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How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Thisis2raw(m): 3:40pm On Apr 07, 2017
You see a beautiful girl and your heart starts running faster. You want to tell her how she makes your feel or want to ask her out on a date but don’t know how to initiate a conversation. A lot of guys fear of starting a conversation with a girl or they just don’t know how to do so? Few don’t even realize this problem until they freeze when talking to a girl in the first meeting. Many can even talk for hours but they just hesitate to approach a girl for initiating a conversation. Every guy wants to learn the skill to start a conversation with a girl without hesitating and skills to have the great impression on her in the first conversation itself.

This social skill is not tough to master, with keeping few points in mind. You can learn how to start a conversation with a girl without having any flaws if you follow the steps..

Steps to Start a Conversation with a Girl:

1.) Make Eye Contact:

Making an eye contact will show her that you are interested in talking to her. A firm eye contact reflects your confidence. Make an eye contact with the girl you want to talk to also, smile if she looks back in your eyes. Eyes can talk without words. When you can’t talk actually talk virtually. Make sure to look directly into her eye but don’t hold the gaze for the very long time you will look creepy.

2.) Keep it Simple to start a Conversation with a Girl

The girl you are going to approach is obviously beautiful and is very used to get approached by many men. She might even be tired of hearing cheesy lines. So, all you need to do it to keep your introduction part simple. A simple “Hi”, or “Hey”, how are you doing would be enough. Keeping it simple would make it easy for her and would present you as a genuine guy who just wants to have a chat. She will also respond because to you because you did not ask anything bad or made a hit on her you just asked a simple question which she would not feel offended to reply to.

3.) Ask Her Questions

Ask her general questions like is she having a good time? Or does she like the place? These simple questions are the great way to carry on conversation and it also doesn’t harm anyone. These general questions would help you both to build a conversation. She will also not hesitate to answer these questions as it has nothing to do with her personal life or it also doesn’t show that you are hitting on her which will feel her safe to talk to you.

4.) Comment on Something

If you see anything which is worthy to talk about try to comment about it, do it being closer to her while she can hear you? Try to do it in a funny way looking at her so that she would respond back to you. For instance, if you are in a pub or bar you can comment about the music this will also give you an idea about her likes or dislikes. You can start saying “Oh!” this is music is so good it makes me feel I am already in heaven, don’t tell me you are an angel? She would not stop smiling hearing this and would definitely start the conversation herself.

5.) Compliment Her to Start a Conversation with a Girl

You can compliment her or give her gestures that her dress is pretty. Every girl loves to be complimented. She may start talking to you herself. Complimenting is the best way to initiate a conversation; it will make her feel good about herself and would also show her that you are interested in her. In places like restaurant or bar you can also write a note and it pass to her, looking beautiful written on the note.

6.) Start with a Fact to Talk to the Girl You Like

You can start the conversation by telling any fact about the place or about the food, music or anything in your surroundings. Which may be apt for the situation, don’t say anything which will have no meaning at that place. You can tell her fact about the cheese or wine whatever may be closest. Tell fact which is not very common and would amaze her. This would make her feel that you are a smart person who have good knowledge about things and who doesn’t likes a smart person.

7.) Ask Her Opinion

Ask her opinion about anything, asking opinion would make her feel important. This would also involve her in the topic. Getting to know her opinion would let you know her better. You can sit beside her and which drink you should buy or which place is a must visitor if you are in an office you can ask about which coffee you should try at the cafeteria.

8.) Crack a Joke to Start a Conversation with a Girl

Crack a joke when she is close. You can also crack a joke looking at her and smile at her. Your joke may lighten up her mood and her smile will help you to start a conversation. Be sure to not pull off any stupid or vulgar joke. Crack a decent joke; don’t try overdoing it if she doesn’t pay attention. Make sure that you are in her audible range before cracking the joke

9.) Share Interesting Story

Share any interesting story which happened in your life or anybody else or even can be a fake one. The interesting story will make her curious to know more about it. She may ask you to tell more about it. Before handed prepare any interesting story to narrate and narrate it while she listens to you. Make her attention turn towards you; if you can do that then it is the walk on the cake for you.

