoholic and also add some cash to present.
I asked what's the implications, she said nothing but some folks are saying that's marriage. And I already told her we may not marry ooo n she said no problem.

Actually, I'm not ready for marriage but since the child wants to come to this world by force, let him/her come.

Please, should I present the wine or not and please how do I handle this situation as I don't want to involve my family ??

Your moniker says it all, that thing you love soo much is usually what brings about your downfall.
It's unfortunate that you were irresponsible enough to fuq skin to skin, you soo enjoyed the raw feel for the 5-10mins it lasted, you even enjoyed the glorious manly feel of shooting ur jeez deep inside her but no, common sense didn't tell you that prevention is better than cure.
You were carefree about her using a morning after pill, now you run to us responsible folks to rescue you from your misery.
A man that cannot take responsibility for his actions, shey that one too is a man ni?

Guys and flesh to flesh eh!!! you are not ready to marry her yet you couldn't afford a condom of #50. I wonder why girls won't learn. Why open ur legs without protection to someone that won't settle down with you tomorrow eh because of stupid love.Why do we always put ourselves into a tight situation that can be prevented easily?Two of U should sort yourselves out and always remember tomorrow o.Karma is so unpredictable, it might manifest when you didn't expect it or it won't even manifest at all.

sisisioge:
Hmmmm...orisirisi!

What you are about to do is not marriage. It's just you meeting your future in-laws. If you were going to do a first knocking, you need to go with a family member at least. Now, you are just presenting yourself as the man interested in their daughter.

Dude, wake up to your responsibility. When you get there, the family will ask you exactly what you want to do with their daughter especially now that you have put her in the family way. If them born you well, go speak shasha. Na then you go know say aye o pe meji.

thank you joor. no matter what I know I'll get a reasonable comment. please what do I tell them? suggestion? I no want marry ooo,

George22016:
sisioge shut up

op if you are not ready
You are not ready PERIOD!!!

Take the drinks and give them go with friends also to your girl place

if the baby comes you can contribute for the upkeep.
but has it passed d stage of aborting it??

Then later inform ur peeps of the development and make sure u don't take time to inform ur peeps

thanks. its over 3months but she's even trying her best to remove it. she's still looking for the safe n accurate method to use cuz she has tried different options n it failed.

sexaddict08:


thank you joor. no matter what I know I'll get a reasonable comment. please what do I tell them? suggestion? I no want marry ooo,

E be like say you no carry all your head commot for house. My advice , as e be say you no too understand wetin dey go on, be say go home and tell your folks everything. Let them know what you've done and what her people have requested of you. They will help you put the gist down nicely. Whatever you do, don't even think of going alone or by what you have upstairs! Alainironu omo!

sisisioge:


E be like say you no carry all your head commot for house. My advice , as e be say you no too understand wetin dey go on, be say go home and tell your folks everything. Let them know what you've done and what her people have requested of you. They will help you put the gist down nicely. Whatever you do, don't even think of going alone or by what you have upstairs! Alainironu omo!

if I go alone what will happen ? its not as if I raped her n she's not a teenager.

sexaddict08:


if I go alone what will happen ? its not as if I raped her n she's not a teenager.

Nothing will happen so long as you don't spew lubbish. The company is supposed to articulate for you...you don't seem well put together dude.

That girl wants to marry by fire by force or this OP is a troll. There's nothing like different types of abortion and it didn't happen. Then next step is to ask OP to bring drinks. OP you better go and buy her family drinks and do intro. Goodluck o

sisisioge:


Nothing will happen so long as you don't spew lubbish. The company is supposed to articulate for you...you don't seem well put together dude.

thanks. in that case, I'll tell them I want to marry the girl but need sometime.

sexaddict08:


thanks. in that case, I'll tell them I want to marry the girl but need sometime.

Good...you are fast catching up. Let them know you aren't financially buoyant yet but you would be happy to care for the kid financially pending when you gather enough to marry. That could still land you a shovel in the jaw anyways.

Bleeping a girl you can't marry... Maka-why

You guys should quit blaming this guy about condom.
If the girl is reasonable about her own future she should also insist on the condom or no sex.
9 out of 10 girls today will tell the guy to remove his condom.that they like it raw

Readonee35L:
You guys should quit blaming this guy about condom.
If the girl is reasonable about her own future she should also insist on the condom or no sex.
9 out of 10 girls today will tell the guy to remove his condom.that they like it raw

that's it.
we all know how this thing goes but some keep pretending because they're still not in trouble yet.

George22016:
sisioge shut up

op if you are not ready
You are not ready PERIOD!!!

Take the drinks and give them go with friends also to your girl place

if the baby comes you can contribute for the upkeep.
but has it passed d stage of aborting it??

Then later inform ur peeps of the development and make sure u don't take time to inform ur peeps

George22016 shut day fvck up.

If he's old enough to put a girl in a family way, he's old enough to carry the burden of a family.

So If the baby isn't long gone in the womb they should abort abi? Somebody please bring cane.

Silvererazer:
Bleeping a girl you can't marry... Maka-why

epp me ask him o...