Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

Have u ever confronted her before u open up here?



Cc smellinganus abegi cumma down hia..somebori needed u so bad ooo

Don't seek marital advice from people who can't keep ordinary girlfriend. There are bunch of immature people here

Ogoh123:
Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

she is doing it already bro... It's really surprising to hear your wife give such conditions to her boss, I'm very sure the man won't decline, bro your wife is being shared,you ain't digging her alone.. Take action now!

na wa ooo

There's nothing U can do

Involve her family,she will stop

Go and sleep with someone else and stop bothering us with your family problems!

I don't even have a girlfriend sef.......

I and Biggie were playing ludo yesterday when two guys and a lady came to us to solicit for funds for a charity organization.

The lady: Good evening sirs, my name is *** and my friends here are *** and ****. We are from ***

The guy: *** is a charity organization that caters for the need of the poor, hungry, homeless etc.

Second guy: We are here to get your support in a anyway you can. Money, food, clothes anything you can contribute will be appreciated.

Biggie: I don't have money or food to give.

The Lady: You can also donate clothes that you don't wear anymore.

Biggie: Anybody that fits in my clothes is not starving.

Me:

Ogoh123:
Dear NLs,
Good day all. I need your immediate advise on an issue. I have been suspecting my wife lately. This is someone I have never suspected since we got married since 2010. We have 2 kids. My wife actually works in one of the government agencies.

I have never suspected my wife but in recent times I'm beginning to doubt my wife. I called to have a conversation with her which she took personal and led to serious fight between us.

The main issue is this. I recently saw a screenmunched picture of whatsapp conversation between my wife and her boss in which my wife was asking for money from her boss and that if he gave her the money she would have sex with him. Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

Fellow Nairalanders, I'm very devastated but I need your advise on how to handle this with her.

You need not to put up fight with your wife, you are not alone, so many women faces so many challenges with randy bosses, they don't care or don't mind if the woman working with them is married or not, they do think with their penis rather than their God gifted brain, The do take unnecessary undue advantage of the opposite sex . Amicably discuss this with your wife, try to find out if she has that suspected challenges in her work place, show her that you are ready to work with her to put off that randy boss off the business by setting him up, She must find a way of getting his nude videos, speeches secretly, she will pass it to you, that enough, will threaten his job forever, get that video across to the boss after a month with another number that he will never suspect your wife , the rest will be a story, do not threaten him rather advise him to stay off girls/women that is not his wife or he will find that video in the internet, he will be surprise where the whole thing is coming from and have a change of attitude, but if he refused, try to get his boss number and transfer the video to his boss for an escalation, with that , the rest will be bigger story this time

Bro wat answer do u need again, I would have give an advice but I don't interfere in marriage affair

banjicom:
Go and sleep with someone else and stop bothering us with your family problems!

I don't even have a girlfriend sef.......

banjicom:
Go and sleep with someone else and stop bothering us with your family problems!

I don't even have a girlfriend sef.......

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that's y u are not supposed to comment on this ..just *open thread.. read ..close thread * ..

Just to corroborate this point, I had a laptop that I was not using, recently I logged on to it and I saw my wife's google search on the following: " My regrets after having sex with my boss", "how to relate with my boss after slepping with him"

There you have it! I'm sure as hell she fvcked the boss!

God.... Wetin women dey do these days, Shey I go marry like this so?

0p maybe u should try this simple trick
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tell her ur boss called u ..and he told u everything ..that u just want to hear her own version (keep a straight face) ..
that you just want to hear why she did it ..if breaks down in tears *bingo u got her ..if she still insists on "did what"..den just spill it .ehn just.go ahead and tell her ur boss told u .. put it on the man

@Vislabraye,read @Freewoman's comment and tell me what you think.
Morning.

Every damn d!ck crucifying the op's wife while the boss is seen as a saint?
I pity women

I am wondering, seems I am the only one who saw the part "My wife was begging her boss for money". Op,are you presently broke? For your wife to have gone that far in her begging paints a picture that she has been managing for a long while (Don't forget, I am not in support of infidelity).

Make more money OP and avoid discussing family matter in a Forum.

I can't tell you what to do. I don't know.
I can only advice you on what not to do.

- Don't blame yourself.
- Don't send her packing.
- Don't confront her boss or make threats. Never.
- And most importantly, don't put your life on hold.

A married woman who would offer sex to her boss for money is not worth keeping.

She's sleeping with him
Now on What not to do....
1. Don't fight her,it won't change anything.
2. Don't allow your kids know,they don't deserve the trauma .
What to do
1. Let her know you know what she did.
2. Find out what led to the whole thing(she'll lie anyway).
3. Try to forgive her (I can't even forgive a cheating gf).
4. Pray for strength cos this period ain't. Gon be easy.
Ehen.....once again,keep your kid's out of this pls.

Do you need a soothsayer

What happened to your old moniker?

Noblepreneur:
I am wondering, seems I am the only one who saw the part "My wife was begging her boss for money". Op,are you presently broke? For your wife to have gone that far in her begging paints a picture that she has been managing for a long while (Don't forget, I am not in support of infidelity).

Make more money OP and avoid discussing family matter in a Forum.

She's fvcking her boss because her husband is broke abi?
She's not a gf oh! A wife with two kids.

All these evidence, please keep them.. Then one night.. Get samsu or any Sex enhancement pill that can make you last ( that is if you are weak in bed) then fork her till she cum and cum again.. After that.. Then ask her, letting her know her boss already called you... I swear, she will confess remorsefully.. Forgive her and let it end there...

plessis:
God.... Wetin women dey do these days, Shey I go marry like this so?

i have said time without number that Love,Money,careing WILL NEVER keep a woman calm weather Married or not in THE LIfE of a man.
The only thing that will ever keep a woman Calm is
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THE GRACE Of GOD.
Slay queens who later gets married will live with them the spirit of PROMISCUITY.

Ab025:
A married woman who would offer sex to her boss for money is not worth keeping.

i have said time without number that Love,Money,careing WILL NEVER keep a woman calm weather Married or not in THE LIfE of a man.
The only thing that will ever keep a woman Calm is
:
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
THE GRACE Of GOD.
Slay queens who later gets married will live with them the spirit of PROMISCUITY.

kullozone:


She's fvcking her boss because her husband is broke abi?
She's not a gf oh! A wife with two kids.

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i have said time without number that Love,Money,careing WILL NEVER keep a woman calm weather Married or not in THE LIfE of a man.
The only thing that will ever keep a woman Calm is
:
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
.
THE GRACE Of GOD.
Slay queens who later gets married will live with them the spirit of PROMISCUITY.

QueenSuccubus:
Have u ever confronted her before u open up here?



Cc smellinganus abegi cumma down hia..somebori needed u so bad ooo

Boo, if everything he said it's the truth, then the chances are that his wife might have slept with her boss... I am really short of words on what to say because it's a very tricky situation... Worse case is that, his marriage is about hitting the rocks... So the best question now will be for the Op.... What if you confirm authoritatively from your wife that she cheated on you, what will you do? CC: ogoh123

SmellingAnus:
Boo, if everything he said it's the truth, then the chances are that his wife might have slept with her boss... I am really short of words on what to say because it's a very tricky situation... Worse case is that, his marriage is about hitting the rocks... So the best question now will be for the Op.... What if you confirm authoritatively from your wife that she cheated on you, what will you do? CC: ogoh123

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Him go try locate Lagon naaaaaaa

Ogbeni ur wife na ashana..look 4 girlfriend outside.anyday she catch divorce her straight..get a new responsible wife ..

Most times, when you think she has done it, she already has. Always trust your instinct!