10.) Talk on Mutual Interest

You both like a thing then talk about it. If you are seeing her first time then talk about anything this may be liked by her as well. You can also talk about the mutual friend if you have any. You can ask about her favorite band or movie and can talk about it. Talking about topics which interest her will make her pay attention to the conversation.
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 3:45pm On Apr 07, 2017
And your parents will be happy they have a son. Not knowing you spent all your worthless life chasing underage girls.


Look a good poison and feed your self with it cos u have no usefulness in this life. Wasted fluid!
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by jhybosky(m): 3:59pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:
And your parents will be happy they have a son. Not knowing you spent all your worthless life chasing underage girls.


Look a good poison and feed your self with it cos u have no usefulness in this life. Wasted fluid!

haba..savagery...
lol
au did he deserve vhiz
lmao
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 4:08pm On Apr 07, 2017
jhybosky:


haba..savagery...
lol
au did he deserve vhiz
lmao


These kids on nl are really annoying.
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Nobody: 4:10pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:
And your parents will be happy they have a son. Not knowing you spent all your worthless life chasing underage girls.


Look a good poison and feed your self with it cos u have no usefulness in this life. Wasted fluid!

I clicked on your profile and saw your topics and I have to say you are a hypocrite

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Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 4:11pm On Apr 07, 2017
lovelygurl:


I clicked on your profile and saw your topics and I have to say you are a hyperbole

Craw back to wherever u craw from. I'm not on your level
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Nobody: 4:11pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:


Craw back to wherever u craw from. I'm not on your level

Exactly you are waaaaaaaaaay below my level

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Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 4:15pm On Apr 07, 2017
lovelygurl:


Exactly you are waaaaaaaaaay below my level


Kid, go and collect 50naira for puff puff From mummy as usual. grin
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by jhybosky(m): 4:16pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:


These kids on nl are really annoying.
lol
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Nobody: 4:21pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:



Kid, go and collect 50naira for puff puff From mummy as usual. grin

Yeah I can see the kind of aunt you are with topics like 'my bf bleeped me inside the toilet' and 'my pussy lip is getting fatter' mtcheeeeeew

Even 'should I do dreadlocks or sporting waves with my public hair'

Disgusting

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Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by pizzylee(m): 4:21pm On Apr 07, 2017
dz z a tin?, teaching guys aw to approach a Lady?.how to approach anyone not necessarily a lady is ur personality, time,mood,goal .
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by kullozone(m): 4:31pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:
And your parents will be happy they have a son. Not knowing you spent all your worthless life chasing underage girls.


Look a good poison and feed your self with it cos u have no usefulness in this life. Wasted fluid!

Stale! Not funny.
Stop trying too hard to be controversial.... Mumu pikin.

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Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 5:12pm On Apr 07, 2017
kullozone:


Stale! Not funny.
Stop trying too hard to be controversial.... Mumu pikin.


Go and change your diaper your ass is already shitty, bitch!
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 5:14pm On Apr 07, 2017
lovelygurl:


Yeah I can see the kind of aunt you are with topics like 'my bf bleeped me inside the toilet' and 'my pussy lip is getting fatter' mtcheeeeeew

Even 'should I do dreadlocks or sporting waves with my public hair'

Disgusting

Check your brain. ASAP!


Something is fishy with its functioning.
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:


Check your brain. ASAP!


Something is fishy with its functioning.

Aunty olosho respect your age
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by kullozone(m): 5:25pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:



Go and change your diaper your ass is already shitty, bitch!

This guy sef, where do you get all this your wack diss from
Bobrisky cheesy
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 5:48pm On Apr 07, 2017
kullozone:


This guy sef, where do you get all this your wack diss from
Bobrisky cheesy


Fuxck off!
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Fmartin(m): 5:57pm On Apr 07, 2017
really? all dis just to start a conversation? lol
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 6:03pm On Apr 07, 2017
lovelygurl:


Aunty olosho respect your age
na your mama I use Olosho resemble na!
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Nobody: 6:32pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:
na your mama I use Olosho resemble na!


Ehn a woman you don't know? I guess it's because you don't have a mum or she didn't take care of you, that's why you just said that ...hmm maybe that's why you even turned out to be an olosho .. or wait it could be a like mother, like daughter situation

Anyway doesn't change the fact that you are the aunty olosho of Nairaland

Why do you find it so difficult to accept your title. You are a cheerful giver, everything for free
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 6:50pm On Apr 07, 2017
lovelygurl:



Ehn a woman you don't know? I guess it's because you don't have a mum or she didn't take care of you, that's why you just said that ...hmm maybe that's why you even turned out to be an olosho .. or wait it could be a like mother, like daughter situation

Anyway doesn't change the fact that you are the aunty olosho of Nairaland

Why do you find it so difficult to accept your title. You are a cheerful giver, everything for free


Your father is a serial raper that rapes underage teenage boys and girls in the slum you reside. You mother is a product of incest! If you think I'm lying ask your mother if her father ain't the one that impregnated her for her to give birth to a lowlife like you.


As if that's not enough your mother brought you into the world of whoRedom. No wonder your bricklaying father offered your pussy to street urchins for just a stick of cigarette.


You daughter of a miserable pig!
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Nobody: 6:54pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:



Your father is a serial raper that rapes underage teenage boys and girls in the slum you reside. You mother is a product of incest! If you think I'm lying ask your mother if her father ain't the one that impregnated her for her to give birth to a lowlife like you.


As if that's not enough your mother brought you into the world of whoRedom. No wonder your bricklaying father offered your pussy to street urchins for just a stick of cigarette.


You daughter of a miserable pig!


Wow so you are also mentally sick
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Eveezy(m): 7:00pm On Apr 07, 2017
lovelygurl:

Exactly you are waaaaaaaaaay below my level
abeg, thanks allot for this
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 7:09pm On Apr 07, 2017
lovelygurl:



Wow so you are also mentally sick


Tell your bus conductor father that! grin
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 7:10pm On Apr 07, 2017
Eveezy:

abeg, thanks allot for this


Who is this gutter boy ass licker?
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by darbeelicous(f): 7:28pm On Apr 07, 2017
ah ah plz na, give what belongs to ceasar jare!! This one dey learn where professional oloshos like:
Ashawogir....l
Onil.....a the virgin
Whywhyogu...n
Dey na!! Don't blame her she never mature reach!



*yawns* lemme goan sleep before they come for my head!!! grin grin
lovelygurl:



Ehn a woman you don't know? I guess it's because you don't have a mum or she didn't take care of you, that's why you just said that ...hmm maybe that's why you even turned out to be an olosho .. or wait it could be a like mother, like daughter situation

Anyway doesn't change the fact that you are the aunty olosho of Nairaland

Why do you find it so difficult to accept your title. You are a cheerful giver, everything for free
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by benzene00: 9:04pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:
And your parents will be happy they have a son. Not knowing you spent all your worthless life chasing underage girls.


Look a good poison and feed your self with it cos u have no usefulness in this life. Wasted fluid!
your topics are worst

HYPOCRITE
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 9:22pm On Apr 07, 2017
benzene00:
your topics are worst

HYPOCRITE


Fucccck off!
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Marverick(m): 9:22pm On Apr 07, 2017
Thisis2raw:
You see a beautiful girl and your heart starts running faster. You want to tell her how she makes your feel or want to ask her out on a date but don’t know how to initiate a conversation. A lot of guys fear of starting a conversation with a girl or they just don’t know how to do so? Few don’t even realize this problem until they freeze when talking to a girl in the first meeting. Many can even talk for hours but they just hesitate to approach a girl for initiating a conversation. Every guy wants to learn the skill to start a conversation with a girl without hesitating and skills to have the great impression on her in the first conversation itself.

This social skill is not tough to master, with keeping few points in mind. You can learn how to start a conversation with a girl without having any flaws if you follow the steps..

Steps to Start a Conversation with a Girl:

1.) Make Eye Contact:

Making an eye contact will show her that you are interested in talking to her. A firm eye contact reflects your confidence. Make an eye contact with the girl you want to talk to also, smile if she looks back in your eyes. Eyes can talk without words. When you can’t talk actually talk virtually. Make sure to look directly into her eye but don’t hold the gaze for the very long time you will look creepy.

2.) Keep it Simple to start a Conversation with a Girl

The girl you are going to approach is obviously beautiful and is very used to get approached by many men. She might even be tired of hearing cheesy lines. So, all you need to do it to keep your introduction part simple. A simple “Hi”, or “Hey”, how are you doing would be enough. Keeping it simple would make it easy for her and would present you as a genuine guy who just wants to have a chat. She will also respond because to you because you did not ask anything bad or made a hit on her you just asked a simple question which she would not feel offended to reply to.

3.) Ask Her Questions

Ask her general questions like is she having a good time? Or does she like the place? These simple questions are the great way to carry on conversation and it also doesn’t harm anyone. These general questions would help you both to build a conversation. She will also not hesitate to answer these questions as it has nothing to do with her personal life or it also doesn’t show that you are hitting on her which will feel her safe to talk to you.

4.) Comment on Something

If you see anything which is worthy to talk about try to comment about it, do it being closer to her while she can hear you? Try to do it in a funny way looking at her so that she would respond back to you. For instance, if you are in a pub or bar you can comment about the music this will also give you an idea about her likes or dislikes. You can start saying “Oh!” this is music is so good it makes me feel I am already in heaven, don’t tell me you are an angel? She would not stop smiling hearing this and would definitely start the conversation herself.

5.) Compliment Her to Start a Conversation with a Girl

You can compliment her or give her gestures that her dress is pretty. Every girl loves to be complimented. She may start talking to you herself. Complimenting is the best way to initiate a conversation; it will make her feel good about herself and would also show her that you are interested in her. In places like restaurant or bar you can also write a note and it pass to her, looking beautiful written on the note.

6.) Start with a Fact to Talk to the Girl You Like

You can start the conversation by telling any fact about the place or about the food, music or anything in your surroundings. Which may be apt for the situation, don’t say anything which will have no meaning at that place. You can tell her fact about the cheese or wine whatever may be closest. Tell fact which is not very common and would amaze her. This would make her feel that you are a smart person who have good knowledge about things and who doesn’t likes a smart person.

7.) Ask Her Opinion

Ask her opinion about anything, asking opinion would make her feel important. This would also involve her in the topic. Getting to know her opinion would let you know her better. You can sit beside her and which drink you should buy or which place is a must visitor if you are in an office you can ask about which coffee you should try at the cafeteria.

8.) Crack a Joke to Start a Conversation with a Girl

Crack a joke when she is close. You can also crack a joke looking at her and smile at her. Your joke may lighten up her mood and her smile will help you to start a conversation. Be sure to not pull off any stupid or vulgar joke. Crack a decent joke; don’t try overdoing it if she doesn’t pay attention. Make sure that you are in her audible range before cracking the joke

9.) Share Interesting Story

Share any interesting story which happened in your life or anybody else or even can be a fake one. The interesting story will make her curious to know more about it. She may ask you to tell more about it. Before handed prepare any interesting story to narrate and narrate it while she listens to you. Make her attention turn towards you; if you can do that then it is the walk on the cake for you.

10.) Talk on Mutual Interest

You both like a thing then talk about it. If you are seeing her first time then talk about anything this may be liked by her as well. You can also talk about the mutual friend if you have any. You can ask about her favorite band or movie and can talk about it. Talking about topics which interest her will make her pay attention to the conversation.
all this one na story e be like practical Manuel instructions tongue if u wan talk to babe talk to babe nothing dey there o worst shit Dat can happen is that she rejects you after that Sarge on things don't always go the way you want grin
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Med4BasicBitch: 10:01pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:



Who is this gutter boy ass licker?
Basic LovePeddler angry spits STFU AND STOP TROLLING YOUR TUNA VAGINA UP AND DOWN
BASIC LovePeddler CALLING MY NIGGA A GUTTER BOY AWON OMO ALÈ N1
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by NgoziOkoli(f): 10:02pm On Apr 07, 2017
Med4BasicBitch:

Basic LovePeddler angry spits STFU AND STOP TROLLING YOUR TUNA VAGINA UP AND DOWN
BASIC LovePeddler CALLING MY NIGGA A GUTTER BOY AWON OMO ALÈ N1





Gay!
Re: How To Start A Conversation With A Girl? by Med4BasicBitch: 10:02pm On Apr 07, 2017
NgoziOkoli:



Fucccck off!
YOUR FVKBOY OF A FATHER IS TO BLAME THOTING FOR CAREER BASIC BITCHES** EVERYWHERE ON NL

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